So the singer of this song became famous in one fell swoop. He is a military singer-Jiang Tao who has both tough appearance and hard power.

Behind his brilliant achievements is his arduous journey over the past ten years, and this bumpy and bitter journey cannot be separated from the help and support of his wife.

What few people know is that the love story of this couple is equivalent to the modern version of butterfly lovers. What wonderful love stories have they experienced?

1967, Jiang Tao was born in an ordinary family in Qingdao.

19 years old, inherited the work of his father who retired from state-owned enterprises and worked as a ticket inspector at the railway station. At this time, he would not have thought that his future would change because of a girl whose life experience and background were very different from his own.

This should start with Jiang Tao's musical dream. At the age of six, Jiang Tao learned to sing model operas on the radio, and went to the Children's Palace to learn clarinet in elementary school. Since childhood, he has shown great interest in music.

However, the financial conditions at home did not support him to embark on the road of music, so Jiang Tao endured all the way. After working, he had the financial ability and began to learn guitar from a music teacher.

This teacher is a matchmaker with Wan.

Snowflakes fluttered that day, just like the most susceptible youth, unforgettable. At the music teacher's party, I fell in love with Wan Yi at first sight.

If you ask, he can probably describe the scene clearly: Wan was wearing a white turtleneck, his ears were short, his eyes were as smart as deer's, and he smiled like a flower.

Jiang Tao's heart was pounding and his cheeks were red to his ears. He didn't even dare to look up at Xiao Mu's eyes.

To ease the atmosphere, the teacher ordered Jiang Tao to sing a song at the dinner table. He loved singing so much that he immediately forgot his embarrassment and anxiety and began to sing generously.

At that time, Jiang Tao didn't have such superb singing skills, but he had a passion for singing.

Sure enough, the simplicity and sincerity in the song also penetrated into Wan's heart. At that time, she thought that this was the most beautiful song she had ever heard.

In this way, the two young people who fell in love at first sight began to get along more. Sometimes Jiang Tao sent Xiao Mu home after class, sometimes Jiang Tao picked Xiao Mu up from work at the factory, and sometimes they went out on a date together.

Although they admire each other, Jiang Tao didn't break this enough paper because of the difference of family environment.

Xiao Mu lives in a big villa in Qingdao, and his father is still a pilot. She is a well-deserved rich girl, while Jiang Tao lives in a bungalow and is just an ordinary railway worker.

Therefore, Jiang Tao chickened out. Later, even the music teachers couldn't stand it, and often created opportunities to fix them up.

Different family backgrounds have not brought too many barriers between them. Xiao Mu's innocence and liveliness left a deep impression on Jiang Tao, and Jiang Tao's extensive knowledge and musical talent also made Xiao Mu admire him.

Two young hearts gradually came together in a long-term relationship. Finally, I confessed to Wan.

Finally, when his sweetheart stepped out of this step, Xiao Mu nodded happily and gave Jiang Tao an unusually sweet kiss.

While love blossomed, Jiang Tao did not neglect the pursuit of singing. He took part in the third national youth singing competition, but unfortunately he was brushed off in the preliminary contest.

Xiao Mu advised him: "Failure is not terrible. I will stay with you. Let's try a few times. " The lover's comfort is the medicine for depressed Jiang Tao, and Xiao Mu gave him a bigger surprise.

On that day, Jiang Tao's father contacted Xiao Mu and said that Jiang Tao was locked up because of the frustration of the game. Wan went home and asked him through the door, "if I ask you now, will you marry me?" What would you say? "

It is naturally Jiang Tao's dream to marry the girl he loves. He rushed out and gave Xiao Mu a big hug: "Mary, losing the game is not terrible. Missing you is a regret in this life. "

Xiao Mu smiled happily.

While I am happy, I am also worried about whether my poor family can bring happiness to Wan.

Knowing her fiance's worry, Xiao Mu said understandingly, "I will convince my parents that you are a talented person and you will definitely achieve something in the future. Don't worry, we will work together. "

Xiao Mu's trust made Jiang Tao surge with emotion, and he secretly vowed in his heart that he must make the girl happy.

It is conceivable that this marriage was resolutely opposed by thousands of parents.

In order to make their daughter change their minds, they even arranged several blind dates for Wan 'an, all of whom were rich and powerful young talents, no matter which one was better than the others.

However, Wan was adamant, refused all blind dates and told his parents that they would not marry unless they were. The old couple had no choice but to acquiesce in the marriage.

We often see stories of rich girls marrying in movies and novels, but in reality, it takes more courage than expected to take this step, and marriage is not the end of the story. The life of daily necessities is the real reality.

After marriage, Jiang Tao accidentally took part in a singing contest and won more money than his three-month salary.

This reawakened Jiang Tao's love for music. With the support of his wife, he began to participate in various singing competitions and lived on bonuses.

In order to learn songs, when the leader of the former unit told Jiang Tao that he could be promoted, Jiang Tao gave up the promotion opportunity that others longed for and applied for a more leisurely post, so that he could have more time to practice music, which also won his wife's unconditional support.

However, there are not many competitions, and not every competition can get rich bonuses. Jiang Tao and his wife often lead a hard life.

Xiao Mu, who lived a luxurious life since childhood, not only never complained about Jiang Tao, but also tried to take care of family affairs and often comforted Jiang Tao. The two supported and comforted each other and lived a poor and happy life.

In the crystallization of the couple's love, after the birth of their son Jiang Yukuo, the family's economy was once in an unsustainable state. Jiang Tao had to work part-time, singing in nightclubs every night and coming home late at night.

Wan also found a job helping people cook. She once adapted to this life from luxury to frugality at an unexpected speed in "Good Girl". Cooking in summer often burns her fingers black with smoke. She has no complaints or regrets.

Jiang Tao felt guilty when he watched his wife change from a carefree life to a burden of supporting the family. Optimistic and strong, Xiao Mu did not give up, and encouraged her husband to continue to pursue his musical dream, which became the strong backing of Jiang Tao.

As we all know, heaven rewards diligence and has a bright future. After hard work, we will finally wait until the day of harvest.

And wan's efforts were not in vain. On 1992, Jiang Tao won the first place in the professional group with a song "Snow in My Hometown".

Behind this honor, he shared the same sweat as his wife: Wan took on more housework and family pressure in order to give enough time to practice music.

In order to stand out from the competition, they also found musicians to tailor songs for Jiang Tao, and Xiao Mu even sold his dowry to pay the high customization fee.

When Jiang Tao entered the final, he was nervous because of stage fright, because his opponents were mostly young singers, and he was just a nobody.

On the phone, Xiao Mu took pains to encourage him: "It's great to be in the finals. It is natural to be happy about winning the prize. Even if you don't win the prize, we won't lose money. " No matter what happens, I will stay with you. "

"Besides, I believe in your ability. In my heart, you will always be the first. "

In the end, Jiang Tao won the first place in the professional group with a high score of 98 points. He excitedly reported good news to his wife and said, "I succeeded!" I didn't live up to your expectations! This first is the first of both of us! "

The couple shared this hard-won joy, but at the same time they were faced with the choice of staying in Qingdao or going to Beijing.

The former is comfortable and plain, while the latter has many opportunities, but it is also full of risks. His wife's opinion has become an important part of the decision. When Jiang Tao put forward the idea of going north, Xiao Mu didn't hesitate for long, so he gritted his teeth and agreed.

At that time, North drift was like a cake bomb full of sweet attraction and hidden dangers. People leave their homes and come to another big city that is incompatible with them, trying to realize their extraordinary dreams and become great people.

Even if countless people fail to return home, brave people will not stop. Obviously, Hewan is such a warrior.

At first, Jiang Tao was the only one who went to Beijing, but compared with the pain caused by drifting north, the yearning for separation was even more unbearable. Soon, I took my son Wan to Beijing to find her husband.

The arrival of his wife is naturally a big surprise for Jiang Tao, but it also brings more troubles.

The high consumption in big cities has become a huge pressure on life, and the housing of a family of three has also become a big problem. Jiang Tao and his wife couldn't find the most suitable place to live, so they had to move several times.

They used to wander in all kinds of basements and spend long nights on the floor. At that time, Jiang Tao began to participate in performances frequently, and supported his family with the meager income from performances.

Fortunately, the couple in Tiancheng didn't suffer for long. 1994, Jiang Tao participated in the Spring Festival Gala for the first time and sang "People Going Home".

His sonorous timbre and professional singing level have left a deep impression on the people all over the country, and the rich emotions revealed by his songs have also touched tens of millions of people who are eager to go home or lucky enough to go home.

After that, Jiang Tao joined the Armed Police Art Troupe and won the title of full division.

Finally, he got a stable job and solved the problem of food and clothing in life. The Jiang Tao family didn't have to look around for cheap houses, so the government gave them a house.

Contrary to the improvement of living conditions, Jiang Tao's career has also become prosperous.

From then on to 1999, Jiang Tao's familiar face appeared in the Spring Festival Evening. He is like the imprint of the Spring Festival Evening, engraved in the memory of a generation.

The songs he sang in the Spring Festival Evening, such as "Yugong Mountain" and "Go home often", have spread all over the country and become the most classic echoes year after year.

1999, Jiang Tao bought a big house in Beijing Asian Games Town. When he showed his wife around the new house, she was so excited that she was about to cry.

She met Jiang Tao when she was young and married the poor young man regardless of her family's opposition. When everyone questioned her decision, she firmly believed that Jiang Tao could bring her happiness. When Jiang Tao felt depressed and lonely, she encouraged him without discouragement and never doubted his talent.

Now it's all over, just like time is turning, which finally proves that she didn't go astray on impulse. This battle with fate and time was brave and strong, and she finally won the final victory.

This is the happiness of a faithful wife.

After becoming famous, Jiang Tao did not take the road of dog blood. On the contrary, looking back on this journey, what he is most grateful for and unforgettable is the contribution of his wife Wan.

A friend kindly reminded Xiao Mu: "This time is different. There are so many beautiful young girls out there. Be careful that your Jiang Tao can't resist the temptation. "

Wan was ashamed and worried. After Jiang Tao knew it, he didn't say some empty sweet words to comfort his wife, but directly reassured his wife with practical actions.

He is very busy at work, but he doesn't forget to prepare gifts for his wife. Before being complained by his wife that he didn't know how to be romantic, he began to order bouquets at festivals like a young man.

When he needs a long business trip or program, he will take his wife and go home on weekdays. He will also help her with the housework.

Looking at the husband who has realized his young ideal, he is still considerate, surprised and happy as usual.

Yes, we often say that real couples can share weal and woe, but in fact, couples who can share weal and woe are even more valuable. And Wan have undoubtedly done this.

Their story continues. With a solid economic foundation, Jiang Tao and his wife decided to give their son the best education. They sent him to study abroad, so Wan sometimes accompanied him.

In fact, Wan has done more than that, because she is busy with her work, and she has the ability to pay for her children's education, so that her son can become a positive person like her father.

Jiang Tao's life is also taken care of by her. As Jiang Tao's assistant, she is also meticulous about his work arrangement.

It can be said that Wan is a solid backing in times of difficulties and hardships, and Wan is still the most important person standing behind him to support him when the scenery is infinite.

"The wife of dross can't be abandoned, and Xiao Mu is not the wife of dross." Nowadays, Jiang Tao, surrounded by flowers and applause, is often questioned by the outside world about his feelings with his wife. He answered this way, and his eyes were as firm as the light in the eyes of a million people who were bent on marrying him.

Wan's parents, who once strongly opposed the marriage, have changed now. Jiang Tao is not only caring for his wife, but also filial to the elderly.

His mother left when he was very young, and he took Xiao Mu's parents as his own, because he lacked maternal love all the year round.

Xiao Mu's mother once bluntly said in a program: "Jiang Tao is very kind to me, and my own son can't be so kind to me." Even bluntly, when Jiang Tao and Xiao Mu quarrel, they will stand on Jiang Tao's side.

Harmonious family happiness also nourishes Jiang Tao's creation. In 2005, Jiang Tao published an album called Waiting for bloom, which was specially created for the love between him and his wife.

At the media meeting about this album, Jiang Tao, who is mature enough, mentioned the topic of his wife and said with deep affection: "She is my spiritual pillar, and I can't live without her."

Seeing those eyes seems to go back to the day when he met the young girl a few years ago. From that day on, he chose her as the destiny takes a hand's person in his heart and wanted to give her a lifetime of happiness.

In 2007, Jiang Tao also released a single entitled "I love you, I really love you", dedicated to the dearest person. The implication is self-evident.

Today, in 2022, I have been married to Wan for more than 30 years, and my married life is still harmonious and happy. Just as Xiao Mu has always been attached to Jiang Tao, Jiang Tao has also fulfilled his promise with his own practical actions.

After 30 years of debut, he really achieved zero scandal and was passed down as a much-told story in the flashy entertainment circle. Their son, as handsome as Jiang Tao, is now studying in a famous university in England.

This life-long ordinary life is the happiness and peace that many people dream of. Those tender details and trivial lives for each other are all shining in this fast-paced society full of competition and throwing human feelings into the corner.

From hardship to infinite scenery, from muddy roads to sunshine avenue, the greatest happiness is to have your favorite people along the way.

Holding your hand, growing old with your son, and mutual affection with ten thousand are the best scenes of our ideal love.

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