1, great details.
Paying attention to details can make you different, and it can also make girls feel your carefulness and think that you are a person who will find details, which will be more real. Compliment her in detail, which will make her feel your intention, unlike the same pleasantries, which will be forgotten after listening. Besides, if you praise her so much, she might even thank you for chatting.
2. Contrast praise.
This method is actually the psychological recency effect. Used in praise, it means to praise first and then derogate, that is to say, the difference between the negative characters of people or things. For example. For example, you can praise girls like this. There is no one like you. It's really annoying to eat so much without getting fat. You see, it's simple. It is to hurt girls first and then praise them, which will make girls happier.
3. The image is good.
When you talk to a girl like this, you successfully transfer the charming temperament of this cat to this girl, and the overall atmosphere is very warm and ambiguous. This method is a way to praise girls with image transfer. Image transmission is a way of praising people, but you can actually do it.
4. praise behind.
People are often happier when they hear others praise themselves from a third party. When you praise the other person directly, the other person may think it is polite. When he hears you praise him from another population, he certainly won't think it's polite.
5. Praise with bedding.
When you see a girl, you can come with your mouth open. Beauty, you are so beautiful. I'm telling you, it's really useless If you call a beautiful woman in the street, most girls will turn around and there will be no accidents. Besides, your public praise, a little longer and better-looking girls can hear it, and it doesn't make sense for you to say it again. Therefore, before praising girls, we must be fully prepared.
If you want to praise from the heart, you really think this place is beautiful. This trait must be praised. It doesn't have to be exaggerated, but it must be true. Just like we treat feelings, truth is the main thing. Everything is especially fake, unless you are a very good actor or language artist, black enough to be white and round enough to be square. There is no girl who doesn't like sweet talk, so cultivate her own aesthetics and carefulness, so that everything is true and solid.
Praise girls need to pay attention to:
Don't praise the external behavior, but the internal value it embodies;
Everyone has different physical conditions, but they are all seeking the affirmation of their inner self-worth. It is hard to avoid praising only appearance or external behavior, which can be seen by everyone. Therefore, we need to "understand" her ability and value with the help of some small behaviors and actions. For example: "You speak simply, forcefully and methodically, and you must be a master who is unique in your work and valued by the leaders." "On an occasion like today, you put on a decent light makeup, which shows that you are more respectful." "After listening to your words just now, I think there are too many places worth learning."
Don't brag about general features, but about specific and unique details:
"You look great today." "You are so elegant." "You are so beautiful that I can't open my eyes." All these can only win a temporary smile, and it is difficult to impress her. You should try to avoid the "panoramic" angle, but focus on small things and praise her for what makes you feel different. This not only reflects your concern for her, careful observation and careful thinking, but also a search for identity. For example: "Your eyes today are deeper and more attractive than usual. Is it because you used different eye cream?" "The blue on your bracelet matches the color of your coat." "Just now, he said something about you. I can see that you are actually angry, but you didn't have an attack. I think your character is really good. " "When someone passes the conference table, you subconsciously stop. You are so careful. "
Praise is not only the advantages that everyone knows, but also some harmless shortcomings:
Everyone likes to listen to good words, even if they know it is a shortcoming, they are also happy to hear compliments from others. Boasting shortcomings shows that tolerance, friendship, affection and psychological distance are close to her. For example, "don't always say that you can't clean up the table, and those who achieve great things are informal." I'll help you with these little things. " "Which girl doesn't like to eat? But there are really few people like you who can restrain themselves. " "Who said you were too headstrong? A gentle girl is willful. "
Care about other women's feelings:
Praise must be appropriate at work or when other women are present. You know, women are more or less jealous. Some men often praise a woman unconsciously in front of everyone, so it is better to say less. Especially for female colleagues or friends in their own units, it is best not to talk about these. Because women are very sensitive to praise, they should pay special attention.
Praise in a natural tone:
Every woman wants her existence to be recognized. If her talents, looks, judgment and other advantages are properly praised by others, especially men, she will feel sincerely happy and respond favorably to those who praise her. However, it should be noted that praise is not flattery. If women who are praised are ashamed of themselves, it is better not to say that kind of praise.
Try to say compliments in a natural tone. Nature itself means beauty. Be calm when praising women. Don't embarrass the other person by saying it. Only in this way will I agree with your praise. Moreover, don't praise women on impulse, it will make women think you have nothing to do. ?
Commend girls as follows:
1, you are a painter, fresh and elegant; You are a little poem, gentle and meaningful; You are a breeze, considerate and delicate; You are a spring flower, beautiful and lovely.
When he saw a white face with fine eyes and a flowery smile, his eyes immediately widened, but he saw a very delicate girl face, about 14 or 15 years old, smiling at himself.
3. Your bright eyes are like clear water, and mine are like clear water. Let's get together sincerely and water the happy tree of life together.
4, the master's son, the increase of one point is too long, and the decrease of one point is too short; The powder is too white, and Zhu is too red. -Song Yu
Disciple's lewd fu "
(Miss among the owners, in terms of figure, adding one point is too high, and subtracting one point is too short; As for skin color, powder is too white, and vermilion is too red. )
You walked into the living room from the outside with a bunch of laughter and casually wore a red sweatshirt. Too beautiful, too passionate, too simple, an unspeakable love suddenly rose in my heart.
He saw the girl's long hair fluttering in the ballroom light, and there was a strange smell in her hair. They weave a sweet dream and make a rustling sound like rain.
7. The jade photo of a young lady is like lightning tearing the night sky in the dark, and it is like sunshine tearing the dark clouds. In an instant, I fell in love with drinking nectar, which made me understand that real beauty exists in this world.
8. Spring flowers and autumn moon are scenes praised by poets, but I find them very common. Only your smile embedded with pear vortex is the most beautiful idol in my eyes.
9. Beautiful girls are born with beauty. White skin, big eyes, delicate nose, full mouth and lovely "uninvited scroll" constitute a natural and beautiful picture.
10, you are a bit like the moon in the sky, and also like the twinkling stars. It's a pity that I'm not a poet, or you'll write 10 thousand poems to describe your beauty.
1 1. If I am a director, then you will be the best heroine in my mind.
12. You bring me the fragrance of flowers in spring, the cool breeze in summer, the good news of fruits in autumn and the tenderness of snow in winter.
13, you can see your nobility from your words and your beauty from your manners.
14, your dancing in the sunshine makes me linger. I am fascinated by your sounds of nature. Your elegant and beautiful words and deeds make me unforgettable.
15, only the lotus can match your holiness, and only the moon can match your ice. ?
16, I am so lucky. Jia Baoyu is surrounded by beautiful women with fragrant flowers. I have a lovely girl with eyes like water apricots, not worse than him, haha.
17, if she just turned her head and smiled, there were a hundred spells, and the powder and paint of six palaces disappeared without a trace. -Bai Juyi's Song of Eternal Sorrow
(She smiles back and all kinds of charms appear at the same time. All kinds of women in the Sixth Hospital, white and green, faded at once. Describe the beauty of Yang Guifei. )
18, when you look back and smile, my heart seems to have found a bosom friend. I think you are the person I have been looking for all my life.
19, when Chaoyang was born, I saw her oval face, beautiful Wen Xiu, and bright and clear eyes looking at her.
20. You are a clever elf, spreading happiness; You are an extraordinary fairy, spreading happiness; You are a lively and lovely messenger, bringing warmth; You are the most beautiful girl in my heart.
2 1, your beauty makes all the girls jealous. I didn't know I was actually horny until I saw you, hehe.
23. I saw that the woman was about eighteen or nineteen years old, slim, with big eyes, snow-like skin and a head of black hair behind her head.
24. You are the goddess of ivory carving, generous, dignified, gentle and quiet, which makes men admire you deeply.
25. God is too eccentric! Why should all the advantages be concentrated on you alone?
Would you please not appear in the street often? Otherwise traffic accidents will increase.
27. Waterfall-like long hair, elegant dress, standard oval face, smart almond eyes, that kind of sedate and dignified temperament, no matter how naughty people see you, they will be careful.
28. Who is cuter than her? However, she lives alone in an empty valley. -Wang Du Fu's Beauty
There is a unique beauty, living in seclusion in an empty valley. )
29. The orange suit is naturally open, revealing red and white sweaters and lake blue tights, which set off slender legs, which are both sloppy and beautiful. Your costume is a success!
30. This bright star, but what about your eyes? Your eyes and my stars! On the sea of life, sail for the dawn for me.