Will be afraid of this possibility!
In fact, many things in life are like this: when you imagine it, you are always in high spirits and warm all over, and then you say good actions, which will blind your laziness because of those so-called sweet words that are true or false, so you feel guilty for two days. Three days and four days ... I have regrets when I mention it; Five days and six days ... the enthusiasm dissipated, the body temperature gradually became normal, and the true face of "pig" began to appear!
It's a morning. It was already six o'clock when I opened my eyes. The world is already bright, and soon, whether you like it or not, he will let the day end at the next six lights!
Thought of here, a little scared, can't sleep anymore, so turn over and sit up. ...
Time back to the end of April:
Role orientation: substitute Chinese teacher
Client: A group of second-grade children.
Psychological explanation: don't worry, don't be slow, be a good generation, and strive not to lag behind!
Behavior: relatively little homework, relatively little pressure, relatively many ideas, and get along relatively well!
Banner slogan: release spirituality, enjoy learning and love thinking!
Time came to the end of June:
Role orientation: temporary "stepmother"
Client: 69 primary school students
Psychological explanation: don't fall behind in your grades, or you will be ashamed of your mother!
Behavior: write more and practice more, strictly grasp and consolidate, and be meticulous!
Flag slogan: the darkness before dawn ... the storm before the rainbow!
The torment began two weeks before the final exam, which stems from my own psychological pressure: I want to explain to the teacher who called in sick, and the best explanation is to lead the children to get excellent results in the final exam!
This kind of psychology makes me extremely entangled. An idle retail investor who has never been too eager to pursue achievements has also begun to pursue a clear and definite goal. What is more tragic is that this goal is not from the heart, but is driven by the responsibility to others rooted in the bottom of my heart, just like being stuck in the mud!
Partridge in the mud, using the most clumsy way: intensive practice, so listening, memorizing, writing, turning and fighting, on the basis of ensuring the clarity of daily work items, began to pay close attention to implementation. Once the principle of "no one is spared" is implemented, it is not impossible. The key is whether we can hold our breath and tighten the rope!
The increase in homework is obvious, and quality assurance is absolutely necessary, which will inevitably prolong the children's homework time, and some children will definitely complain!
I am well aware of this reality. When I look at it inappropriately and have to do it in order to meet my expectations, I struggle and tear!
I think of my mother, the lovely old illiterate. When she was a child, she would mobilize the whole family to get into a state of nervous wheat harvest preparation, get up early to sharpen the sickle, and pack the whole bag at night. In her words, the wheat harvest is to grab a bumper harvest, and grabbing a bumper harvest is to put into a battle without smoke!
And at this time of year, her enemy will be the god above her head!
She wants to fight, fight, fight for the hard work of this season, fight for the food and clothing of this family!
Yes! After all, there must be something to make people have the motivation to move forward!
I am the so-called responsibility that I have to lock myself up for hukou and self-attachment!
And what about these children?
In order to have the right to negotiate with parents with excellent grades as capital in the hot summer, in order to win the freedom not to go to cram school!
Therefore, fighting for two months' freedom has become the final motivation for children to sprint, and I am the developer of this motivation, and I have been laughing at my own ridiculousness, but … fortunately, the children seem to be brave enough to fight for it!
So two weeks before the final exam, I simulated the exam three times for the first time, in order to find out the details of the children's knowledge, and at the same time "seamlessly connect" with parents to guide family counseling!
Excerpt The operation schedule for June 23rd is as follows:
Hello, parents, on the last weekend before the final exam, I hope that under your careful supervision, your child can finish the weekend homework seriously:
1, test paper correction
The test paper has been given to the children. Five typos and words have been changed, one typo has been changed, and the handwriting has been deducted by more than three points and rewritten.
In view of this exam, the questions will be analyzed in the test paper. Please pay attention to what kind of children your children belong to and how to correct them!
I really can't write the reading and writing questions. Please refer to the excellent children's answer sent behind!
Special reminder: when you see the test results, you should analyze the test papers, find problems and solve them! Appropriate education should be carried out according to the child's personality! Please remember:
A, if you get good grades, you should tell me: there are days outside, and there are people outside. Modesty makes people progress, while pride makes people lag behind. Hold on, hold on! B, if you don't get enough grades, you should be told that your best grade will always be next time. You have to believe in yourself, summon up courage and come on, even if you raise 0.5 points, it is an amazing leap!
In short: win without arrogance, lose with grace!
2. A test paper
Basic knowledge collection, special reminder, typos should be corrected in time!
3. Dictation 1-8 Unit Learning Garden "Reading and Reciting"
Again, check the typo. Please ask parents to supervise truthfully, check carefully and help children correct their mistakes in time!
Try to be organized in your own task arrangement;
Students work hard to complete tasks effectively;
Parental supervision should be effective.
Seeing this, you will feel that this is an extremely responsible teacher!
Indeed, your evaluation is extremely accurate! This is an extremely responsible teacher!
It's just that this extremely responsible teacher has no joy in his heart after finishing his daily work!
From eight o'clock in the morning to eight o'clock in the evening, squatting in school, talking, correcting, criticizing ... The result of running like a top is backache and numbness in my arms. ...
If any work is based on losing health, no matter what achievements are made, it is not worthy of pride, let alone praise!
So, find an exit!
So stop!
Think about it: What's the problem?
So in the last assignment of this semester, a special assignment "Parent Questionnaire" was arranged, and four questions were asked for parents to answer.
1. If your child gets good grades at the end of the term, will you still enroll your child in language classes? Why?
Test my incentive effect: if you get good grades, you can fight for freedom. Do my parents agree with me temporarily? )
Do you have anything to say about the recent Chinese review and children's review?
Feedback children's homework at home, and ask parents to make suggestions to find their own teaching problems in the final work. )
According to your observation, what is your child's greatest progress this school year? As a parent, what is your biggest growth this year?
(These are my two favorite questions. We are all in a hurry in our respective lives, and it is difficult to have time to really stop, quietly look down around, look at our children and look at ourselves. With an extremely peaceful mind and calm eyes, we don't blindly compare, criticize or even shirk anxiously ... The world becomes simple because of a steady heart, and the relationship between us becomes gentle because of a slow heart. ...
4. Do you value children's academic performance? What do you think of the result?
This question hides the evil inside: What is the purpose of studying in China, especially the students in small towns in Henan? I need to blurt out the answer!
Tell the truth: primary school teachers are the most struggling, because quality education is the first step, and we are the loudest and smartest. It's just that the final trend of our output is one model every two weeks, so it takes more time to go to the toilet in three weeks. In the most popular torrent of studying for the king, there are two possibilities to say that children's grades are not valued: 1, which is really not valued; 2. Too good to be taken seriously. )
I am very keen on doing some interesting home-school surveys, from which I can find many interesting points and lines, which can not only urge me as a teacher to find out the shortcomings in education and teaching, but also find out the people standing behind each child, his thoughts and actions, and finally give you an allusion to the child in front of you!
In any case, for a child, family education must play a decisive role. The sooner you know this, the sooner parents who shoulder the responsibility of the best teacher for their children will taste the sweetness brought by knowing this truth!
However, the reality kept me in the dark. Of the 69 small surveys, only 33 were handed in, the remaining 36 were handed in without writing a word, and 6 were not handed in!
My circle was not lost because I was "deeply touched and left hanging", but because these 36 parents ignored it and gave up "stopping to think" and regretted it!
This regret has not been diminished by the excellent results of the children's final exams, because I feel that in the process of careful companionship, frequent patient communication and constant introspection, a good parent-child relationship must have been established!
I hope they just ignore this answer sheet and have their own ways to form a good parent-child relationship!
In the 33 questionnaires handed in, it is obvious that parents' understanding of education has been greatly improved.
32 parents made it clear that they would not enroll in language classes during holidays, but only enroll in one or two interest classes;
65,438+05 Parents found that they had a lot of growth in the process of accompanying their children: from impatience at the beginning to calmness now, from high expectations at the beginning to gradual recognition now. ...
Three parents mentioned that the children have a lot of homework at the end of the term, and the children are overburdened and have some pressure;
Parents said that they don't value their children's grades, and grades are not the only criterion to measure their children. Just try your best
I still remember that on the day I received the notice, I handed out the final papers one by one to the children. It is particularly interesting to observe the expression changes of the children who received the test paper-stop calling the roll (looking nervous)
Leave your seat and walk to the podium (uneasy, clench your fist)
Received the test paper (glanced at it)
Get good grades (bright eyes, smile without smiling)
Go back to your seat (test paper in hand, full of pride)
Hold back from laughing, but I am very happy!
I came to the child who regarded homework as an enemy and final review as hell. He is showing off his test paper with his neighbors, and I really don't want to interrupt his "pride".
"Are you satisfied with the result?" "Very satisfied"
"Review at the end of evaluation?"
"A little tired, but it's worth it!"
"What's this called?"
"A pay, a gain!"
Why do you know a lot of truth, but you still can't live well!
Because this truth is a summary of other people's life experience, you just don't have the wrong understanding, so there is nothing you can do!
What you really know is what you have really experienced!
"A pay, a gain!" The fairness of the world is here;
"Ten efforts, nothing!" The cruelty of the world is also here.
What we can do is to try our best to convince children of the fair existence after hard work, and try our best to brand them with some beauty about truth at the beginning of their lives!
Mother has been away from the land for a long time, and every time she mentions it, she has endless disappointment!
Although her memory is getting worse and worse, she still remembers the harvest of the wheat season, and some memories are doomed to be irreversible. It will hang in her heart, just like a polished sickle hanging in the night sky under the moonlight, bright and ready to belong to it!
And this season's "wheat harvest" that belongs to me is over. At this moment, I am sitting here, slightly cold with the summer wind!
Trying to make up a string of fragmentary time to sort out a drifting memory outside a daze is really confused!
Learning itself is not fun at all. Only when you really enter the learning state can you find the happiness of discovery, exploration, practice and achievement brought by learning. Learning is fun for you and you will devote yourself wholeheartedly!
"Arouse interest", this interest can only be a temporary temptation!
"Enduring power", this is the most essential power!
Therefore, any reform must be carried out on the premise of ensuring the stability of basic achievements!
And what we have to do must be less homework, high quality, rapid progress in grades, harmonious relationship between home and school, and light burden on students!
In the final analysis-still have to work hard on ways and means!
Seven years later, I will teach Grade One again, with joy and fear. Don't tell me: Soon, the children will love and worship you! Even if you look sincere and sincere, I will still laugh at your words!
Just because I know that the most sacred duty of a teacher is to make children fall in love with the subject you teach. Even if it is another teacher, they still have a strong interest in this subject. It is really commendable to peel off the floating elephant!
Can I do that?
Can I do it well?
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