Of course, love is not a criterion to evaluate whether a woman is good enough, but there is no doubt that many times, some qualities in a woman will make men unconsciously like and want to be close.
Of course, you would say that men like women's figure and appearance, but this is only a part of people.
In real life, you will also find a very interesting fact: there will always be excellent men around those girls who are not very beautiful.
So what qualities do women have to make men so obsessed?
If a girl is seeking to improve her relationship with a boy, she may as well change herself.
1. tenderness
tenderness is not a unique feature of southern girls, but it can often be felt in many southern girls.
Perhaps this is why southern girls are more popular with boys.
Of course, it's not that girls in the north are not good enough, but both have their own characteristics, and it happens that the characteristics of girls in the south are more in line with some of boys' aesthetics.
Gentle personality is more acceptable to boys, and it is also more attractive in itself, which can stimulate men's instinctive desire for protection.
Of course, it is very important that a gentle girl is willing to respond more actively to boys, so that boys can feel concerned and valued here.
this will make men feel warmer.
2. Confidence
A confident woman is the most beautiful woman in the world.
People who are confident often have a quality that people can't resist.
From the way girls talk to their manners, women will become the focus of attention.
such a woman will neither cater to the aesthetics of others, nor deliberately please others, but has her own set of standards and values in her heart.
This often makes men feel that such women are more attractive.
3. Natural beauty
I don't know if you have noticed that there are few women who like heavy makeup nowadays.
More people like the natural beauty of girls.
Especially the popularity of plastic surgery technology makes men psychologically resist those who have undergone plastic surgery.
physical attraction may become stronger, but it will not make women get long-term attention and love.
It is more important for women to improve their charm to cultivate their natural beauty.
For example, we can keep exercising, keep reading, have a healthy and regular diet and work and rest, and so on.
The natural beauty of a woman will be reflected through her spirit, which is what men value most.
4. Initiative
In the development of a relationship, men often play the active role, but if you want a man to be unable to refuse you, then it may not be a bad thing for you to be active.
When women are more active, all love processes will change and things will become more exciting.
Because men's initiative often means simple and reproducible popular practices, such as eating, watching movies and shopping, which have almost become routine operations.
And if girls are more active, the places where they get along will become wider, full of adventure and exploration.
In this way, it will be easier and happier to get along with each other, and the relationship between the two people can progress faster.
5. Clever
There is no shortage of clever women in this world. In many film and television works, the confrontation between men and women often turns into a love contest.
Although men like to have an advantage in communication, they are also eager to meet a evenly matched woman.
Of course, this cleverness does not mean the advantage of academic qualifications, but the ability to communicate with women more smoothly.
even in some opinions, women have reasons and ideas that can convince each other.
Look at those so-called couples who have the same views. They talk like old friends for many years. In fact, one of the most important factors is that women have shown enough intelligence in this conversation to be able to accept some of men's views.
So being smart is not omniscient, but it will make us more accessible and get to know each other.
6. Humor
Humor is not a unique charm of men, and humor in girls often impresses men.
men also like girls with a sense of humor.
As the old saying goes, beautiful skins are the same, but interesting souls are one in a million.
With humorous girls, men will be more relaxed and relaxed, and the topic will always be so interesting.
maintaining a humorous way of communication is actually our recognition of a certain relationship.
at the same time, humorous communication is also a way for us to convey a certain signal to each other.
A good woman may not be as forward-looking as you think, or charming.
They are a very ordinary kind of women, but when you get close to them, you will be attracted to them.
There is an inner thing called temperament, which is what fascinates some women.
Of course, if some girls are worried about a relationship, those who learn to change may make themselves have different gains.
More importantly, we will gain a better self in this process!