Medical institutions identified Zhang Xiaoyun's injury as "serious injury level II". The procuratorate arrested her ex-husband and prosecuted him on suspicion of intentional injury. He called her from the detention center. "Don't try to get rid of me. I will live with you in this life until one of us dies. " This sentence makes Zhang Xiaoyun still tremble in my heart. During the interview, her crying once disrupted the process. Even if people around you keep persuading, tears are not good for the wound.
The nurse shaved off part of Zhang Xiaoyun's hair to prepare for the next day's operation. After more than ten years of marriage, her ex-husband never stopped beating her. Punching and kicking are everyday.
Zhang Xiaoyun is preparing for the operation in the hospital.
Zhang Xiaoyun is preparing for the next day's operation in a plastic surgery hospital. Zhang Xiaoyun has been undergoing skin flap expansion and wound treatment in this plastic surgery hospital for half a year. On the same day, she had to move the skin from her forehead to the tip of her nose and take a costal cartilage as a support to rebuild her nose.
Zhang Xiaoyun shed tears when interviewed by reporters. "The terrible pain has never been so painful in my life. I am completely stunned. I only saw my mother fall on the spot and passed out." Until now, Zhang Xiaoyun can still recall any details of that day. The family members present were helping to find her bitten nose everywhere until her ex-husband said, "Keep the change, my nose was swallowed by me."
After submitting the materials, Cheng Guofang walked out of Beijing No.2 Intermediate People's Court. Cheng Guofang finally divorced when he was in his sixties. Before that, she suffered from her husband's domestic violence for nearly 30 years. Even if he made up his mind to divorce, Cheng Guofang dared not put the evidence he collected at home. "I am afraid that he will find that I have been scared during that time."
I put up with it for nearly 30 years, on the one hand, because I didn't want my children to have an incomplete family, on the other hand, I also considered family factors. Because of the failure of her ex-husband's marriage, Cheng Guofang's marriage was strongly opposed by her family. My marriage is totally devoid of family support. If my family is on my side, I can take my children back to my parents' home for the first time, but I can't. Cheng Guofang said that her mother didn't approve of her marrying her ex-husband, but she didn't want her to divorce. In her view, the message from her family is that she should bear the consequences for the marriage she insists on choosing.
Cheng Guofang sat by the window. Cheng Guofang called the police four or five times for domestic violence during his marriage. Every time the police come, they coordinate a few words and then withdraw the police. "They think this is a couple's family affair, and they can't manage it. They can only educate my ex-husband. As soon as the police left, he hit me harder. "
Dai, a Chinese Canadian, is standing at his home in Beijing. In order to prevent her ex-husband from stealing or damaging things, the house that Dai and her ex-husband bought together was almost empty. There are two well-known labels on Dai, one is "Nirvana's wife of Liu Jie, a martial arts director" and the other is "being abused by domestic violence". As soon as the habeas corpus application expired, Dai's ex-husband brought someone to smash her home.
Dai stopped at the special exhibition "Beauty and the Beast" in Sanlitun, Beijing. Dai's original occupation was film and television art, and it was in the course of her work that she met her ex-husband Liu Jie. In fact, it took the judge about four weeks to issue Dai's personal safety protection order, and after that, her ex-husband still published her contact information online, which led to further harassment. When she told the judge about it, the judge told her to call the police, and the police sent her back to the court. "It can only be said that the implementation of the anti-domestic violence law needs a gradual process, but there is still a long way to go to really play a significant role."
Dai still keeps his son's relics. She grew up in Canada and pursued free love, so she insisted on marrying Liu Jie. Subconsciously, she felt that her husband's beating his wife was far away from her. "In Canada, it is very serious for a husband to go to jail for domestic violence," she stressed. "Very, very serious." But after the real domestic violence, this woman who pursues independence and freedom is still used to looking at her marriage from a traditional perspective. "It is always too easy to forgive."
Dai still keeps his son's toys. Dai was beaten by Liu Jie for the first time because of a little quarrel between husband and wife. In the third year of their marriage, during the Spring Festival, they returned to their hometown of Liu Jie, Hebei Province for the Spring Festival. Because it is a small county, it is inconvenient to take a bath. Dai complained privately. "He thinks I don't like his home, and he is very upset. He quarreled with me and picked up a broom and smashed it on my head, "Dai said. Then Liu Jie pushed her down on the sofa and covered her face with a pillow. "What I thought at the time was that you suffocated me and I was free." After a while, Liu let her go. This reminds Dai of divorce.
Dai's ex-husband broke the doorknob at home. After returning to Beijing, she changed the lock, packed Liu Jie's clothes and sent them back to her hometown. They quarreled for a long time. Finally, Liu Jie admitted that he was wrong in hitting people, and promised that it would not happen again. "A woman's heart is still soft. When she gets married, she wants to have a home and a child. We didn't have children at that time, but we just bought a house. I cherish this home very much. " Dai said she forgave him. Dai's marriage was strongly opposed by his family, because Liu Jie was inferior to Dai in education, family background and career.
In the house that Dai and her ex-husband bought together, Dai stood by the window, looking forward to it. A child is playing at the bottom of the building. After the divorce, Dai and her children have been separated for two years, and her ex-husband hid the children. Recently, she knew where her son lived, but she still couldn't see him.
Half a month later, Liu Jie told Dai that he had to move out of the house that day. When Dai came home from work, he found that the security door was gone, his clothes were thrown all over the floor, and only a few pieces of furniture on the bed were damaged. She dare not even tell her parents in Canada that she was beaten. "After all, this marriage is her own choice. Telling your family about your experience is equivalent to admitting your wrong choice. " This makes her feel more independent and helpless under the background of being a weak person.
Meng Yang is preparing to cook in the rental house. Now she mainly supports herself and her children by doing housework. Yang Mengyi filed for divorce five times, but every time her ex-husband knelt on the ground and begged, and repeatedly promised that it would not happen again. Until 20 15, she couldn't stand being beaten. She resolutely went to court to sue and finally divorced.
In Yang Meng's rental house, there are flowers she just bought from the roadside. After the divorce, her ex-husband began to cry again, kneeling in front of Yang Meng for three days with her child in her arms. "He handed me a shoe and asked me to hit him. He cried pitifully and admitted that this family was broken up by him. His wife was gone and his home was gone. " Meng Yang relented again and went home to live with her ex-husband. After that, her ex-husband did stop for a while, but two months later, Yang Meng suffered the worst domestic violence.
Yang Meng's youngest son is playing with a selfie stick. Because they suspected that he was having an affair with another woman, they had a fierce quarrel, and then her ex-husband raised a stainless steel cup and slammed it head-on, resulting in Yang Meng's cheekbone fracture, eye blood vessels rupture, and her vision dropped sharply for more than a week. After being beaten once, Yang Meng found her nephew. She wants her family to teach her husband a lesson and then take it out on herself. However, after the nephew came, he was still more polite to his ex-husband. "This makes my ex-husband even more arrogant." In desperation, Meng Yang left his hometown with his two sons to work in other places.
Zhang Miao (pseudonym) plays with his pet cat at his home in Beijing. Gay Zhang Miao was subjected to cold violence by his ex-girlfriend. "At the same time, there is no strong control mechanism for domestic violence between same-sex couples and between men and women after divorce." Zhang Miao said that if a lesbian is abused by a same-sex partner, if she calls the police, the effectiveness of the police will be reduced. "They may even discriminate against a group like us, or think it's just a fight between girls." . But everything is not that bad.
Zhang Miao stood in front of a wall full of lush trees. After leaving her predecessor, Zhang Miao joined a non-profit organization that defended women's rights and interests. She hopes that through her own efforts, more women who have suffered from domestic violence will bravely stand up and safeguard their rights and interests.
Zhang Miao is watching a movie in home projector.