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Jia Ling spent 20 years pursuing her dream successfully, but in fact, dreams can be "dismantled"

In 2000, Jia Ling was still a thin girl with clear features. Although Jia Ling is now fatter, she is cuter, and her performance on stage is also more skillful and at ease.

But Jia Ling’s journey has not been easy.

She once revealed that in the first few years when she first drifted to Beijing, she was almost unable to make a living. Her family also called Jia Ling many times to ask her to go back to her hometown in Hubei, but Jia Ling always said to hold on a little longer and if that didn't work, she would go back. Relying on her tenacity, she continued to teach herself, gritted her teeth, persisted, and kept begging others to take her in. Finally, Feng Gonghui recognized talents and accepted Jia Ling as her apprentice.

Under the continuous guidance of her master and her own continuous polishing, Jia Ling has proven herself step by step through various competitions. In the comedy world where men absolutely dominate, Jia Ling’s status is unparalleled. Can shake.

What is even more surprising is that the box office of "Hello, Li Huanying", the first film directed by Jia Ling, has exceeded 5 billion yuan. This movie that pays tribute to her mother has brought Jia Ling the highest revenue in her life so far. A moment of light.

Putting aside Jia Ling’s five-year experience of persisting in Beipiao for her dream, and putting aside her experience of constantly begging for shelter and apprenticeship, maybe each of us is the same as Jia Ling, an ordinary person.

But why did Jia Ling go from being an unknown little actress to becoming the most influential female comedian and the highest-grossing female director in China today? In addition to persisting in dreams, "dismantling" dreams is the key.

So why do you want to "dismantle" your dream? Because there are too many difficulties and challenges before the dream can be realized. It would be much easier if you "break" the big dream into small dreams.

Today I want to talk to you about Ye Wubin’s new book "Growing Up in Pursuit of Dreams". It can help people to open up the two channels of Ren and Du, which is to "dismantle" dreams.

Ye Wubin is the founder of the global time management and efficiency brand and the speaker of the audio course "Ye Wubin's 100 Lectures on Time Management" with 140 million views. His courses have gone abroad and influenced millions of students to improve their time management and change their lives.

The book "Growing Up in Pursuit of Dreams" mainly tells the story of the author and his son, who spent 7 years traveling around the world's seven continents and four oceans. The book not only shows us the most unique scenery around the world, but also shows us the entire process of dream realization, including budding, difficulties, challenges and final realization.

Everything can be dismantled, but dreams must be "dismantled"

The author's dream is to travel around the world, and I believe this is also the dream of many people. But most people just stay in the "dreaming" and "thinking" stage. It turns out that the author is also like this, he doesn’t know what to do, so his dream is buried deep in his heart.

One day, when asked by his six-year-old son what his dream was, the author casually said it was "traveling around the world." The son said, "Then why don't you do it now?" The author fell into deep thinking.

Therefore, the author decided to start traveling around the world the next year and "tell the world" in the circle of friends. Some people praised it and others raised questions. Because the author is not a professional travel agent and has never organized group tours before. So the author thought, wouldn't it be much easier if I "break" the big dream into small dreams and realize them one by one?

Just do it!

Because the author needs to give lectures all over the country, and the next lecture happens to be in Nanning, he organized a group of nearly a hundred people to "hike the Li River" together. Although it was less than 30 kilometers, everyone completed it, which gave the author great confidence.

It can also be seen from Jia Ling's success trajectory that the realization of her dream was also "disassembled" in this way.

In pursuit of her ultimate big dream, Jia Ling participated in the "National Crosstalk Sketch Invitational Competition" the year she graduated and won the championship in the professional group. However, she remained unknown for nearly 10 years.

But Jia Ling did not give up and persevered for her dream, even if she lived in a basement and ate pickles every day. In 2005, Jia Ling was admitted to the China Broadcasting Art Troupe and officially became Feng Gong's teacher.

Under Feng Gong’s guidance and support, God began to favor this diligent girl.

In 2008, Jia Ling's "Big Talk" became popular in Beijing and performed more than 80 times.

In 2010, Jia Ling and Bai Kainan's "Big Talk" appeared on the stage of the Spring Festival Gala. With the influence of the Spring Festival Gala, Jia Ling became popular all over the country.

Jia Ling was 28 years old this year when her dream came true. She had been preparing for this moment for 10 years.

Jia Ling does not have any extraordinary talents, nor does she have the capital to "bring money into the group". With down-to-earth persistence, she "breaks down" the final big dream into smaller dreams one by one, and realizes them first. If you realize your little dream, are you one step closer to your ultimate dream?

This is exactly the same as the dream realization strategy of Ye Wubin, the author of this book.

The process of "dismantling" dreams is actually the process of "dismantling" difficulties. Whether in the process of realizing dreams or in daily life and work, difficulties are everywhere and follow us. We must learn to break big difficulties into small ones. This tests our ability and how we look at problems. thinking.

Traveling around the world is a very romantic thing in itself, otherwise it would not be a dream for countless people.

But unlike enjoying a group trip, planning and servicing a global trip is really not an easy task.

From the early determination of the route, communication plan, application for overseas visa, to subsequent experience projects at foreign attractions, everything requires careful preparation and hard work. But the author was not frightened by the difficulties before him. In his philosophy, "everything can be dismantled."

As a result, every difficulty, no matter how big or small, was reduced to small things by the author’s dismantling.

There are more wonderful stories about dreams and beautiful foods around the world in the book. If you happen to have the dream of traveling around the world, if you happen to be looking for a guide to traveling around the world. Ye Wubin recommends this book "Dream Growth" to you, because in this book, there are dreams, difficulties, overcoming, and growth. After reading it, people will have a deeper understanding of dreams.