Reflections on Murphy's Law 1 I read the book Murphy's Law recently and felt a lot. Murphy's law originated in America. An air force captain engineer named Murphy, 1949, and his boss, Major stapp, had an accident in an experiment due to instrument failure. Murphy found that the measuring instrument was installed backwards, from which he concluded that if there were two choices, one of which would lead to disaster, someone would make this choice.
Murphy found that what existed was reasonable. Murphy's law has penetrated into almost every field of social life. And it is generally believed that if unpleasant things will happen, they will happen. Just as everything goes through the process of birth, development, growth, decline and death. Murphy's law tells the objective law of the development of things, although it openly expounds the possibility of failure, which brings us a psychological shadow to some extent. But for some optimistic and confident people, it is naturally ineffective. The reason why the good and the bad are separated is because everyone has a different mentality.
Murphy told us that everything we do has technical risks, big or small. Absolute security is only an illusion, and adequate security is relative. Murphy's Law tells us that anyone can make mistakes, and you must learn to accept the fact that mistakes are a part of life. We all long for success and the joy of success. However, we must first learn to fail and fail in research, so that we can have amazing gains in today's talents. A person can fail many times in his life, but one success is enough. We should carefully analyze our failures, analyze our own failures, and turn our disadvantages into advantages, so as to succeed.
Murphy also told us the attitude towards life and failure. He told us that the environment can be very bad, but our mentality must be sunny. The process of career success is essentially a process of constantly overcoming failure, because any career that wants to achieve considerable achievements will encounter difficulties, and it is inevitable that it will make mistakes, suffer setbacks and failures. Therefore, we should have an optimistic and positive heart, a rational heart to look at problems, and a rushing heart. Everyone has their own stage. As long as we play well on our own stage, then you are successful.
Everything we do must follow the objective law of the development of things, and we can't blindly. If we are accumulating and reflecting all the time, starting from today and revising all the time, then we will definitely get closer to success step by step.
Reflection on Murphy's Law 2 Hearing the title of this book, I think most people may be a little strange. Let me first introduce what Murphy's Law is.
Murphy's Law is what eddie murphy once said: If there are two or more ways to do something, and one of them will lead to disaster, then someone will make this choice, and that person is often you.
Presumably, many people will have many questions in their lives: Why do things always run counter to our wishes? Why do so many things always go against our wishes? Why are there such ridiculous things in life? All these things happen from Murphy's Law, and the book Murphy's Law humorously reveals Murphy's Law from many aspects such as workplace, socialization, negotiation, decision-making management, management, wealth, investment, friendship, love, consumption, health, education, life and so on, which can help us avoid the invisible traps that are common in life and thus study and live more efficiently.
Every article in this book is an example and an answer to prove every article's point of view, which makes people feel lively and interesting while reading an academic book.
In this book, the article that impressed me the most was Maslow's hierarchy of needs theory, also called the hierarchy of basic needs theory. The theory divides needs into five categories, from low to high: physiological needs, security needs, emotional and belonging needs, respect needs and self-realization needs. Maslow believes that people are animals with dreams, and only by doing competent and interesting work can they meet the needs of self-realization. However, people often try to realize their dreams every day, but in the end they lose themselves and forget their original intention. Why is this? This is because we have been trapped in the present life. If we want to pursue our dreams, it means losing our existing comfortable life, and in the end, once we fail, we will have nothing, and people are afraid of failure. They have forgotten their previous life with nothing.
There are some philosophy of life in this book, which seems to be chaotic, but it is these combinations that make Murphy's Law.
Reflections on Murphy's Law 3 1. Why should others approach you?
Strange to say, there are always netizens who send me messy things. Sometimes I once doubted that I was a rag collector. A girl gave me a bracelet because she was lovelorn. I didn't know whether it was copper or iron, so I just handled it casually. There is another girl who seems to run a clothing store. She chatted on WeChat and sent me this Murphy's Law. So the Murphy's Law I read here is not a series of Murphy's Law I bought myself, but someone else gave it to me. The person who sent me the book once greeted me with three meals a day, good morning, good afternoon and good evening. I didn't know what she meant, so I responded to her like this. As a result, what the hell? I can't believe there is no answer, which only shows whether she plays the trumpet or is just a boring woman. Maybe she found out that I was a total pauper and ignored me.
Here we can't help wondering, why should others approach you? Or why should we be close to others?
According to the human nature of pursuing advantages and avoiding disadvantages, others approach you to gain benefits, and that's all you approach others for. So don't put yourself on the moral high ground, it's easy to be lonely. A friendship between gentlemen is as light as water, but a friendship between villains is as sweet as cucumber. Sometimes it's not a good thing to be bound by golden sentences.
You can't help showing off your success in the crowd.
Man is a gregarious animal. If you are not in the crowd, you can't show off your success and you don't have to be ashamed of your own embarrassing things. Therefore, to be successful, you must have your own team and a large group of friends. Even the lion, the king of beasts, will flock to resist the invasion of hyenas on the African prairie. Unless you are a genius or a very capable person, you can solve everything by yourself. Of course, people with both fame and fortune, it is best to live alone, otherwise they will be hurt by this real society.
It is better to believe in books than not to have them.
Some people have not succeeded in reading a lot, and some people have low academic qualifications but are already valuable. This is probably the difference between studying hard and studying hard. Some people have read the Three Kingdoms many times but have not learned any tricks, some people have read the Water Margin many times but have no loyalty, some people have read Journey to the West many times but still have no adventurous spirit, and some people have read the Red Chamber many times but still have low emotional intelligence. Some people will tell you that reading is useless, which is obviously wrong. Reading can make ignorant people nearsighted, and reading can make a blind person see a wonderful world. Reading allows the lame to travel around the world, and reading allows children to roam freely. Reading can give you the confidence to conquer the world, and reading can make your spirit more and more resolute. However, not all books are beneficial to reading, because everyone's characteristics make everyone have only a few secrets suitable for him to read.
4. What is a good book for you?
You must study the books that make you suddenly realize. Just as excellent poems always inspire novice writers, good books can enlighten you and enlighten you. Although you don't remember anything after reading some books, you always smile when you recall reading this book, which shows that you subconsciously like this book. Some books, such as high school texts, are painful to recall, although you can recite them by heart at that time, and even now you can recite them by heart, which shows that this book makes you hate it. I finished reading the book Murphy's Law on the train from Shanghai to Guangzhou, and most of the contents have been forgotten, but I know the general appearance of success. I know how to improve my shortcomings and how to stick to my ideals. I think that's enough.
Reflections on Murphy's Law 4 There are many magical life laws and rules in the world, which enable us to understand the world, explain many phenomena in life, and more importantly, guide us how to do it.
The book Murphy's Law is called Edward. Murphy's people named it. He is a captain engineer at Edwards Air Force Base in the United States, and he produced this law in the form of a joke. Murphy's law is a psychological effect. If there are two or more ways to do something, one of which will lead to disaster, someone will make this choice. This sentence shows that if things are likely to go bad, no matter how unlikely, they will always happen.
Murphy's law tells the objective law of the development of things and openly expounds the possibility of failure, but every success is unrepeatable, and behind it is its own ecosystem. Error-prone is also an inherent weakness of human beings.
Natural weaknesses can also be changed through self-strength. This possible failure also makes us realize that everything should be fully prepared in the early stage and perfected as much as possible. When mistakes occur, it is more important to face them squarely and learn from them.
Just like our normal work, under the premise of laws and standards, various problems will still occur, just like the closed-loop process of internal audit, which is to find the root cause and solve the problem completely. Whether in work or in life, we should constantly look for new ideas and new methods.
Only by bypassing insurmountable mountains and winding paths can we have a bright future.
Reflection on Murphy's Law 5 Ricardo once said: "Learning is a sweet fruit that grows from bitter roots". This sentence can be simply understood as: knowledge is accumulated by taking the road of Wan Li, reading thousands of books and doing thousands of things. In order to practice this sentence with practical actions, I often read some books in my spare time to enrich myself. Among them, the book Murphy's Law: The Life Law of Earning Money has benefited me a lot.
The main content of this book is from the aspects of self-awareness and economic management. The author introduces dozens of laws and regulations of psychology and management that have many influences on modern people's work and life. It is very beneficial for people to correctly understand human nature and society to make clear the seemingly difficult and obscure laws and rules. This book is fluent in language and rich in cases, which has far-reaching guiding significance for readers to expand their cognitive psychology, improve their thinking methods and improve their life and work patterns.
When I didn't read this book, I thought Murphy's Law was ridiculous. Any event has a certain probability, and absolute events will definitely happen. However, possible events may or may not occur. A low probability event that was unlikely to happen happened to us, so people infinitely exaggerated the probability.
But after reading this book, I found that my point of view was wrong. Some events with minimal probability did happen in the end, and there is indeed a certain basis. A seemingly accidental mistake contains some inevitability. Moreover, we discuss and study Murphy's Law in order to reveal the law behind superficial phenomena, hoping to get some enlightenment from it, make it a good teacher and friend in our life, and guide us to success step by step.
Our duty as students is to study, and homework is indispensable in learning. Originally, there were two days to finish on Saturday and Sunday, so I began to delay on Saturday and didn't start to act until I had to do it on Sunday night. But at this time, we will find many unexpected situations. For example, when we want to do our homework, we find that our exercise book can't be found, or we suddenly find that the refill is missing, which eventually leads to our inability to finish our homework on time. Small probability events happen like this, and then we will feel that Murphy's Law has happened. In fact, if you think about it carefully, it is actually because of our delay that the homework has not been completed, which is an inevitable situation.
Through this incident, we can understand that the problem is not Murphy's law. We should reflect on ourselves, all because we are so lucky. Through this book, we have to understand that many things need to be done in a down-to-earth manner, and we can't have any luck in our hearts. Small probability events may actually happen because of luck in our hearts. Therefore, we must be a down-to-earth person, rely on our own efforts in life and study, approach success step by step, and achieve ourselves step by step.