There was a pocket girl who was 90 cm tall. Except for her figure, her intelligence and IQ are the same as normal people. But because of their short stature, it is difficult for them to get married and have children like normal people. This pocket girl is no exception. She can't have children, but she really wants one. After a painful struggle, she finally gave birth to her son against the doctor's advice. Did she gain a happy family as a result? What happened afterwards?
This pocket girl is called Pan Lixuan. Her hometown is Xiaogan City, Hubei Province, and her parents are ordinary farmers. Therefore, her family conditions can only maintain normal food and clothing, not too rich. She is the second child in the family, with an elder sister above and a younger brother below. Although the living conditions at home are ordinary, a family of five is busy and happy. Pan was no different from other children when he was a child. He was very delicate, lively and cheerful, and usually liked singing. Everyone likes such a little girl.
Unfortunately, this beautiful and lively little girl had a high fever when she was 10. Since then, her height has never grown, staying at 90 cm. At first, she didn't find it herself. She thought it was because her family was not rich and nutritious that she grew slower than her peers. But as time went by, day by day, she found that she still didn't grow taller at all. She began to worry more and more, and her mood slowly climbed into the thick clouds.
Her parents also discovered her emotional changes and decided not to hide it from him, but to tell the truth. At that time, the provincial hospital gave the test results of "short stature". After seeing this diagnosis, her parents were shocked. Pan's cause is very complicated. The doctor said that there are congenital genetic factors and acquired factors, but the medical technology at that time could not treat such diseases. After knowing this, Pan suffered a great blow. Before that, she also thought about what she would be like when she grew up in Xu Haihuan. She put on her favorite beautiful skirt and had a slim and tall figure, just like a princess. But she won't grow tall and grow up like a normal person.
Walking in school, more and more students gradually pointed at her, which made Pan depressed for a while under such a blow. But this girl has a good attitude since she was a child. Optimistic and strong, she finally chose to block those mocking voices, turn them into motivation and study harder. Pan worked hard and got excellent grades. After graduating from school, she became the manager of the local disabled art troupe. There, she turned herself into a "little sun", trying to encourage more disabled people with the same physical defects and lead them to bravely bathe in the light of the world.
In a blink of an eye, kind and optimistic Pan worked in the Disabled Art Troupe for several years. During this period, she helped many disabled people and passed on her strength to them, so that they could see more hope for life. Unconsciously, at the age of her marriage, she also met her own love. The object that attracted her attention was Ma Ruilin, a big man, but his head was burned and left some traces. Ma joined the disabled art troupe long after Pan. His character is relatively silent. He seldom talks when he has something to do, just doing what he should do.
However, this taciturn tall man was attracted by Pan one day and took the initiative to ask her for contact information. At that time, the head of the troupe treated him. At the dinner table, he listened to Pan sing a song, and he liked this strong and beautiful pocket girl very much. After they left their contact information, they chatted as soon as they got home. After contact, Pan finally knew the reason why the horse was silent. In the process of burning the kiln, he unfortunately suffered from the collapse of the kiln body, and the red and hot kiln bricks crushed him, causing many serious burns on his skin, which disfigured his face.
Since the scar on his hand and face fell, he has become very inferior, and he doesn't like to communicate with others, and he doesn't like other people's strange eyes. Pan and Ma are in the same boat. That's how they met, so they gradually came together. Since then, under the optimistic rendering of Pan, Ma's heart is not so gloomy. And Pan also felt the gentleness, thoughtfulness and delicacy of horses, which is exactly what many girls like, and she is no exception. Although two people stand together, there is a big gap in size, but their hearts are very close, they have a common language, can understand each other and tolerate each other. There is no second person more suitable than the other.
After falling in love with Ma, Pan joined hands in July 20 14 and got married. They live happily after marriage, no different from normal couples. Unfortunately, Pan can't have children.
Although she is short and different from normal people, Pan is also a woman. After marriage, she also wants to have children of her own, so that marriage and family can be more complete. The year after she married Ma, that is, 20 15, she found herself pregnant. This is undoubtedly a surprise for both of them, but to her pain, the hospital advised her not to have children, and her parents strongly opposed it, so she listened to the doctor and aborted the child.
The doctor advised Pan not to have children for two reasons. First, she may carry the dwarfism gene, so the offspring she gave birth to are likely to be hereditary. Second, she is too short, only 90 cm, which leads to her constitution not allowing her to have children. As the fetus grows up, it may cause her other organs to squeeze each other, threatening her life safety. After a painful struggle, she still couldn't bear to abort the child, and she would never be pregnant again after abortion, and finally chose to give birth to the child.
As the fetus grows in the womb, she often feels that she can't breathe and can't stand up in the future, so she can only lie in bed and wait for the baby to be born. Ma Ruilin is still very considerate to her. She always massages her limbs when she comes home from work. With mutual support, the couple spent a long ten months. On 20 16, Pan gave birth to a boy. There was nothing wrong with the hospital examination when the children were born, but they were unhappy for a long time. Six months later, they were examined again. Their child was diagnosed with brittle bone disease and was a fragile porcelain doll. Looking at his son's innocent eyes, Pan didn't know whether it was right or wrong to insist on having children. In short, she is very ashamed and regretful.
Conclusion Although people should not bow to fate easily, there are some things that people can't change, and the forced result may not be too sweet. Some people say Pam should have children. Anyway, she has the right to be a mother. Some people think that Pan should not have children. If a child is born with a related disease, he will also suffer a lifetime of misfortune.
There is nothing wrong with Pan wanting to be a mother, and she has been trying to live like a normal person. But maybe it would be better if she didn't have children, because in the face of uncontrollable things, even if she had children and satisfied her mother's heart, the children might suffer innocently. Now that Pan has given birth to a child, something has gone wrong. She can only hope that the medical technology in the future will be advanced enough for the child to grow up healthily.