Wu 1974 was born in the countryside. His father is a village cadre, and his family's economic conditions are much superior to others, so Wu has a happy childhood. Besides, my father has the habit of reading. Under the influence of his father, Wu also likes reading very much, and his academic performance is very good. Wu can get good grades quietly and easily in every exam at school. From 65438 to 0994, Wu was admitted to China Renmin University with 692 points. I majored in file management. Wu was also a principal in college. I also served as a member of the organizing Committee at school. I am an organized student with all-round development in morality, intelligence, physique and beauty. I also won a scholarship during my school days!
Graduated from Wu University. Just two years ago, the state issued relevant rules, stipulating that graduates with college education or above should not be assigned jobs, so Wu, like other students, stepped into the team looking for jobs. After that, Wu took the civil service exam. After all, he is a principal. I passed the written test quietly and easily, but I was eliminated in the interview. This is a great blow to Wu. After all, she has never experienced such twists and turns since she was a child.
But she didn't give up, rearranged her mood and prepared for an interview in an archives in Haidian District, Beijing. At this time, the archives called Wu and asked her to go for an interview as soon as possible. As a result, the next day, the archives informed her that she had accepted another person. Wu's self-confidence was frustrated by two consecutive blows. At that time, enterprises were looking for experienced and highly educated talents. As Wu was inexperienced, the interview was somewhat difficult. What's more, Wu Xue is an unpopular file management major, and her professional mismatch has repeatedly blocked her. In order to find a job, Wu lowered his standards again and again. She left Beijing for Hebei and Tianjin. Although holding an excellent resume with a high degree of education, I don't know why Wu hasn't found a suitable job.
Finally, Wu found a job of inputting files and information in a company in Guangdong, with a monthly salary of 3,000 yuan. At that time, it was1998,3000 yuan, which was really not low at that time. After all, the salary of ordinary people at that time was about 1000 yuan. Even if it is 202 1, many college students only get four or five thousand salaries after graduation. This job is really a good choice for Wu, but after working for a long time, Wu had conflicts with his colleagues because he couldn't handle interpersonal problems well, and finally chose to resign.
Soon, Wu found another job unrelated to his major, making greeting cards and calendars. One month's salary is only 1000 yuan. However, in the end, Wu chose to leave because of his poor interpersonal relationship. Wu's third job is to choose to be a sewing worker in a garment factory, cutting clothes and sewing buttons on the assembly line. A graduate of China Renmin University actually did such a thing on the assembly line. It's amazing to say it. But it was such a job that Wu chose to leave because of interpersonal problems. What is the reason why Wu chose to leave his job because of interpersonal problems at work? If Wu is said to be unable to express herself, but she also served as a member of the organization Committee during her college years, how can an introverted person become a student cadre?
1In May, 998, Wu's father died of cancer, which happened to be a crucial period for Wu's graduation. Before his father died, Wu's father told his relatives not to tell Wu the news of his death for fear of affecting his daughter's state. It was not until a month later that Wu learned about it. There is more sadness in my heart than death. Wu didn't say a word and didn't shed a tear after receiving a call from his sister. Only then did Wu have problems in interpersonal communication.
Wu has never looked for a job since he resigned from the sewing machine factory. Without economic income, there is always food and no food. Until she met another person who changed her fate. When Wu wandered around, he occasionally met my junior high school classmate Guo Changhua in the elevator.
Guo Changhua once liked Wu Jihong very much and came to work in Guangdong after graduation. Because the old father at home was ill, he bought a ticket and prepared to rush back to his hometown. There are still three hours before the bus leaves. Guo Changhua walked thoughtfully around the station to pass the time, but he didn't expect to meet Wu.
At that time, Wu lost confidence in himself and life because of successive obstacles, and met a familiar person in a foreign land. This made her seem to be grasping at straws. Such a short meeting made Wu determined to go back to his hometown with Guo Changhua. I didn't think deeply about myself in despair. Don't want to make a breakthrough in thought and action. If Wu can survive that difficult time, regain his self-confidence and go to the workplace. In Guangdong in the 1990s, there were countless opportunities for her to make great achievements. But she didn't. She didn't do anything.
After meeting Guo Changhua, who has no education, he went back to his hometown with him regardless of anything. And this Guo Changhua is a famous poor household in the village. At first, Guo Changhua felt lucky. After all, he has no education, but he can marry such a promising person.
But he soon found that something was wrong with Wu. Although Wu usually takes care of her parents-in-law wholeheartedly, Guo Changhua still finds that Wu often mutters something from time to time, which is very abnormal and looks like a physical illness. But because the conditions at home are too bad. Guo Changhua didn't take Wu to the hospital for examination.
At the end of the year, Wu was pregnant. Originally, Wu didn't want it. But Guo Changhua insisted on keeping the children and wanted to marry Wu. But I don't know why Wu is clamoring to go back to her family. In this way, 10 months later, Wu gave birth to a girl in her sister's warehouse.
After giving birth to the child, Wu seems to be becoming more and more abnormal. She neither takes care of the children nor does housework. All I do is watch videos in the video studio all day. Guo Changhua finally took Wu to the hospital for examination, and the doctor prescribed some drugs to treat physical diseases. Then Wu got home and threw away all these medicines, which made her husband very angry, but he had to.
After five years of marriage, he found that his wife knew nothing but a high degree, so he found a woman outside. Guo Changhua divorced because he couldn't stand his wife's situation. Guo Changhua also took away her daughter, and the discarded Wu's body slowly disintegrated, but she still didn't want to break free from this bitter life. Instead, I chose to accept my fate and marry another poor family.
Fortunately, the second husband was not bad to Wu, but Deng Gaohua married Wu for the purpose of carrying on the family line. After Wu and Deng Gaohua got married, they have been giving birth to five children to the Deng family. Every day's work is to take care of parents-in-law, clean up housework and take care of children. She cut off contact with the outside world.
It's a pity that the once-arrogant goddess once lived worse than an ordinary village woman. After graduation, the frustration of her father's death and the failure of her first marriage made her more and more self-enclosed. She chose to close herself in this small mountain village 1 1 year.
20 17, when the census stopped. The staff found that Wu was actually a student of China Renmin University. And she is always just a poor household, which surprised the staff.
Immediately, it was reported that the matter was reported in the newspaper and immediately caused an uproar in the society. People don't understand how a talented woman of the National People's Congress ended up in this situation.
Wu's former teachers and classmates also visited Wu, hoping to bring Wu back to their team. With the help of the government and people from all walks of life, Wu's home has changed from a rough house to a duplex villa. At the same time, the government also found a kitchen job for Wu's husband Deng Gaohua, with a monthly income of 3,000 yuan, and the Wu family gradually got rid of the title of poor households.
Unfortunately, let's look back at what happened to Wu. But her 1 problem is dealing with interpersonal relationships, which is typical of high IQ and low EQ. The constant concern of the school is the result of students, but the communication and expression ability of students has not been paid attention to. Communication skills are very important in the workplace. If there is a serious shortage, it will be eliminated. Wu was forced to leave his second and third jobs at 1 because of interpersonal problems. Wu still didn't think deeply about himself. She chose to trap herself in the mire, unwilling to struggle at all, and was finally pulled into the bottom of the mire.
She was admitted to China Renmin University with a score of 692, and it is not an exaggeration to say that she is a proud girl. There should have been a brilliant future, but repeated wrong choices made her fall into the mire from a height. Finally, she became a poor mother with five children. If a person blocks himself. I don't want to go out, and I don't want to try anything. I can only be swallowed up by the torrent of time and I can't stand up anymore.