In fact, if you look closely, you will find that some children look like their elders rather than their mothers or fathers. This is what we call "atavism".

Of course, as parents, we all hope that our children will inherit their own advantages and have a good value, but there is still a shortcoming in life called "picking on parents." "

Does everyone have the feeling that "the more you look at your child, the better you look"? In fact, most parents will take their own "beauty effect" when they look after their children, but if the gap between parents and children is too big, the "shortcomings" will be particularly obvious in the eyes of others.

Big S Barbie Hsu is not only a beautiful woman, but also a great actress. But she is very sweet, but her daughter has a flat nose, a single eyelid and thick lips, and she has not inherited her advantages at all. Although it looks cute, it is far from the big S.

Zhang Ting is not only sweet in appearance and exquisite in facial features, but also amazing in costume drama, which is impressive. But when she took a photo with her daughter, netizens were surprised to find that her daughter was not only yellow in skin, but also thin in facial features. Coupled with the slightly raised rabbit teeth, it is not like mother and daughter at all.

Crystal not only looks watery, but also has a pair of big watery eyes. The standard oval face looks very beautiful and was once the "goddess" in many men's hearts. But the daughter looks more like her father and has not inherited her mother's beauty at all.

Zhang Ziyi, known as the "International Chapter", is a typical "oriental classical beauty" with three-dimensional facial features, but her daughter is more beautiful, with small eyes, single eyelids and a flat nose. Although it looks much better now than when I was a child, it still lags far behind Zhang Ziyi.

We often say that daughters are more like fathers and sons are more like mothers.

But from a genetic point of view, the probability that a child's appearance is inherited by his parents is equal. In other words, a child looks half like his father and half like his mother. Of course, there are also cases of "atavism". Children look like grandparents or grandparents.

However, if the child looks more like the father or mother, it can only show that one spouse is genetically stronger than the other, so the child's appearance is more biased towards the genetically strong side.

Children with high face value do have certain innate advantages, but if their conduct is not good, they will be despised. Therefore, if their children don't look as good as they want, parents may wish to make up for it in other aspects through their efforts the day after tomorrow.

1, adjust the mentality and accept the child's appearance.

In life, many treasure moms have spit out their newborn babies, and their looks are simply a long story. In fact, when the children grow up, parents will be surprised to find that the children are getting better and better, because the children have not fully grown up. Of course, some children are very unfortunate. When they grow up, their shortcomings are infinitely magnified.

There is a father with congenital cleft lip and palate in Daye, Hubei Province. When I was a child, because my family was poor, I couldn't afford to see a doctor, and I couldn't pronounce clearly. When the wife was pregnant and went for an examination, the doctor clearly told her that the child also suffered from "congenital cleft lip and palate" and suggested that they consider whether to have this child.

The couple are reluctant to abort their children and insist on having them. Unexpectedly, the child not only inherited his father's "cleft lip and palate", but also inherited my mother's eyes, and even inherited his grandmother's cranial cavity stenosis. As the child grew up day by day, his head began to sharpen and his whole face was distorted.

The shortcomings of three relatives are all concentrated on one child, which can't help but make many netizens shout: even grandma's shortcomings are not let go, too worrying!

Such a child, if his parents can't accept his looks, then how unfortunate his life will be, you can imagine. Therefore, please be kind to those ugly children around you and let them grow up happily.

2. Cultivate children's good living habits from an early age

Good living habits can not only make a person icing on the cake, but also quietly change a person's appearance and state.

For example, people who often stay up late are prone to acne and dark circles; People who overeat tend to get fat; People who stoop and walk will lose their temperament.

The cultivation of good living habits requires children's persistent perseverance and super self-control. Therefore, in order to make children have good living habits, parents need to set an example from an early age and guide and correct their children's bad habits in time.

3, improve the child's inner, foster strengths and avoid weaknesses.

It is good for children to have a high face value, but if not, parents don't have to feel sorry for themselves. They can let children develop the habit of reading from childhood and improve their inner self.

As the saying goes: there are poetry books in the belly. A person who arms his mind with knowledge and his heart with self-confidence is naturally rich in internal knowledge, and his appearance is not so important.

Today's topic: Parents, what do you think of this inheritance of "picking out parents' shortcomings"? Welcome to share in the comments section below!