In Tai 'an Central Hospital, there is such a couple of doctors. Her husband Wang Zhen is a spinal surgeon and his wife Zhao Li is a reproductive genetics doctor. For the husband and wife, it is the greatest happiness to work side by side in the same position.
If one word is used to describe Wang Zhen and Zhao Li's acquaintance, knowing each other and being together, the reporter thinks that "heart-to-heart" is more appropriate, because they not only have the same career ideal, but also have many similarities.
In 1998, after graduating from Taishan Medical College, Wang Zhen entered the surgical department of Tai 'an Central Hospital. From the moment he set foot on the job, Wang Zhen realized the responsibility entrusted by this job and felt the heavy burden on his shoulders. In order to get familiar with surgical business as soon as possible, Wang Zhen devoted himself to his work, studied all kinds of professional knowledge hard, and his professional accomplishment was greatly improved. In 21, Wang Zhen established a post in trauma surgery. "At that time, there were fewer doctors in the department and more beds. Due to the busy business, colleagues often worked overtime, and there was almost no difference between day and night." Wang Zhen told reporters that for a long time, he only went home once every few weeks. "It feels particularly fulfilling, and that experience is a valuable asset on the road to medical treatment." Wang Zhen said.
Zhao Li, who graduated from Shandong Medical University, entered Tai 'an Central Hospital one year later than Wang Zhen. Zhao Li, who looks quiet and quiet in Shu Ya, is quite a "female man" when she works. When she first joined the work, in order to learn more clinical business knowledge, she worked three night shifts in a row and gave up her rest for a week. As a result, Zhao Li, who was "youthful", finally got sick. Every time I recall this experience, Zhao Li always smiles indifferently: "As a newcomer, only by constantly studying can I adapt to the job needs as soon as possible, thus being worthy of the profession of a doctor."
Wang Zhen and Zhao Li, although they come from different regions, both have the professional ideal of saving lives, and both have the qualities of hard work and hard work. In Wang Zhen's mind, Zhao Li is kind and sincere, and is the best choice for a life partner; In Zhao Li's eyes, Wang Zhen is simple and enterprising, and deserves to be with him for life.
"We go out to work together in the morning, but only one person goes home alone after work in the afternoon" "It's hard to meet a holiday, but I didn't expect the other person to be on duty" "It's hard for the husband and wife to find time to spend with their children and visit the elderly all the year round" ...... What many people think is normal is tantamount to extravagant hopes for a doctor's "husband and wife file". In the face of these "conflicts" in life, Wang Zhen and Zhao Li can always understand each other and encourage each other, because in their hearts: "I know your hard work best."
Both Wang Zhen and Zhao Li focus on their work and business promotion before and after marriage. In the depths of their memory, busyness is synonymous with daily work. One day, due to intensive surgery, Zhao Li was busy from 7 am to 9 pm. During this period, Zhao Li not only didn't eat, but even didn't have time to drink a mouthful of water. "It's so late, let's not go home to cook, what do you want to eat? It's my treat. " Seeing his wife's tired face, Wang Zhen quickly joked. "Go to a place where you can drink as much water as you like." Zhao Li answered casually. In the end, the two chose a restaurant closer to the hospital. "Boss, get a pot of barley tea as soon as possible." As soon as she entered the restaurant, Zhao Li said to the operator. After the waiter brought barley tea, Zhao Li drank one cup after another. Finally, Zhao Li felt hungry after a pot of barley tea was all in her stomach. Scenes like this, the husband and wife often encounter, "Every time I arrive at the meal, either I wait for her or she waits for me. I have been used to it for so many years." Wang Zhen told reporters that because they know each other's work characteristics, no matter who works overtime, the other party will never have any complaints, let alone bother each other.
The reporter learned that due to irregular diet, both Wang Zhen and Zhao Li suffered from gastrointestinal problems. In recent years, in order to make each other eat delicious meals, whenever one of the spouses can't eat on time after working overtime, the other spouse will cook several favorite meals at home and send them to the hospital. "Although he is also very busy at work, he has undertaken most of the housework, which is somewhat embarrassing to say." Zhao Li told reporters that Wang Zhen is not only careful, but also considerate. For his wife's praise, Wang Zhen smiled shyly. "To be honest, because of professional differences, she is busier and more tired than me, and I should share it."
In the interview, the reporter learned that in order to keep up with the trend of medical development, at the same time, in order to improve her professional ability and better serve the masses, Zhao Li signed up for on-the-job graduate students during her maternity leave. In this case, Zhao Li's son began to add complementary food in less than four months. In addition, considering that Wang Zhen and Zhao Li are busy at work, in order to keep them from staying up late so as to maintain their vigorous energy to serve patients, Zhao Li's parents took on the heavy responsibility of taking care of their children at night when their grandson was about one year old. "In my mind, my child's experience before he was three years old was almost blank, because my husband and I had little time to spend with him." Talking about this, Zhao Li's words reveal a deep sense of guilt. "But what makes us particularly satisfied and gratified is that although the child is young, he especially understands medical workers and is determined to be a doctor." Wang Zhen told reporters.
Apart from young children, Wang Zhen and Zhao Li always feel that they owe too much when they talk about old people. One afternoon in December last year, because both husband and wife worked overtime temporarily, they could not pick up their children from school. As usual, the task of picking up the children fell to the old man. Due to the slippery road in rainy and snowy days, Zhao Li's father accidentally fell down while riding an electric car home, and both the old man and the children fell to varying degrees. But in order to let the son-in-law and daughter work hard, the old man didn't tell them, and even told his grandson not to tell anyone. Before going to bed at night, Wang Zhen found that the child's legs were bruised. After repeated questioning, he didn't know the truth. "Over the years, we owe too much to the elderly." Wang Zhen told reporters that it is with the understanding, support and hard work of the old man that he and his wife can work without distractions.
Indeed, as Wang Zhen said, as a clinician, it is a choice that we have to make to leave most of our time to work, that is, to leave our debts to our families.