My mother is also a mother for the first time. Please don’t blame her. A mother posted a message in the circle of friends, which moved me very much. There are too many things to be afraid of. I am really afraid of not doing well. I want to be a good mother.

Being a good mother should be the aspiration of many mothers.

But it’s really hard to do well.

We often hear in our ears, "How did you become a mother?"

The child has a cold again.

The child has lost weight again.

The child became disobedient again.

It seems that the woman who gave birth to a child was born to be a mother.

When something goes wrong with a child, it feels like it’s the mother’s fault.

How unfair this is!

How many people have seen the hardship behind my mother.

Every mother was once a brilliant girl.

Shopping, singing karaoke, partying, putting on heavy makeup...

But one day, when a girl knows that she is pregnant.

"I'm going to be a mother!" How do you feel?

I think I am more worried than happy.

Because a little life is gestating in your own body, what a responsibility it is.

I remember that my wife was just pregnant at that time.

Be cautious in everything you do.

We all pray to God not to catch a cold.

As a result, I still caught a cold, with a stuffy nose and a headache.

I took her to the hospital to see a doctor, and the doctor heard that she was a newly pregnant mother.

I took the medicine back immediately.

Some Chinese medicines have been re-prescribed, but we are still kindly advised to observe carefully.

If you can drink more water, rest well, and can handle it, don't take medicine.

In those days, my wife really took it.

I didn’t take any medicine, I just relied on willpower to win.

That must be the most unforgettable period for us and the most difficult period for my wife.

Just in time for summer, I went to the hospital for a checkup and was told to lie still for half a month.

We have just started working again and are still living in a rented penthouse.

Sultry and worried, I nurtured this little life with great care.

It is not easy to think about it now.

A girl who was once delicate and weak slowly disappeared.

A new mother grows up slowly.

Being a mother, once you start, will last a lifetime.

Every mother is the bravest warrior in the universe.

I remember that I was in the delivery room, and I was always accompanying her.

You can see big beads of sweat oozing out from my wife’s forehead.

This was the first time I saw her in such pain but unable to do anything.

I can only hold her hand and hold it tightly, hoping to convey a little strength.

The pain and danger of childbirth is how every mother spends her life to welcome the arrival of a new life.

The real test for mothers is the long but short road of raising children in the future.

The first year was the hardest.

How to hold the child?

How to breastfeed without squeezing the child?

Why is the child crying again?

The child should be fed What kind of complementary food should I order?

What should I do if my child hasn’t pooped for a few days?

We often see an anxious new mother with question marks on her face and her hands full.

Mom is also a mother for the first time. Please wait for her and help her.

Don’t think that all mothers who have children are born to take care of them.

So when my wife is afraid of hurting this new-born soft baby.

The job of changing diapers fell on me, a bold dad and an experienced grandma.

Don’t blame a new mother for not being able to hold her baby by herself.

She just needs a process to slowly learn how to hold up this small and delicate life.

When the child reaches the age where he can run and jump.

Will children like kindergarten?

What should I do if my children fight?

What should I do if my children are bullied?

Why are children timid? ?

Why does the child have such a bad temper?

What should I do if the child is sick?

Such questions make mothers even more worried.

After raising children for several years, I discovered that no matter how good the parenting theory is, it cannot handle the ever-changing reality.

Every experience requires time and energy, and there are so many worries, heartaches and tears in between.

When a child is sick, the mother wishes she would be sick and hopes that the child will get better soon.

I consulted again and again, and anxiously observed the medication.

I remember that my son once contracted hand, foot and mouth disease because he was wasted time at his grandma's house in the countryside.

When we arrived at the Municipal Maternity and Children’s Hospital, the doctor did an examination and told us whether we should call an ambulance to go to the Provincial Children’s Hospital.

As soon as we heard the word ambulance, we were stunned.

But I firmly said in front of my wife that it was not that serious and we would go alone.

But with a drum in his heart, he hugged his son and ran over quickly.

The thin children on the road pointed excitedly when they saw the scenery of high-rise buildings.

I forced a smile to give him.

Tears quietly burst out of my mother's eyes.

On the road to raising a baby, you are tested again and again, just like rushing to the battlefield. You cannot back down.

Just for the children to grow up healthily and safely.

When the child grows up, will the mother be able to rest assured?

How to improve children’s academic performance?

What to do if a child falls in love early?

How to deal with the rebellious period?

The child becomes bad What to do?

More worries came.

How can a mother’s weak shoulders bear it?

Every mother has her own way of loving her children, and sometimes she seems particularly nagging.

Every time I take my son to take a bath.

When getting dressed, my wife always asks her son:

"Have you washed your face?"

"Have you washed your neck?"

I can’t laugh or cry every time.

My son also thinks his mother is too nagging.

How can I not wash my neck when taking a bath?

But what is the result?

Sometimes I wash the front of my son’s neck.

There is still a string of black pearl necklace looming on the back of the neck.

I understand, don’t dislike your mother’s nagging.

That’s because my mother is more careful.

Every mother loves her children.

But love does not mean that mothers are not tired.

Pain and happiness should be the most real feeling of every mother.

When you see a mother holding her child happily playing in the park, it is a beautiful picture.

But only those who have raised children will understand the bitterness behind it.

Don’t ask me how this father knows?

Because in the process of raising my own children, I really feel the feelings of mothers.

Mom cannot be allowed to fight alone on this road.

Needs the warmth and love of family.

Need understanding and support.

When a mother loses her temper with her son, the son will become angry and turn away.

I will comfort my son and say:

"It's wrong for mom to lose her temper. We can talk to her about it.

But don't be angry with your mother, because Mom is the person who loves you most in the world. ”

Every Mother’s Day, we should not only have greetings on that day.

But it should be the steady flow of water every day that can make mother really happy.

My child, this is my first time, so please don’t blame her.

You must love her well. If you want to add a time limit,

I hope it is: for a lifetime...