But some people don't think so-Subei High School has some students from big cities every year.
More than ten years ago, my divorced second sister, with her daughter Miaomiao, also transferred from Nanjing to my school.
Miaomiao, a sophomore, is very clever, but he has bad habits, is lazy, procrastinates and doesn't study actively. My second sister thinks Huai 'an's education method is more suitable for my daughter, and with my third aunt's urging, my child may be admitted to a good university in two years.
Well, welcome to Huaian!
We high school students spend six hours more in school every day than in Nanjing. In addition, Nanjing students have normal holidays and weekends. High school students in Huai 'an have a holiday discount, with half a day off a week. ...
Miaomiao was startled. Is this where people live? Thinking of her mother's painstaking efforts, she tried to adapt.
Teachers in all subjects praised my niece for her seriousness and cleverness, and she did well in the first monthly exam. My second sister and I are very happy and feel that this step is right.
Second sister has been doing business in Nanjing for many years and has good economic conditions. Miaomiao has never been wronged in food and clothing.
After the monthly exam, Miaomiao, who is familiar with the environment, gradually returned to her old habits: she likes to eat snacks, dress herself up and read novels in class. Children from provincial capitals are knowledgeable, confident and bold, which makes Miaomiao bring its own charm aura. Students pay attention to and imitate her every move, and the originally calm classroom has caused waves.
The sensitivity of the profession made the class teacher immediately find something strange and immediately replied to me. I talked to Miaomiao.
From my mother's expectations and hardships to my personal responsibility and future, I was about to talk about the pursuit and significance of life when Miaomiao interrupted me, "Third Aunt, did I embarrass you?"
I froze. Can this guy read minds?
Indeed, I am under pressure. Grade is the second, especially afraid that children's poor grades will affect the class atmosphere. What will the teacher say about me?
Of course, I want to whitewash my selfishness. I said a lot seriously.
"You're right, but I can't do it at present. Let me get used to it. " Miaomiao said pathetically.
But I heard the truth.
As expected:
"Miaomiao reads novels in class"
"Miaomiao put on makeup today."
"Miaomiao always talks about stars and luxury goods with his classmates."
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Every two or three days, I will receive information from the head teacher and teachers. Later, when I saw the teacher's number, I got scared.
My second sister and I take turns to go into battle, applying both hard and soft, and often shed tears involuntarily.
At first, Miaomiao would admit his mistakes and express remorse, but later he became more and more tenacious, either keeping silent or defending or refuting.
One day, she will understand the painstaking efforts of an experienced person. Now, she can only give everything to time. I think so every time I have bad communication.
However, we still have to face the problem.
On this day, the teacher complained again. She transformed the school uniform into neither fish nor fowl. I carried her out of the classroom and looked at her clothes. This is really frustrating.
"Miaomiao, look at you, what a beautiful school uniform. Why remove the bottom edge? "
"The clothes tied to the bottom don't suit me. I am fat and have a big ass. " She is eloquent.
"This procrastination good-looking? The ass is not big, but the legs are so short! " You're welcome.
"Third aunt, you don't understand, this is popular now." She faltered.
"What fashion do students pursue? Besides, this is sportswear, not fashion. " I said.
"Ah, physical education class Festival twice a week, often occupied. I don't have time to exercise in sportswear! " Her voice is getting louder and louder.
She's right. I can only explain my plea to the teacher while earnestly persuading.
Fortunately, she is not bad in other aspects, and the teacher will forget it.
Soon, she led the trend of campus, and many students followed her, removing the elastic band at the bottom of the coat, covering her big ass and dragging her short legs. ...
Miaomiao was honest at school, but he came home again. It is rare to have a half-day rest. She likes to take her classmates home to play and show her treasures: cosmetics, jewelry, CDs, photos of celebrities … and cook with them.
Second sister complained again. This time, I blame her first: adults love vanity and like to dress up. How can it not affect children? It's all about family education!
Then I criticized Miaomiao, "Why can't you concentrate on your studies?"
"In addition to study, there is life. Besides, my grades are not bad. " She robbed me.
"You that is an ordinary class, our school is not the first in the city, compared with southern Jiangsu, Huaian also don't know how much behind? ! Can you see further? ! "What a hurry.
"Third Aunt, you are right, you are always right, I can't!" She even harassed me!
Anger and disappointment, the child is hopeless, and I swear to let her go.
Of course it's impossible, but every time, as she said, you're right, I just don't want to hear it.
I am really worried about this child's love of beauty and vanity. How will he face the cruel society and real life in the future?
In the final stage of senior three, Miaomiao got serious and finally got into the product packaging major of Yangzhou University.
My second sister and I are certainly disappointed: it is too difficult to find a job. What can such schools and majors do after they come out?
Miaomiao is not nervous at all. She should never wear a disgusting school uniform again. She dresses up beautifully every day, busy partying and eating and drinking.
She really knows how to dress up. She spread out her long hair, painted a light makeup, and then carried contact lenses for makeup with her, just like a doll.
Looking at carefree Miaomiao, my second sister and I are full of anxiety.
After four years in college, I have always reminded her that she must persist in studying and take the postgraduate entrance examination. She said yes, and who knows if she listened.
After graduation, she said she wouldn't take the postgraduate entrance examination and decided to stay in Yangzhou to do business.
"Doing business?"
"Like my mother making curtains, Yangzhou is developing real estate everywhere, and there is a big market. Besides, my mother is an old driver, and business will definitely be good. "
She was so sure that you couldn't believe it. Second Sister agreed again. I tried my best to hold back and swallow what hit her.
Miaomiao curtain shop opened vigorously, and after three months, it closed silently. Bad position. I didn't do a single order, but I tossed more than 200,000.
Now she is honest and has entered a beauty agency to plan.
In the curtain industry, Miaomiao met her boyfriend Tucki. Like her, after graduating from Tucki University, she made her own career, and now she is doing home improvement management.
"Tucki people are nice, but they have no economic foundation. You are too greedy for enjoyment. How will you buy a house, a car and raise children in the future? " I am worried again. "Break up while you just met."
"No money to break up? Too snobbish and too realistic? We are still young and can struggle on our own! " Miaomiao's words made me feel ashamed.
"Don't listen to the old man, cheated! Isn't the lesson of disobedience enough? " Tell me if you know it's useless.
The two young people did a good job, won the boss's favor and raised their wages again and again. The salary soon surpassed that of an old teacher like me, and the boss promised to continue to grow with the increase of years.
When they came back from the Spring Festival, they both wore luxury goods and stared at their mobile phones. When I learned that my second sister was still secretly funding them, I gave them a good scolding.
Miaomiao said indifferently and confidently, "Don't worry, I will definitely double the money my mother gave me. I will also take her around the world to support her. " My second sister is laughing, but I seem to see a conspiracy.
"coax them to cherish the opportunity, work hard and consider getting married." Everyone reminds Second Sister in this way.
"Yes, they won't listen!" Second sister always says so.
After working for less than two years, what moths have appeared? Two children actually secretly resigned and went to Shenzhen! Go to the big world!
"Come back, north to Guangzhou and Shenzhen is where you go? How many people can't afford a suite for a lifetime! " I called Miaomiao quickly. "Now many graduates from famous universities have returned to small cities, struggled for several years, and have houses and cars. How good it is to be safe. "
"It's really good, but I don't like that kind of life." Miaomiao's words made me vomit blood.
"This disobedient prostitute will ruin your little family sooner or later!" I said to my second sister.
Shenzhen is really a paradise for entrepreneurs. After the two children rented a house, they quickly found a job. Tucki entered a well-known cabinet enterprise and was responsible for the exhibition hall management; Miaomiao plans to work in a plastic surgery hospital.
I often see photos of two people working overtime late at night. I feel distressed and sigh. If they are obedient, why do they have to work so hard?
Half a year later, I got good news. Both of them got a promotion and a raise.
Still worry about your future, the hardships of study and life are definitely the same, wait.
Half a year later, the young couple mapped in the circle of friends and were admitted to graduate school!
Ask them where they got the time to study. It's all night. After work, I often study until two or three in the morning. ...
I began to look at them with new eyes.
The first car the young couple bought was Toyota. Of course, the second sister posted the money.
The photos released by the two in the circle of friends are either eating, drinking and having fun, or drying new mobile phones, brand cosmetics and bags.
"Miaomiao, pursue spiritual enjoyment and don't be a slave to material things." I said.
"Only when the material is satisfied can the spirit be happy!" Not the kui is a graduate student, I have been unable to reply.
Only when I see photos of two people studying overtime will I praise them-this is what young people should look like!
Three years later, Miaomiao stopped contacting her second sister. Five years later, she gave her mother 5000 yuan a month.
"Now, it's time for me to raise you." Miaomiao said in front of our second sister. It turns out that she and Tucki are both company executives with an annual salary of seven figures.
Last year, the second sister also began to show off in the circle of friends: bags and shoes given by her daughter, mobile phones, televisions and air conditioners bought by her son-in-law, and big red envelopes on holidays. ...
It's very kind of this family. They are all so vain. I muttered to myself, but how can I be so envious?
Second sister began to go out frequently. She went to Shenzhen the year before last, worked as a double eyelid surgery in a hospital in Miaomiao, and came back beautifully. Last year, my daughter and son-in-law took her to Hong Kong and brought back a lot of bags. This year, the young couple took her to a holiday villa for the Spring Festival. ...
"Let them save some money to buy a house!" I can't help it again.
This time my worry is unnecessary. Two children bought a house in Nanjing at the end of last year. This year, I changed my car to a big one; I also booked a five-year plan to change villas and live with my second sister.
While I am happy for them, I can't help thinking: What would Miaomiao be like today if he had listened to my third aunt?
I decided to talk less in the future.
Miaomiao made friends again. He keeps a dog and a cat, and the young couple take their pets for a walk every night.
"Miaomiao, you are not young, it's time to have a baby!" I can't help it again.
"I don't want to be born for the time being!" She is very straightforward.
"You are thirty, do you know that the older a woman is, the more dangerous it is to have children? ! "
"I know, but I just don't want to hear ..."