I don't know who said that: women love to brag. I agree with you one hundred and twenty times on this point. No matter who has always been keen on image or who never seems to care about image, all women are inevitably boasting.

The word smelly beauty was once a derogatory term. Why? Because we have been taught since childhood: we should focus on our studies, boasting is a distraction and a sign of not studying hard. You see, how many of those who like to brag learn well?

Needless to say, I was a schoolmaster when I was a child. It seems that there is always a template: wearing framed glasses, school uniforms or plain clothes, boys with flat heads, and girls grabbing a braid or doll head casually. When asked why, I usually answer: My mother can't braid her hair. Occasionally, a tall and handsome boy or girl studies well, and it is enough to be a school uniform or a school flower.

Those of us who dare not boast are raised by parents who don't care about boasting. At that time, the country was founded soon, and there was a shortage of materials.

"People who work are the most beautiful!"

Originally, the beauty of both internal and external cultivation is purely internalized into the growth of the soul. Under the teaching of "no matter how beautiful you look, you should be beautiful at heart", boasting has become a shameful and even heinous scandal.

As a result, when we have the conditions to boast, we are surprised to find that we have no way to start and will not be beautiful!

We often have to face the tragic fact that there are always no suitable clothes on occasions; Beautiful clothes in the shop are not pleasing to the eye at home; If you spend a lot of money on clothes, others will always think you are expensive; Hair done in a barber shop for a long time will lose its shape in a few days. ...

Repeated failures remind us that bragging needs methods! In the previous decades of life experience, we know little about boasting methods.

You may ask me, "Do you need another way to stink?" I can definitely answer you: "Of course!"

Can you really boast of asking this question? Don't contradict me in a hurry, let's talk about a few small things on the road of a coquettish person. See if you want to fight me after you talk.

The first lesson of the road to smelly beauty: youth begins with standing up your neck.

Try to imagine a picture of two women standing on the side of the road with their backs to you waiting for a red light. They all wear loose cotton casual clothes, and everything is ordinary, just like passers-by you can see every day. The only difference between the two is the degree of posture improvement: one stands lazy, hooks his waist and hunches; The other one has a long neck and stands straight.

Ok, now tell me, which of these two people looks younger? Are you lazy with a hunchback, or are you high-spirited

We always think that getting old will make women look old, so we spend a lot of money on skin care products. In fact, a person begins to look tired and old-fashioned, starting with his bones and posture. On the road, I often see girls with young faces, hunched and staggered by, without the passion and vitality of young people, only feeling decadent and powerless. On the contrary, when a tall and beautiful figure appears, that kind of lightness and self-confidence is self-evident.

Straighten your neck, straighten your waist and show your youthful posture, which is the first step towards beauty. No matter how beautiful the clothes are, they can't show their original appearance on people who are shrinking their necks, bowing their chests and getting old.

The dermatologist told us that the neck began to lose its shape and age at the age of 43. But if you can always remember to straighten your neck and waist, then youth will accompany you to the physiological age of seventy or eighty.

So, women, remember: don't be too lazy to straighten your neck and stretch your body for comfort, because that will make you die prematurely.

Lesson 2 on the stinky road: learn to look in the mirror.

Can you look in the mirror? This question seems strange to me.

Oh, maybe you will tell me: of course I will look in the mirror. I can always find the perfect angle in the mirror.

Congratulations, dear, you have gone a little far on the road of self-deception. Although we can find a satisfactory angle in the mirror, you are a living person after all, and your life is not a photo with a fixed angle. No matter how perfect we see ourselves, we still have to go out and show our true selves 360 degrees without dead ends.

Learning to look in the mirror and find out the advantages and disadvantages of figure is an important step to help us know ourselves better. Learning to look in the mirror when buying clothes can help us get rid of many illusions, save money and buy things that are really worth buying.

You might as well have a try tonight. After taking a shower, stand in front of the mirror, wear little or no clothes, put your legs together and take a good look at yourself. Believe me, finding out the shortcomings and advantages of your body is the key to learning to look in the mirror.

I often do this because it is very important to know your physical changes in time when choosing clothes.

Look at me: 162 is tall, with a fairly well-proportioned figure and a flat upper body. The waist has a certain curvature and the shoulders are straight. Legs are not long. Seen from the side at 90 degrees, the length from shoulder to hip is equivalent to the length from thigh root to sole. My ass is a little droopy, and I'm afraid my legs will be short when I look from the back.

Turn back to the front: hips are wide, thighs are fleshy, calves are not straight enough, and ankles are not thin enough. I'm a typical pear shape, with a thin upper body and a fat lower body. It's hard to choose pants for this figure.

So now let's sum up the advantages and disadvantages of my body.

Advantages: thin face, thin upper body, clear clavicle, good chest height, and the difference between chest and waist is close to 20 cm, which is better. The chest-hip circumference difference is 10 cm, which is an ideal circumference difference. The calf muscles are higher, so they look longer. The difference between thigh circumference and calf circumference is 20 cm, which is an ideal circumference difference. The arms are symmetrical and the length is moderate.

Disadvantages: thick buttocks and thighs, flat buttocks and thin legs. The ankle is not thin enough. In particular, there is no obvious line in the position of achilles tendon, and the ankle is fleshy from the back.

According to these advantages and disadvantages, how should I foster strengths and avoid weaknesses when choosing clothes?

Although I weigh 1 10 kilograms and am not tall, I always feel tall and thin because my upper body is thin. I will keep this advantage. I love my collarbone. Of all the parts of my body, I love these two tall and straight bones best. Therefore, when the weather is warmer, I always choose clothes that can show my collarbone. I won't choose clothes with too wide collar and complicated upper body decoration, because it will make my advantage of thin upper body disappear.

As for the specific version of the clothes, if it is not the waist, it must be loose, creating a sense of lines or empty inspiration at the waist, which can be slim.

If you can wear a skirt, you don't wear pants. Skirts will also choose a small A-shape with a small skirt. Long skirts and short skirts don't matter, but they will be adjusted according to the leg shape. The length of the short skirt will cover the thickest part of the thigh, and the length of the long skirt can cover the ankle at the longest. A skirt of medium length, either just above the knee or just above the knee. Ensuring the display of the calf part and paying attention to the posture will make my leg length at least 10 cm visually.

Pants, resolutely avoid flared pants, especially this year's popular 9-point flared pants with large soles. In my opinion, these trousers are designed against humanity. It is a disaster for China women whose legs are generally not long enough. Wide-leg pants are a good choice, but it is necessary to ensure the drape of the material and the slight looseness of the abdomen and thighs, that is, the pants should not be too fat or wrapped too tightly. The volume increase brought by being too fat and the fleshy feeling brought by being too thin are all slimming killers.

I never choose shoes with horizontal ankles, including booties and single shoes with horizontal ankles. I would never choose boots just above my calf, because that would only make my calf stronger. ...

Then we went into the clothing store to see how the mirrors there were deceiving.

I'll tell you a secret: mirrors in clothing stores usually make people slim. This is a requirement that they must meet when customizing the image. With lighting, in front of such a mirror, you are often confused by your beautiful figure and color. A few compliments from the clerk can easily make you lose your way and pay the bill happily.

Wake up, this is all an illusion! Tell you how to look in the mirror in the clothing store.

First of all, remember what you usually look like. After entering the store, consider before all the mirrors to see which mirror is closest to your usual appearance. If you travel with a friend, you can ask her for help. Tell her to look at you two meters away, and then look at the image in the mirror, which is closest to you. In this way, you can choose the side that is basically close to the truth. Secondly, the mirrors in some shops are tilted, which will also be elongated and thin. So, try to make it vertical and take another photo. Stay away from the mirror, avoid the light it projects, and let the basic colors of clothes set off on your face.

This completes the first step of looking in the mirror in the shop. You can safely take photos of the front and both sides.

Next, the key comes: don't just look at the front, not the back. It is also important to have a good-looking back. We can't twist our necks too much, but we can see the scene behind us clearly.

Remember: when shopping, be sure to bring a small mirror, fold a small mirror, or the mirror on the powder cake. Turn your back to the dressing mirror and take out a small mirror to face yourself, and you can see the wearing effect of the back and back of the clothes completely. Many clothes can outline the feeling of lying on your back or strangulation of underwear. Many pants, because the fart pocket design is not reasonable enough, make the buttocks look flat and loose. These are the points that make your figure look ugly.

If you learn to look in the mirror, will you praise it? Don't worry, there are further steps.

Lesson 3: Choosing the right underwear is equal to reshaping your body.

How do you usually buy underwear? Do you choose the color in the store and tell the clerk the numbers like "75B" and "80C", or do you buy them online?

Maybe you will say to me, "How is that possible? I'll try it on before I buy it. " Great, honey, this is the right thing to do!

Buy underwear, be sure to try it! Don't bother. Underwear is an important means to help women rebuild their bodies. If the underwear is not well chosen, it is difficult for the outer clothes to show their proper shape.

So how to choose the right underwear? What kind of underwear is "appropriate"?

In fact, the price and brand of underwear are not suitable criteria for judging. The so-called "fit" will definitely help you outline your figure in a more stylish way.

Now follow me to do the following steps:

1? When you buy underwear, you should have a clerk around you at all times. If you don't mind, go to the dressing room with the clerk.

2? Choose a basic size underwear, usually called "75B" or "80C" to try on. Bend over 90 degrees, nail the hook to the outermost layer, reach into the underwear from top to bottom from both sides, and then stand up straight.

3? Feel whether the shoulder strap is comfortable. If it feels too tight or too loose, ask the clerk to help adjust it. Don't come by yourself, because the bottom circumference will change with the lifting of the arm. What you need to do at this time is to relax as much as possible and let your arms droop naturally.

4? After the adjustment, stretch your arm upward and feel whether the lower circumference will stir with you. If not, it proves that the girth of 75 or 80 is appropriate, and the tightness of the shoulder strap just adjusted is also appropriate. If the bottom circumference is raised, it means that the bottom circumference is too small or the shoulder strap is too tight.

After these steps are finished, let's put on our coats and see the effect. Yes, when trying on underwear, you must have a coat to match it and see if it fits in the end.

5? Check the appearance of the chest after putting on the coat. First, it must be two complete circles. The quantity cannot be large and the shape cannot be changed. Don't laugh, I'm not kidding. Some girls blindly pursue the effect of breast augmentation, and after wearing underwear, they will squeeze out two raised "hills" on their chests. It is tempting to wear it alone, but after wearing a coat, there will be "four bulges" on the chest. Besides shape, some underwear will give the chest a sharp corner shape. This chest shape can only help to show your figure when you wear cheongsam.

6? Check the distance between two chest heights. Hold out your hand and lay it flat on your chest. If one chest is at the root of the palm and the other is at the tip of the palm, then the position of the chest is right. If this distance is greater than one of your palms, it looks like an inflated chest. But if it is too close, it will be strangely unsightly visually.

After completing the above steps, I believe your underwear will be selected.

There are a few small things to pay attention to:

1? Choose underwear that can completely support both hips. If not, the buttocks will delaminate after wearing for a long time.

2? Try to choose light colors for underwear. Because when dyeing, only the best quality materials will be used to dye light colors.

3? Pink underwear is the most transparent color, and flesh underwear is the most invisible.

4? If you have a suitable underwear brand, please try to choose this brand in the future. Because each brand has its own specific version for printing, every season when producing new products, the original version will be used to adjust the color and appearance.

5? Underwear generally can't be worn for too long. If you wear it every day, you will die in about 6 months.

When you choose underwear, you will find that whether you are fat or thin, your chest must be higher than your waist, and then you will naturally have a certain waist. Your posture is tall and straight, your hips are complete and round, and your legs are the longest.

The map is ready, and the preparatory work for the stinking beauty is basically completed. But don't go out in a hurry, there is one last thing to get your attention.

Lesson 4: Don't go shopping with shame.

The focus of shopping is shopping, which is a very tiring thing. Many men don't understand why women are so interested in shopping. Honestly, I don't understand either. Because when you take shopping as a career, you always feel that responsibility is greater than interest, and you will experience less fun.

Anyway, many women always wear the most comfortable clothes and shoes when they go shopping, because they know that it takes energy and physical strength, and even walk into the mall slowly. Believe me, when you try on clothes, the overall effect is definitely worse.

You will have a feeling that the man in the mirror doesn't look very energetic and beautiful. When we try on clothes, we always consciously or unconsciously imagine what occasion this dress should be worn, what kind of items should be worn, and what kind of bags and shoes should be worn. That is, there will be a virtual scene. In this case, your messy hairstyle and unadorned face will always ruin the scene.

Get a good haircut, put on a foundation or simply put on a light makeup before going out, and put on clothes and shoes that are easy to put on and take off. If you want to match a pair of trousers with a coat, I suggest you take them shopping. The actual test matching effect is definitely better than expected. Because how many times we imagined that there would be no problem, when we got home, we found that it was not worthy at all, so more and more items were preserved.

Also, don't say that you never wear makeup, and you don't wear makeup. Old ideas need to be changed. In fact, the cause of skin deterioration is not cosmetics, but poor cleaning when removing makeup. The teacher in charge of makeup will tell you that if you want to make up, please start by learning to wash your face. What's more, air pollution is an unavoidable topic, and priming and even makeup are powerful means to isolate skin from dirty air.

After all these steps are completed, congratulations, you can safely boast.

How's it going? Have you ever noticed these little things on the smelly road before? If not, try to do it from now on. I believe you will get twice the result with half the effort.

Lesson 5: It is better to buy the right one than the expensive one.

By the way, there is one last small problem. Let's talk about it I wonder if you are superstitious: expensive is good.

Is this sentence reasonable? I think it makes sense. To some extent, expensive things are about equal to good design, good materials and good workmanship. However, this sentence is not entirely correct. Because a thing, if not suitable for you, even if it is expensive, can only increase the burden.

In my work, I often see men and women who are superstitious about brands. In my opinion, many times they are poisoned too deeply and really suffer from it.

What is fresh in my memory is a mother and daughter in Tianjin. Mother is elegant, with fine eyes and looks very gentle. My daughter is seven or eight years old and wants to look like her father. Although not as beautiful as her mother, she is also a quiet and well-behaved child. Mother and daughter are very cultured, they will never make public in public, and the volume of their speech is also well controlled.

The father of the child loves his wife and daughter very much, and their clothes are arranged by themselves. But these clothes are the source of my headache. Why? Because my father is keen on buying Versace's clothes, and this brand marked by "Medusa the Snake" has gorgeous and exaggerated design, a lot of complicated decorations and shiny diamonds, the complete head of Medusa often appears on its clothes. Without profound facial features and flamboyant temperament, wearing these clothes is simply a disaster.

The mother and daughter, who are naturally calm, are like walking flowers in these complicated colors and shiny decorations, and have no temperament at all.

There are times when expensive is not necessarily good, depending on the occasion and where you are at that time.

A few years ago, an old customer asked me for advice and said that I didn't know how to dress for important occasions. On the day of consultation, she dragged a suitcase full of clothes and shoes, plus five handbags.

Speaking of it, the occasion she is going to attend is very grand: the state banquet. We ordinary people can't touch it The banquet was held at noon, and the important guest was George H.W. Bush. As the wife of an important leader, she accompanied him. Not many women were present at the same time, but there were three. In addition to her and another leading wife, there is also a female minister.

It stands to reason that although it is a luncheon, because of the weight of the guests, they need to wear dresses according to the dinner specifications. Among the three women attending the meeting, the female minister never wears formal clothes, but only wears a professional afternoon dress, which makes it difficult for this old customer in the accompanying position to choose.

It was early winter in Beijing, approaching 65438+February, and the weather was already very cold. Watching her take clothes out of the box and spread a sofa, I began to choose for her. First of all, in order to reduce the gorgeous feeling, I chose a black cashmere cardigan with diagonal for her black dress, and asked her to remove the beads and other things decorated with necklines on both sides. The material changes of three different black colors are enough to set off their exquisiteness and nobility. But also convenient for her to put on and take off and adjust according to the indoor temperature at that time.

Secondly, looking at the bag she brought with a total price of several hundred thousand, and the dark green fox fur coat that she planned to wear before entering the banquet hall, I frowned and swallowed: What a luxury! This is inappropriate. She is the wife of an official. She should be dignified and restrained, and don't dress up as a rich woman.

So, I told her that it would be nice to change the handbag with a low-key color and go to Guomao to find a gray cashmere coat of about 10 thousand yuan. The simpler the style, the less decoration, the better.

I looked at her watch when she questioned whether it would be too easy. So he asked, "How much did you spend on this watch?" She said, "550 thousand." I said enough, expensive but not rich. A watch substrate is enough.

So you see, the more expensive the better. If it is not suitable for you, it will not only show beauty but also cause bad influence.

On the road of boasting, we actually have a lot to master and learn. After today's simple communication, are you already interested in how to stink? Let's boast together in the future.