The process of getting married in Northeast China is complicated. During the day, the bride will prepare the bride's makeup in advance from morning. Usually at six o'clock, the groom will leave for the bride's house and give red envelopes to the little girls who stand outside the door.
Then look for the bride's shoes, which were hidden by her little girl in advance, only by the skill of the groom's group. After all the necessary procedures are completed, the bride will be taken back to the groom's house.
Basically, you have to be busy all day, hold a wedding banquet, sit at the table to respect your relatives, take photos with your relatives and friends, and be dragged to the stage by the host halfway, make vows, express your love and commitment to each other, and get everyone's unanimous blessing, which is the ceremony.
I never feel relaxed at night after a busy day. Because most of the guests are leaving, they will start making trouble in the bridal chamber. At this time, friends who are close to the man and the woman are basically left behind, so they often don't care about the scale of jokes and try to be happy.
Generally, when the bridal chamber is noisy, games are mainly played, such as biting apples, blowing flour, handing paper with your mouth, counting coins and so on. In fact, what we want to see most is that two couples do some ambiguous actions in front of everyone, and everyone will feel very happy when they look at their blushes and embarrassment.
But the whole scene can't be played by these two people, and the best man and bridesmaid are also part of the game. It is naturally inappropriate for these two people to play games that obviously require considerable tacit understanding or close cooperation. However, the best man and the bridesmaid are unmarried people, so it is possible to have a good impression and gradually develop their feelings in such an atmosphere.
Therefore, the host and relatives and friends play jokes on the best man and bridesmaid, in addition to activating the atmosphere, but also hope to make up a couple. If there are more friends, especially bridesmaids and groomsmen, the game will only be more colorful and full of laughter.