It’s been almost a month since the cold violence and my husband still hasn’t admitted his mistake to me. He has hesitated repeatedly or sent him messages saying “In that case, we will divorce.” I thought that after meeting him, he would be as humble as before and ask for my forgiveness, but what happened next was unexpected. How to keep your husband's heart?

My husband works in a plastic surgery institution, and he is surrounded by many young, beautiful and rich women. They often reply to various messages in the middle of the night. I see it in my eyes and feel angry in my heart. I often make trouble with him because of this. But my husband said this, they are just customers, how can they make money if they don’t take care of them? What’s wrong with making money? But I always feel that he hangs out with those women all day long, and he is particularly insecure. Sometimes he talks about separation or divorce, but in fact I just want him to coax me and prove that he is mine.

It was almost 11 o'clock that night, and he went to the guest bedroom to chat with a female customer again. The chat lasted for more than an hour. After that, I couldn't help it anymore. I took his phone and hung up. , asking him if he knew what time it was. At that time, my husband was particularly angry, scolding me for ruining a big stock deal he was about to get, and calling me a spendthrift. I went back to my parents' house in anger, and he didn't come to pick me up after being away for a month, and he didn't even make a single call.

I couldn't stand it any longer, so I sent him a divorce message. The effect was to make him coax me and come to take me home. Unexpectedly, my husband replied with the word "good" and ran away after me. When I returned home, the scene shocked me. My husband was sitting in the big living room watching TV series, and a young and beautiful woman was cooking in the kitchen, just like a young couple. I really don’t want a divorce, but what can I do if I say it’s useless? How can I keep my husband’s heart?

Some women feel insecure for various reasons and have been trying their best to make their husbands care. At first, boys may be more tolerant, but as time goes by, boys usually They will be busy with this kind of situation, and even want to break away from this kind of relationship. So what should you do to make your husband reconcile as before?

First, communicate with your husband about the doubts in your current marital life. From your letter, I can feel that your husband was probably very attached to you at first, but it was just that you had quarrels too many times and cracks appeared in the relationship between husband and wife, which led to the current situation.

If you don’t want to divorce, you need to calmly communicate with your husband, sort out the direct causes of the conflicts between the couple, and solve them. Judging from the content of the letter, you are both responsible for your conflicts. The uniqueness of your husband's behavior leads to more communication with friends of the opposite sex, and you feel insecure yourself. His work further stimulates your heart and prompts you to communicate more with friends of the opposite sex. Unable to give him the trust he deserves.

So in your marriage, you often have quarrels, and they are difficult disputes. Everyone thinks that they are right, so the quarrels become more and more fierce, and the conflicts become more and more serious. If you want to repair this relationship, both parties need to make reasonable compromises and re-establish that kind of mutual trust and interdependence.

Two, communicate with her husband about the woman who cheated on her during the marriage. Most men cheat in marriage to find beautiful women, and their purpose is to fill in the missing parts of their marriage, and your husband should not be excepted. Due to long-term conflicts and disputes in your marriage, there must be a lack of gentleness and thoughtfulness between each other. Now if there is a woman who can give him the trust and gentleness he wants, he will definitely be able to resist it. .

How to retain your husband’s heart? What you need to tell him clearly is that none of them have entered into marriage yet, and they are still in the stage of liking each other. Everything at this stage is temporary and not permanent. Once they are exposed to the sun one day, Underneath, new perceptions of each other will undoubtedly emerge.