Learn to self-study
When I was a freshman, many people thought that I was tired of studying in order to meet the college entrance examination. When I went to college, everything would be fine and I should have a good rest. However, if you don't know how to cherish time, it would be a pity to waste your youth. When you enter a university, you should plan the years of the university in stages. College classes are not as full as high school, and sometimes there may be no classes for half a day or a day. Some students have just entered the university and feel that the time is relatively loose for the time being. When there is no class, they can't find anything to do, and it is easy to waste time unconsciously. When you first go to college, you should learn to insist on self-study without the supervision of teachers and make good use of your time. There are many ways of self-study. The university library is a good place with a rich collection of books. You can find almost all the books you want to read. You can borrow more books to enrich your knowledge.
join an association
To enter the university, we should get out of the days of monthly and weekly exams in high school and realize the transformation from accumulating knowledge to improving ability as soon as possible. In order to participate in social practice and improve their ability, you can join more societies. At present, there are many clubs in universities, as many as dozens, which can be selectively joined according to their own majors and specialties. Of course, it is not advisable to join too many clubs. Generally, three or four societies are enough. By joining the club, I will know students from different fields and majors, and let me know something about other fields. Communicating with like-minded people through clubs will also promote their interpersonal communication, make more friends and exercise their social skills.
If you have the conditions, you can also try to compete for the position of the student union and participate in some work of the student union. In the process of serving my classmates, I can exercise my various abilities well.
Many universities have set up English corners, which organize activities every week, and foreign teachers also participate. Through all-English communication, improve English application ability and learn foreign culture.
Universities often hold lectures and exchange experiences, so it will be good for you to listen as much as possible when you have time. In particular, the experience and views of some predecessors are worth learning. There are also some expert lectures, all of which are very cutting-edge, cutting-edge and profound knowledge, and they are also worth listening to.
Pinpoint the direction
When you enter the university, you must determine your own development direction as soon as possible. From the beginning of freshman year, we should prepare for some grade exams, such as Band Six, Computer Grade Exam and some qualification exams. The sooner we get the certificate, the better. Because juniors and seniors are busy with graduation internships and job hunting, it is difficult to concentrate on taking the grade examination. At present, the certificates of some grade examinations are the stepping stones to employment. For example, when recruiting personnel, some foreign-funded enterprises will first look at how many English levels they have passed. Therefore, in college, you should leave more avenues for your future employment in advance.
Universities hold double elections every year. It is necessary to seize every double election meeting, see what kind of talents employers who come to the school to recruit people need, analyze the employment situation, find the gap according to their own situation, and supplement their knowledge as needed.
"grinding guns in the cold"
After entering the third year of senior high school, students often start to look for jobs. In graduation practice, you should find a unit related to your major or your own employment direction and "sharpen your knife". In the process of graduation practice, when you arrive at the unit, you should consult the old employees with an open mind, master the work skills and skills as much as possible, and let yourself adapt to the work as soon as possible and avoid detours.
At the same time, the school will organize some mock competitions for participation. This simulation method can exercise courage and directly help to participate in the application.
In short, opportunities are always reserved for those who are prepared. As long as you are fully prepared and seize the opportunity during your college years, the road to employment after graduation will be very broad.
Freshmen's notes: do a good job of psychological adjustment to meet college life.
Freshmen are about to pack their bags and fly their dreams. How to adapt to college life as soon as possible requires not only material preparation but also psychological adjustment. The reporter interviewed several famous experts in the field of psychology in China. I hope their frank analysis and suggestions can inspire freshmen.
Get out of academic confusion as soon as possible
According to Yan Xu, Dean of the School of Psychology of Beijing Normal University, freshmen who are about to enter the university generally don't understand that there is an essential difference between the learning styles of basic education and higher education, and there may be many maladjustments after entering the school. First of all, I don't understand the way of learning in universities. Figuratively speaking, students in the basic education stage are "carried away by teachers", teaching is full of irrigation, and more is learning by memorizing, remembering and taking exams. However, universities emphasize learning motivation and initiative, and teachers only guide the difficulties, key points, international frontiers and practical applications, rather than following the book. 60% of the knowledge in classroom teaching is outside the textbook. Secondly, university education is not waiting for teachers to provide answers, but more about cultivating thinking ability, including absorbing knowledge with critical eyes and innovative thinking, and discovering the unknown that needs to be solved. This is the true meaning of cultivating talents in universities. Thirdly, in many key universities, because top students meet top students, there will be a huge gap in the rankings of some outstanding students in the past, leading to psychological imbalance and challenges to self-confidence. Some freshmen feel inferior and pessimistic because of the decline in their academic performance, and even skip classes and drop out of school. This is a psychological test that freshmen generally need to accept when they enter school.
Learn to overcome inferiority complex.
Yan Xu said that when sending their children to a new school every year, many parents' eyes are not focused on what they can learn at school, what are their academic advantages and the academic level of their teachers, but on the accommodation and living environment. This kind of wrong guidance to the life state makes students come to schools located in big cities, paying more attention to material life rather than learning knowledge, resulting in the dislocation of their focus. Especially after some rural children come to a big city for the first time and enter a university campus completely different from their family life environment, the huge contrast of conditions will make their behavior and psychology strongly unsuitable. For example, some students can't use the "one card" and are embarrassed to ask, so they have to close it themselves. Some students, because of their poor family, sensitive heart and lack of self-reliance and self-improvement, are unwilling to let their classmates know, preferring to scrimp and save on life details such as food and clothing rather than accept help from schools and classmates, which leads to psychological poverty.
Learn to adjust psychological conflicts.
The psychological characteristics of the post-90s generation are generally self-centered, facing more psychological confusion, anxiety and conflict. Guiding students to solve their own psychological conflicts is conducive to their healthy growth after entering the university. To this end, first, parents and society should give positive guidance and cultivate the ability to live independently. When studying in a university, you should learn to be responsible for your actions. In particular, it is necessary to carefully understand the admission handbook issued by the school to freshmen, which is very helpful for freshmen to accept the new learning and living environment, but the reality is that many students don't care. The second is to broaden your horizons. Unlike all students in the basic education stage who concentrate on their studies and exams, the university is a transitional period before students enter the society, which requires students to get in touch with the society, learn to analyze and judge, and avoid confusing right and wrong and going with the flow. The third is to learn to accept help. Most colleges and universities will give psychological tests to freshmen to help those in need, while some students will refuse. In fact, teenagers have strong psychological adaptability, and they can overcome problems with a little help. Especially for the poor students who enter colleges and study hard, all kinds of financial aid policies of the state and schools will help them complete their studies, and there should be no excessive psychological burden at all.
Face love and feelings rationally.
In recent years, campus love has long been a fashion, and has undergone essential changes. The phenomenon of "breaking up after graduation" is not uncommon. The online survey shows that the concept of marriage and love of post-90s is more realistic than that of post-80s, and the five-year cycle is getting bigger and bigger. In other words, reality is inversely proportional to the age of birth. Campus love is mostly a happy lifestyle to get rid of loneliness, and whether it needs parents' approval decreases with age. This shows that they are more practical in their attitude towards choosing a relationship.
Mu Yan, vice president of Lily. Com, identify with the love experience accumulated by students during their college years. He said that all kinds of education at all levels in China are particularly lacking in emotional education for students, which is almost blank. Some colleges and universities offer related elective courses, and most of them are full. However, in many foreign schools, intimate relationship courses started from junior high school not only help students learn to get along with others, but also accumulate experience for marriage and love in adulthood. In practice, some older young people are not good at communicating with the opposite sex, and they are confused about their role orientation for the marriage partner, mostly because they have no experience or received relevant education.
Although college love is gradually accepted by the society, it also faces various conflicts brought about by psychological immaturity. Therefore, Mu Yan suggested that college students should cultivate their own observation ability, especially not to fall in love with people with defective personality and too selfish. Such people are often emotionally unstable and have strange logical thinking and behavior. If you have been with such a friend of the opposite sex, it is suggested that the pace of love should be slower, and it is easy to be "carried away by love" if you develop too fast. Listen to friends' suggestions and read more relevant books. At the same time, seriously think about "if you want to find the right partner, are you capable of loving?"
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