Before I turned 30, what I wanted was education, career and family. At thirty years old, I don’t know if I can graduate from college successfully. Should I find a job immediately after graduation, or should I continue to study? Although these are not clear, I at least have a college degree, and I can be considered a more or less knowledgeable person with some academic qualifications.

I hope that no matter how long I go to school, I can find a stable job and a stable salary after graduation. I don’t need a very high salary, as long as I can support myself and have some leftovers. That’s it. It is best to have a job that you like and that is long-term. I can keep doing this job. I believe that everything depends on persisting in a job. As long as you persist for a long time, you will definitely get the rewards you deserve and climb to the height you want to climb. I hope my parents know that I have a stable job and don't have to worry about me.

The age I set for myself to get married is thirty, and now I can’t serve in the military, so I should get married earlier. Before I turn thirty, I should have my own family and my own children. I hope I am a lucky person and can meet the right person during this period. In that case, I don't need to worry about blind dates all day long like others, and after all, a girl is thirty years old, which is not a young age. She has reached the age where her parents should worry and have headaches. If you are still like a child who hesitates to make a decision, you will probably not be able to work normally even if your parents urge you to do so.

If possible again, I hope the baby will be one year old. Now I don’t want to get married too late, because if I get married too late, my baby will grow up and I will get old. I can't be too selfish and give up being a mother for my own freedom. If the above requirements can be fulfilled, then at the age of thirty, I will be a woman with both a career and a family.