Escape may not be too easy to escape; The face is not necessarily uncomfortable; Loneliness is not necessarily unhappy; It may not last long to get it. What is lost is not necessarily gone; Turning around is not necessarily weakness. The more unwilling people are, the more unwilling they are to let go.

I saw such a news on TV yesterday: when a pair of lovers broke up, one side was unwilling to destroy the other by the most drastic means, I thought, is this love? Because the other person doesn't love you, so destroy him (her), because the other person changed his mind, so kill him (her) to vent his hatred. Such feelings are really terrible.

Recently, I overheard a song on a CD called Happy Break-up. Subversion is very popular recently, and many ideas have been subverted.

Are you happy to break up? Maybe happy, maybe unhappy, unhappy because you still love him or her, happy because you finally dumped him or her. The difference between the two is who broke up voluntarily. It seems that the person who has the initiative is the key to whether you can be happy or not.

Although the definition of love will change with everyone's experience, all love cannot be perfect. There are many reasons for breaking up, not necessarily because you did something wrong. Maybe you didn't do anything, maybe you did too much. If you don't love, sometimes you just feel changed. There is no reason, and no amount of analysis will help.

Breaking up without illness always makes people unwilling.

Because I was unwilling, I chose to struggle, curse, cry and threaten in order not to let the other person leave. Some people don't want to because they spend a lot of precious time. Some people spend a lot of money and can't balance their hearts. They have to hold "You make me sad, and I won't make you feel better!" Mentality.

The question is, how long can this reluctant love last?

Love, if it is a waltz, must be that two people are willing to step on the same pace and follow the same rhythm in order to jump out of the beautiful duet.

When the other person doesn't want to jump, you stubbornly hold his (her) hand, drag his (her) body and bravely jump. This dance is ugly enough. Isn't it necessary to tear them apart and let you die?

If a person lacks the ability of introspection and self-confidence, he can only rely on a kind of stupid courage, which not only destroys others, but also mistakes himself.

When love is gone, don't force the other person to stay, and don't ask any reasons for not loving. When the other party insists on breaking up, let love drift in the wind!

At least, he (she) got what he (she) wanted, and you are free.

Maybe, he (she) will regret it, or maybe not. However, you are not responsible for his or her decision, you are only responsible for your own decision.

The reason why people are unhappy may also be their own mistakes.

When we break up, we are sad, but those who have experienced the breakup can't help laughing at his stupidity if they recall the scene of heartbreak that day: "Am I having a bad time now?"

Know how to cherish everyone who has been with you for a while. I think it also represents a wise choice to break up peacefully.

Breaking up may also represent a new opportunity. When two people choose to go their separate ways, it is not a bad thing if they can open their hearts and get to know themselves or others again.

Breaking up may be unhappy, but it won't kill you. Why bother? Lose, not necessarily no longer have; What you get is not necessarily the best. When it's time to let go, let the other person be free and let yourself be free.