Children always carry the sustenance of many parents. Under normal circumstances, as long as parents pay attention to some taboos during pregnancy, the baby will be very healthy. However, some parents are doomed to experience ups and downs because they are deformed. For them, the biggest worry is that their babies will inherit their misfortunes.
Xiao Zhang (a pseudonym) is from Henan. Because of the rare "bird face syndrome" since childhood, her appearance resembling "bird face" has been rejected and discussed by many people. Although she was laughed at and bullied since she was a child, God still pitied her. According to reports, Xiao Zhang married her current husband at marriageable age.
The young couple always wanted their own children after marriage, but because they were worried that the children would inherit their mother's face, they chose to go to the hospital first to listen to the doctor's advice. After the doctor learned about Xiao Zhang's situation, he seriously suggested that Xiao Zhang think twice before you act. After all, the genetic probability of this disease is still quite high.
However, a heart that wanted to be a mother eventually got Xiao Zhang pregnant. After all kinds of worries, Xiao Zhang successfully gave birth to his son. It is gratifying that the child not only did not inherit his "bird face", but also looked very handsome, which made Xiao Zhang and his wife excited.
The health and safety of the first child made Xiao Zhang completely forget the risks. Especially after seeing that many families have two children, she was envious and decided to have another child. However, this time the doctor's advice is more serious: there is a great possibility of a second child's face.
However, Xiao Zhang still didn't take the doctor's advice to heart, insisted on pregnancy, and gave birth to a second child regardless of the risk. Although she was a daughter as she wished, it is a pity that the second child completely inherited her mother's "bird face syndrome" and became an "abnormal" child in the eyes of others.
At this time, Xiao Zhang regretted it. The prognosis of "bird face syndrome" is more serious, which not only requires a lot of money for treatment and correction, but also may lead to the life danger of children at any time.
In addition, even if the child grows up normally, but with such a unique "bird face", how should she face everyone's attention in the future?
At the thought that children will face the same difficulties as themselves in the future, Xiao Zhang regrets his insistence.
After this incident broke out, many netizens began to attack the "bird face" mother:
@ Spring Water: Angry and sad! Although it gave children life, it also gave them endless pain in the next few decades. The mother who gave birth to her child regardless of the risk is the most irresponsible!
I eat pizza on the moon: To put it bluntly, it's because I want both children. Having a healthy child is not enough, and I want to learn from others to have a second child. It's hard to say if such a person says that!
@ Witch: Since you want to see a doctor so much, you won't listen to the doctor's advice. It is not worthy of sympathy at all!
@ Home: This child will hate her parents for giving birth to her when she grows up. How much courage does it take for a deformed child to live a normal life to resist the malice of the world?
If one of the spouses is defective, can they have children?
In Douma's view, it is certainly understandable to want to be a parent, but if one of the husband and wife is defective, then in a responsible attitude towards the children, parents must do the following two things:
1.？ Consult a doctor
If one of the spouses has a defect, then this defect may be passed on to the child.
Whether it will all be inherited, the heritability and the curative effect after inheritance need to consult a doctor. It is risky for defective couples to have children, and what parents can do is to minimize this risk.
2.？ Consider economic conditions
Some genetic defects can be changed by medication or cosmetic surgery. If family conditions permit, the child's life will not be affected after treatment. For example, Li Yan, the well-known daughter of Faye Wong, has been almost normal after many operations.
On the contrary, if the family conditions are poor, the huge treatment cost will definitely be stretched, but if the treatment is given up, it will affect the child's life.
In a word, in today's society, a problematic child will not only become a burden to the family, but also to the society. The most painful thing is the child himself, who needs to bear the pressure that does not belong to this age, and has to face other people's strange eyes or malicious speculations for a long time.
Therefore, I hope all parents can think about their children before making a decision.