Once upon a time, there was a man from the state of Qi who worried all day long that the sky would collapse and the earth would crack. He had trouble sleeping and eating every day. Later, someone told him: "The sky is just made up of the ubiquitous Qi, so why should we worry about it collapsing?" After hearing this, Qi Ren seemed less worried.

But not long after, he worried that the sun, moon and stars would fall because the sky could not support them because they were too heavy. The man had no choice but to explain: "The sun, moon and stars are just the shining parts of the gas. Even if they fall, they will not cause any damage to people."

But after explaining, Qi Ren started to worry about the earth. Will it collapse? The man had no choice but to say: "Every inch of the land is tight. People walk and trample on the land all day long. How could it collapse?" After hearing this, Qi Ren felt relieved.

There is a saying in "New Tang Book? Lu Xiangxian Biography": "There is nothing in the world, and it is annoying to be disturbed by mediocre people." The pressure of social competition is high, and many people will have some problems in the workplace. Sensitive psychological issues.

A few days ago, a colleague shared a workplace joke: New employee Xiao Wang always felt that something was wrong with his boss. He used to see his boss smiling, but recently his facial expressions seemed to be strange, and communication became difficult. Be brief and always leave after saying a few words. Xiao Wang began to constantly reflect on whether he had done something wrong that made his leader unhappy. After thinking about it, she sent a WeChat message to her leader.

As a result, the leader’s reply was: As a newcomer, you are already doing very well, keep up the good work. I just had micro plastic surgery recently, and I don’t have any opinion against you.

When a person thinks too much, he is actually asking for trouble and letting his thoughts fall into a chaotic situation.

A reader once wrote to Mr. Yang Jiang and was confused by his unintentional progress. Mr. Yang Jiang said in his reply: Your problem is mainly that you don’t read much and think too much.

If your boss doesn’t reply to your message, you will wonder if the boss doesn’t want to talk to you; if your colleague doesn’t say hello to you, you will wonder if you have offended him at work; if a customer sends a smiling emoticon, you will wonder if the customer is It's not that you are dissatisfied with your work; the project leader has not fallen on you, and you start to think about it again and start to question your ability. Adults' sensitive nerves will always become suddenly tense at certain moments, and sensitive emotions can lead to random thoughts and self-doubt.

Being sensitive is not a bad thing. A keen perception and understanding of things make it easier for people to maintain a clear mind and the ability to think. But when it comes to "workplace sensitivity," it's a completely different story. What was originally a small matter, after being "amplified" or "made out of nothing" by myself, the situation instantly became complicated and difficult.

Being sensitive in the workplace is actually a double-edged sword. The advantage is that you have to be careful and avoid making mistakes when working. However, if you are overly sensitive, it will become invisible pressure; therefore, it is necessary to maintain a certain degree of sensitivity in the workplace, but it is absolutely necessary. Like a "workplace hedgehog", he becomes a thorn in the side as soon as he encounters him!

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