Don't have sex with people you like easily. What is the correct rhythm of a relationship? There are many complicated philosophies in love relationships. We don't describe the same words in style, we must perceive and practice them in real life. Facing our favorite people, we are full of curiosity. Dopamine secreted by the brain keeps us glued to the other side. Can accelerate, can be red, can also be red. Don't be too quick. If you have a person you like, there is a kind of hypocrisy.

Love is a wonderful thing. Can always make two people unconsciously close and stick together. Especially in the early days of love, psychologists believe that two people who are beating each other will focus their attention and energy on each other and will be immersed in their world. At this stage, they think that love is ideal, even perfect, so they seldom quarrel at this time, but it is always in the sweet stage. However, after three months, the relationship between two people will be deeper, their true character will be exposed, and the contradiction between them will escalate. If this problem can be solved, it will play a forward-looking role in the future relationship. On the contrary, it can't wait until the initial period, and it will only become a confusing relationship in the end. Psychologists believe that you don't even have sex with the person you like, otherwise you will enter a false intimate love.

What's fake? Pseudo-intimacy is that many people are in a state of shallow emotional connection, and then they stop taking the initiative. In the film Perfect Stranger, there are several pairs of coupled "pseudo-intimate relationships". They played a happy couple in front of the outside, but rarely communicated in private, and even had sex. The host and hostess, one is a famous plastic surgeon and the other is a famous psychologist.

But through a simple psychological game, the wife learned that her husband had been seeing a psychiatrist, and the husband found that his wife had always wanted to have a facelift. Many times, there is a problem. We don't think we can actively solve these contradictions or frankly solve their psychological problems, but we will be "perfect". As blind people, they suppress their inner thoughts and seem close but don't know each other. Psychologists believe that "the ideal state of two people together is theoretical, and the type of security described is that two people feel released, trusted and safe, without anxiety or distrust, and then the interaction and emotional flow are very smooth."