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"Since I had you, there have been miracles in my life ..." Yaya's mother dedicated this line to my children. When a woman becomes a mother, all her irresistible shoulder and hand problems disappear. OCD can be treated without drugs, but I can't fly. I feel like a female newborn, and my parents can't wait to give him the whole world. It's really not too much love.
Yaya's mother's two treasures have also made the whole family work hard. However, there is a saying that "nursing is chaos". Sometimes parents mistakenly believe in some unscientific parenting methods and accidentally cheat their babies. Next, Mama Ya will talk to you about the top ten behaviors that dolls are cheated most, and look for your shadow. 0 1
Cut the fetus, eyebrows and eyelashes. In this face-saving society, Yan Gang's mothers have been obsessed with the baby's appearance. It's easy to hear all kinds of ways to "should" improve your appearance. In fact, the baby's hair has nothing to do with cutting or not. It is mainly influenced by the nutrition and heredity of the mother during pregnancy. When Ya Ya was a child, I once cut his hair, but it didn't help, because Ya Ya and I both had sparse and soft hair. If the baby's hair is really thick, I'm afraid dad will be suspicious. Life is over, haha.
Fetal hair will fade gradually whether you cut your hair or not, but if you want to cut your hair, you must pay attention to the cleanliness and safety of the equipment to avoid trauma and infection during the haircut. Weak resistance. Shaving is easy to peel off and cause infection. If bacteria invade hair roots and destroy hair follicles, it will not only make hair swell seriously, but also lead to self-harm and hair loss.
Babies' eyebrows grow as high as their bodies, which can be divided into early, late, fast and slow. As long as there is no disease, most baby's eyebrows will gradually change from thin to thick, from yellow to black. Over time, this has nothing to do with shaving eyebrows.
The length, thickness and beauty of eyelashes are mainly related to genetic factors and nutritional status. It's futile to roll your eyelashes. The upper and lower eyelashes form a protective barrier in front of your eyes, blocking dust and excessive light. If you cut off your eyelashes, it is easy to damage your eyes before new ones grow. In the process of cutting eyelashes, if the child blinks or swings his head, it may cause injury.
So parents, you need to be careful!
02
Pinch your nose
Do you still think that pinching the bridge of the nose often makes the flat bridge of the nose higher?
The height of the human nose bridge is determined by heredity, and it is impossible to achieve the effect of making the nose higher and higher by manual pinching.
Babies' nasopharynx tube is lower than that of adults, and its structure is shorter, thicker and straighter. They are also close to the ears. From the appearance, the baby's nose is basically collapsed (only the degree of collapse is different). After the baby's door is closed, the baby's bones will grow and develop very fast. The original collapsed bridge of the nose will gradually become a nose, and it will gradually rise if it is not pinched.
Artificially pinching the bridge of the nose or other methods will not increase the height of the child's nose, but will easily increase the risk of illness. The nasal mucosa of infants is thin and tender, with rich blood vessels and short nasal cavity. Often pinching the bridge of the nose can easily lead to nasal congestion, damage the nasal mucosa, reduce the nasal defense function, and make babies prone to respiratory diseases or otitis media. Adults tend to concentrate frequently and have a runny nose, which increases the risk of eye crossing?
If you can obviously change your facial features with a pinch of your hand, the plastic surgery hospital may be closed.
03
Not sleepy or sleepy.
Don't! Don't! Don't!
All kinds of toys or new things can easily attract children's curiosity. For various reasons, adults don't have time to put children to sleep, so he missed the best time to sleep.
Most children's behavior is not very good. When they want to sleep, they don't climb into bed and sleep alone. On the contrary, they will be very excited and even agitated after falling asleep, making it more difficult to fall asleep.
Therefore, when the baby needs to sleep, please try to keep quiet, reduce interaction and let the baby lie in a comfortable environment. After a while, he will fall asleep.
04
Use diapers
Many old people like traditional diapers. Before the baby was born, they prepared many spare parts. They think diapers are expensive, waste money and don't absorb water, but in fact diapers are professionally designed to absorb water and breathe freely, which is very suitable for babies to use and makes them more comfortable. Moreover, diapers need to be replaced and cleaned frequently, and cleaning is an arduous task. There are still many diapers that do not meet the hygiene requirements, and the use of diapers is also very complicated.
So please try to use regular brand diapers and change them in time to keep your baby's buttocks clean and dry and make your baby feel comfortable!
05
urine
Excrement and urine are harmful to the baby's spine and sphincter, which is easy to cause proctoptosis, and urine will also affect the baby's psychology. Not only uncivilized, but also very harmful to the baby's self-esteem.
Infants have reflex defecation, and early defecation training can make infants enter conscious defecation faster. Conscious defecation is a conditioned reflex to meet the needs of social life. Can defecate on time, make children live regularly, prevent constipation and fecal incontinence.
The urethral sphincter and anal sphincter will not mature until the baby is 2-3 years old, which is the basis of controlling urination. Before that, children could not completely control intestinal peristalsis and urination. Treatment of defecation is not conducive to the formation of regular defecation as soon as possible, which will interfere with the development of children's sphincter.
Therefore, parents should not be too anxious to let their babies use diapers a year and a half ago, and then go to the toilet for training at the age of two.
06
Add salt to baby food.
Old people often say that if children don't eat salt, their bodies will have no strength, and babies will be fed vegetable soup with salt only for two or three months. Yaya mother wants to say that this is a kind of resentment against the baby. These behaviors will greatly increase the burden on the digestive tract and kidneys! Breast milk is the best food for babies!
1-6-month-old babies only need less than 1 g of salt every day, which can be obtained from breast milk and formula milk; When the baby starts to add complementary food, both vegetables and meat will contain the main components of sodium salt, and the baby can also absorb salt through complementary food. Therefore, you must carefully choose to add sodium in complementary food to your baby, and you don't need to add other salts when making it.
Because the baby's kidney function is not perfect at this time, it is not appropriate to add seasonings too early, especially salt will increase the burden on the kidneys. Premature use of seasonings will lead to potential dangers, such as high blood pressure in the future, which will stimulate children's taste prematurely. We can only use more condiments in the future.
1 year can be gradually increased, but it should not exceed 2 grams per day.
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Breast milk eczema
Although breast milk is good, it is not everything!
Rubbing eczema with breast milk is not only ineffective, but also easy to breed bacteria, block pores, cause eczema and even allergies.
The correct nursing method of eczema is to supplement breast milk and complementary food, avoid overheating, clothing materials and styles, keep the indoor environment cool, ventilated and clean, take a proper bath and strengthen the skin.
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The old nipple milked the baby girl so that she would not be violated when she grew up. Yaya's mother is still alive. Fortunately, Yaya's grandmother is very smart, and there is nothing so terrible for Yaya's mother. Nipples are short and short. In addition to heredity, it is also related to whether underwear is suitable for adolescence and long-term sleeping position, and it has nothing to do with not showing nipples, okay?
Because the high level of estrogen in pregnant women will stimulate the growth of estrogen in infants. After the newborn baby is born, there may be breast swelling or milk secretion. This situation usually subsides within 2-3 weeks, which is a temporary physiological phenomenon.
Do not use hot compress, massage or squeezing. A little carelessness may cause the nipple to be squeezed, which will bring in bacteria and cause swelling and inflammation of the breast. In severe cases, it can even lead to sepsis. If it is a baby girl, squeezing will cause breast inflammation, block some mammary ducts or form scars. When the baby grows into an adult woman, it will also affect lactation.
After the baby is born, the nipple invagination will gradually improve with the growth and development, so there is no need to rush for success!
Even if the baby's nipples are still inward when he grows up, he can breastfeed normally as long as he is guided to use the correct latch position during breastfeeding!
The problem is not as serious as you think!
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squeeze
After some newborns are born, some protruding yellow and white spots will be found on the gums, which are usually called "horse teeth" and "epithelial cell beads" in medicine.
This is a kind of keratinized epithelial bead formed by the accumulation of epithelial cells during embryonic development. This is a normal phenomenon, and mothers don't have to worry about the impact on breastfeeding and teething in the future. With the growth and development of gums, most "horse teeth" will disappear by themselves within a few weeks without treatment.
Newborn "horse teeth" must not be wiped with cloth or punctured with a needle, because the baby's oral mucosa is very fragile, rich in blood vessels, immature salivary gland function, dry and easy to be injured, and the mucosa is easily destroyed by bacteria or even septicemia, which will cause stomatitis, so parents please don't throw it around!
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Many parents, especially fathers, like to play games to keep up with their babies. The baby is very excited, and the father works harder. In fact, there was news earlier that the baby fell to death because the parents missed their hands while playing with the baby. This terrible interaction will make the baby feel interesting, but the baby's spinal development has not been completed. There is a risk of sprain or strain when holding high, and the baby's head is underdeveloped, and the cervical vertebra can't bear the weight of the brain. Injury can lead to brain damage, which can easily lead to direct death.
It is forbidden to take your baby to play this high-risk game at home. If there is such a naive adult, her mother will turn against her on the spot!
Since then, having a baby, I have shortcomings. I don't want to be separated from you, and I don't want to give you to others. I really don't know that my parents have no intention of raising children. Blood relationship has become the most unbreakable bond in the world. We need to be careful in production. We need science to raise children. When we have children, we must assume the responsibility of being parents. Don't let us be ignorant "cheat dad" or "cheat mom".
The traditional method of giving birth to a baby may not be correct, and the emerging baby-friendly strategy may not be suitable for you. Distinguishing good from bad requires scientific analysis. On the road of scientific parenting, Maya goes hand in hand with you.