I saw a female audience member taking photos on the stage.

Her shoulders and calves were tight and her waist was straight.

Her waistcoat line was exposed. And deep V’s career line.

Hong Kong Zhen, even though I am a woman, my eyes can't help but stay on her for a long time.

I said to the male friend next to me: This girl has such a good figure! (Dooling.jpg)

My friend said quietly: I do have a good figure, but my face is not good-looking.

I immediately sighed: Oh my god, you (men) are too strict in your evaluation of women!

One sentence explains the reality:

This world is always very strict with adult women

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is harsh.

As a student, you need to be well behaved and obedient.

For women, whether they are girls or adults,

Being obedient and obedient is one of the eternal evaluation criteria.

Study, be a good student, and strive to get high scores. Of course, I quite agree with this. After all, knowledge changes destiny.

As an adult, she will also be a well-behaved and obedient woman.

For example, go to get off work on time, don’t come home late at night, don’t go to bars, don’t dye your hair, don’t do your nails, don’t wear weird clothes (such as ripped jeans ~ I think of my mother always complaining about my pants)

Anyway, just be the quiet woman she was during the Republic of China.

As a job seeker, you need stability.

I believe that 80% of parents will sincerely advise their daughters that it is best for girls to have a stable and stable career. Such as civil servants, teachers, lawyers, and doctors. I feel that this is the most suitable career for girls.

We all understand the truth, but babies can’t do it~

The civil service exam is difficult, teachers need to be patient, and the scores for lawyers and doctors are not high enough...

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As a girlfriend, you need to be good-looking and not fat.

In this beauty-loving age,

When looking for a job, a boyfriend, or a husband, the first thing you look at is often: Look at the face

Good-looking. Try to find ways to look better;

What is inherently deficient can be remedied through acquired adjustments.

Oh, by the way, you can’t be too fat!

Therefore, there are more plastic surgery institutions than banks.

I heard that some girls even take out loans to have plastic surgery...

Looking good has become a necessity in this era.

As a wife, you must be virtuous.

According to traditional national conditions, the essential requirement for a wife is to be virtuous.

In addition to the above-mentioned living room, you also need to be able to cook, honor your parents-in-law, take care of the housework, and be the CEO of the family.

Before my friend got married, he was a kitchen idiot, the type who could burn his hands even when boiling water.

After marriage, northern steamed buns, southern dumplings, Japanese sushi, French bakery, Cantonese barbecued pork,

turned into an expert in private cooking, amazing skr!

Then, she is also responsible for the storage and household chores at home.

When you are the CEO of your family every day, you are the one who pays the water and electricity bills, buys toilet paper, and changes the light bulbs.

Isn’t this a symbol of the trivial daily life of 80% of married women today?

As a daughter-in-law, you must also be able to give birth to a baby, preferably a son.

Although we are in the open Guangdong area, but~

My mother-in-law still has some concerns about "giving birth to a son". She has infinite obsession

Although she has not said it out loud,

she still hopes that her daughter-in-law will "get a man with just one click"!

A friend gave birth to two children in a row, both girls.

The time for giving birth to the third child has been planned.

At the same time, most mothers of second children are actually working mothers.

Carrying milk at work every day, transforming into a strong woman at work

Picking up the baby and bottle after returning home...

Mixed with the baby's night milk and cold And fever

Career on the left, family on the right

Don’t dare to delay even a moment...

Quoting a line from the movie "July and Ansheng":

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"Women, no matter which path you take, it is difficult."

If you succeed in your career and do not get married, you will be criticized as an older leftover;

Your career If you are successful and have no time to take care of your family, they will say you are not virtuous and virtuous;

If you work as a full-time housewife to take care of your husband and children, they will say you are a parasite;

Therefore, women must be well-behaved and obedient, beautiful and not fat, be virtuous and take care of the housework, and give birth to sons. Taking care of a baby while working at the same time, oh my God, this is so awesome! Harsh! carve! La!

Under the same circumstances, society’s requirements for men are too tolerant.

In addition to being a hero in terms of career, he can be fat and fat in middle age, he can abandon his family and ignore his family, and he can be a prodigal son who turns around after having an affair.

We women are actually just ordinary people. We are neither female presidents nor supermodel nannies. We are not proficient in 18 kinds of martial arts. We are good at family, career, cooking, body and appearance.

I hope that this world will be more tolerant and understanding of adult women~~

I hope that women in the world will live their own lives,

Rather than living within secular agreements.

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Author introduction: Miss Rabbit, located in Guangzhou. Writing that focuses on emotion and soul is both funny and serious. Both vicious and kind. Both mature and girly.

Public account: Miss Rabbit’s Lemon Tea Life (ID: missbunny08)