Why do women always like to cheat? The change of heart may be due to the psychology of looking for excitement. Many people think that only men cheat, but the tolerance of modern society has become higher. According to statistics, the cheating rate of women is even higher than that of men. Let's share why women always like to cheat.
Why do women always like to cheat? Why are more and more women cheating?
No matter how you imagine, no matter how you guess, it is not difficult for a woman to cheat when a man is tolerated to cheat in marriage. It's just that men's infidelity in marriage can be justified by some people as relieving work pressure, taking part in accidental amusement, hidden rules in shopping malls, drunkenness and promiscuity, etc. As if these are all necessary things.
Men always think that other people's wives are good, but they forget that women are also human beings and secular desires, and they also think that husbands are good for others. The reason is probably that when women feel that their married life remains unchanged, women locked in loneliness, like men, will be driven by curiosity and turmoil and begin to yearn for change and seek adventure and derailment in marriage. This is because women always want more attention and love from men, even those women who are happily married.
1, revenge men's cheating psychology.
No matter what form of infidelity it is, the protagonist is of course a man and a woman, and the family behind it is of course hurt. Some women will have revenge after learning that their men have betrayed them. Why can only men be sorry for her and get back at him?
2. The temptation of money and power.
Money and power are the strongest corruptors to overthrow everything. In the face of men with money or power around them, women often yearn for it, especially their own men who are unsuccessful in this respect, which makes these women yearn for money or power. Therefore, for money or power, it is the motivation for women to seduce these men actively, which is also the fundamental reason why women are willing to take the initiative to be mistresses before marriage.
3, the husband and wife are too familiar and have no freshness.
After a long time, the husband and wife are too familiar. They tend to be programmed and formatted in sex, and they are less and less passionate. Some couples even forget that both of them have sex. However, forgetting is only a man's business. Women don't forget, but it's hard to ask their men. If it is outside, the right occasion or opportunity will often arouse women's sexual desire, especially when they see the favorite male god, they will inevitably take the initiative to seduce.
4. Improvement of women's economic rights.
Women's economic autonomy is increasing, and the economic foundation determines the superstructure. With the increasing voice of women in the economy, their voice in sex is of course increasing. In the past, women could only do what men said. Now, when women say what to do, they must cooperate with men. Otherwise, there will be contradictions in sexual life, causing the gap between husband and wife. Over time, couples will go further and further, and it is only a matter of time before they cheat.
5. Husband and wife's sexual life is out of sync.
Women are 30 like wolves and 40 like tigers, while men are relatively calm at this stage, which makes their wives more and more dissatisfied. Therefore, most women cheat after the age of 35, and often take the initiative to attack, mainly because they have strong sexual needs. This is why mature women like their younger brothers more and more, and younger brothers love mature women, because men in their twenties and women aged 35-45 are synchronized in sex. This is also the fundamental reason why rich and powerful women like to marry their younger brothers.
6. Women's sexual requirements have improved.
Due to the liberation of the women's movement, more and more women think that they are equal to men in gender. It can't be said that men are strong and women don't enjoy it. If men are not good at it, women can't suffer for life. This is also the reason why women are increasingly demanding sexual initiative. Nowadays, the divorce rate between husband and wife is high, because there are more and more reasons for disharmony in sexual life. This is actually a woman giving a man face. If a woman cuckolds a man, he can't do anything about her.
The performance of female infidelity:
1, escape from her husband's eyes
In fact, women have deep remorse for cheating. She is deeply sorry for her husband, so when she comes home, she will like to avoid her husband's eyes, for fear that he will see something from it, and her anxiety will increase, and she will find various reasons to avoid her husband.
2, often distracted
Her mind is all spent on the man outside, and she is less and less concerned about things at home. It's easy to get distracted and often forget some things at home. At this time, she is struggling with something inside, and she doesn't have much energy to pay attention to her present life.
The number of telephone messages has increased.
This is the most common sign of cheating women. Even housewives suddenly have more "friends' phone calls" and even hide in another room to answer the phone, and the number of text messages has also increased significantly. She used to hate texting, but now she often smiles at her mobile phone.
4, the cost increases, pay attention to dressing up when going out.
Women are born to love beauty, and women who cheat will pay more attention to their image. When a woman has an affair, her expenses will increase greatly, and most of the money will be spent on buying a series of cosmetics and clothes to ensure her attractiveness to men.
Nowadays, she often looks in the mirror and changes clothes before going out, trying to make herself look more attractive. This shows that she didn't have that obvious love for beauty before going out, that she wants to meet an important person during this time, and that she wants to seduce that person with charm, which means that this woman is cheating.
5. Outgoing activities have greatly increased.
If a woman who is keen on housework and stays at home most of the time except work suddenly increases her activity and often doesn't go home for dinner at night, then this performance is definitely problematic. For example, a wife who doesn't like to socialize begins to go out in various occasions. It can't be said that her personality has become extroverted, which only means that she may have cheated.
I don't care about your whereabouts.
She used to be like a control freak, always asking about your whereabouts. If you work overtime, you may have to use everything to prove that you are really working overtime. Now, she hardly cares about your usual whereabouts, and even if she comes home late, she won't ask you about your real whereabouts. This is a woman's performance after cheating.
7. Personality change
It is said that a leopard cannot change his spots, but women who cheat will show different personalities in peacetime. Maybe she used to be rude to you, but now she suddenly doesn't care about many small things in life.
8. less interaction with you
The interaction between husband and wife includes ambiguous ways such as eye contact or verbal teasing, but it is difficult for a woman to have these loving interactions with you after cheating. The other party often refuses to accept your past emotional exchanges, so there may be problems.
9. Reduce doubts about love
Another thing that men can easily notice a woman's performance after cheating is that she has fewer and fewer questions about love. In the past, she might often ask you if you love her or miss her, but now she no longer "pesters" you. It seems that your attitude doesn't matter. If these red flags appear, she may have cheated. You should do something.
Cheating is also common for women because men are still in the dark. The performance of women's infidelity introduced nine points for everyone. Compare it carefully. If your woman's interaction with you decreases, her personality changes and she doesn't care where you go, then you should pay attention to these situations. Don't wait until there is no room for redemption.
Why do women always like to cheat? I haven't found a suitable home yet.
For women, the most important thing is their own life. They were very attractive when they were young, and they could do whatever they wanted. I chose to cheat because I didn't find a clear destination. In this relationship, I have experienced various twists and turns, and my feelings are unreliable. If two people feel bound after marriage, it is normal that one person is loose and free just to find some extramarital affairs.
If a woman finds a suitable home, she usually sticks to her duties. After all, a woman who has no dependence is insecure and can't make up her mind to do anything. So in this case, many women will choose to cheat to comfort their hearts, or choose the next love goal from the experience of cheating.
Nowadays, more and more women handle it better, and the most important thing is to make men worse, because many times, men also have a good lifestyle. However, women don't. Therefore, many women feel that their inner imbalance will lead to derailment.
Too young to find a suitable lifestyle.
Many women choose to cheat because they are too young to find a suitable lifestyle and can't stimulate others' sweet words or temptations. As long as a man is nicer to a woman, she may forget what she is doing.
In our daily life, many girls are deceived by others, which is another kind of happiness for themselves, because they ignore many practical problems because of their own interests, which eventually leads to their doing something wrong without knowing it, and sometimes even a lie can make them happy for half a day.
A woman, no matter how capable she is, often has her own side, especially in feelings. They are not sure. Deliberately, they are often tempted by others, and finally can't have the feelings of cheating, because cheating is also an emotion, and they have never been able to tell the reason for cheating.
Live for profit.
For women, the most important reason for cheating is often for the benefit. In this world, men can earn more money, and people can only earn men's money. After all, women and men have great ways in their work and life. If there were no men in this world, women's lives would certainly be very difficult. Although everyone's way is different, sometimes benefits are crucial. For the benefit, sometimes they cheat to create their own needs.
In short, more and more women cheat, all for their own lives, no matter what the reason. This is the case. If you live a happy life, you will definitely not have the psychology of cheating.
Why do women always like to cheat? 3 Stay with your husband less and leave more, which leads to derailment.
In reality, many couples have to live apart for work reasons. While they are busy with their lives, they find that they have not managed their feelings for a long time. The other half, who should be the closest, is increasingly alienated until other temptations appear.
This is how Hong Jie and her husband are together. In order to increase income, her husband accepted the company's allocation. Although Sister Hong understands his choice, she is still lonely in her daily life. Without her husband around, I have to carry all the big and small things in my life alone, and there is no one to rely on.
Gradually, Hong Jie began to approach one of her male colleagues. The other party is a few years younger than her and has always admired her. This male colleague always stands up when he needs help most. The hearts of the two became closer and closer, and finally they began to cheat.
Sister Hong felt guilty when she knew that she had done something wrong. However, real life made her very helpless. She tried to ask her husband if he could come back, but his answer made her feel that the reunion of husband and wife was far away. After all, she is an ordinary woman, and she is very helpless when she comes to this step.
Soon, her affair with her male colleague was discovered. In order not to affect each other's future, Sister Hong resigned. When she got home, she finally got up the courage to confess to her husband. She begged her husband to forgive her, but she flew into a rage. Her husband decided to divorce immediately, and it is impossible to go back after getting married once. People who play with marriage always pay the price for their choices. People who cheat never think that their actions hurt the other half and hurt their persistent feelings.
I chose to cheat because of family conflicts.
For a long time, if the knot is not opened in time, it will accumulate more and more, and it will be irreparable after the two sides are indifferent to each other. Xiao Ruan's husband has been living with her mother-in-law since she got married. The ups and downs in life will inevitably make her angry. However, it was her husband's incomprehension that stung her the most. Sometimes Xiaorou even thinks about the significance of getting married. The two people who were originally in love are becoming more and more strange in marriage. After the feelings faded, my husband didn't go home much.