Amway, who couldn't help being silly, finally spent a night watching the online drama Tokyo Women's Picture Book with Douban score of 8.8.
In fact, the story is very simple and the plot is very fast. Ling, the heroine, was born in a small town called Akita and dreamed of living a life that everyone envied. So ling left the small city where she lived and came to the bustling city, just like thousands of drifting north.
In just eleven episodes, the heroine lived for 20 years, made all kinds of boyfriends, and finally changed from a small town girl with nothing to the cover of the magazine "The Woman Women yearn for", and she fulfilled her original dream.
But she finally found that in this world, there will always be a life that she never dreamed of.
Fate turns around, and we finally become what we once wanted to be, but not what we want to be now.
Aya can only live in Sancha, which is not prosperous at first, where she meets Naoki from Akita like herself. Naoki is down-to-earth, warm-hearted, honest, considerate and handsome. Maybe this is the kind of boy who will make every girl move. If one word is used to describe their meeting, it is "first love".
They naturally get together, huddled in a small room in a fork in the road, get off work together every day, cook together, go shopping together and enjoy the ordinary life of lovers.
But before long, Aya began to feel dissatisfied with this life. When she walked with Naoki, her mind was full of news about the weekend friendship from her colleagues.
Aya said to herself, "I am very happy with Naoki, but if this kind of happiness can be seen everywhere in Akita, why should I go to all the trouble to come to Tokyo from Akita?"
So Aya left, left and moved to a bustling business district.
In fact, in real life, thousands of people in Qian Qian are struggling on the edge of this contradiction. Many viewers commented at the bottom, "Why are you leaving so happily?"
It's just that everyone has the right to choose their own life. Even if they do it all over again, I believe the hostess will choose, because when we were young, we were not willing to be ordinary.
When going to a party with colleagues, the hostess met her second boyfriend, Gao Si, a rich second-generation social elite with an annual salary of 8 million yen. She thinks he is her ideal marriage partner.
But she is not the one that Long Zhi wants to get married, because Aya has no commercial value to Long Zhi, and Long Zhi tells Aya that she is an unmarried person. Later, Long Zhi married another girl behind her back.
Seeing this, I can't help thinking of a sentence. It's not that this man doesn't want to get married, he just doesn't want to marry you. Qian Qian has a million excuses in the world, but this is the worst.
In fact, there is a detail in this part that shocked me. On the day when this woman turned 30, that is, the day when she was cheated, Long Zhi agreed to take her on a date with Jo I Robuchon, the most luxurious restaurant in JD.COM.
On that day, the woman went to the mall and picked out an extremely beautiful dress. She couldn't afford it at all, but for the sake of longing in her heart, she gritted her teeth and swiped her credit card.
I feel like people our age. In the face of desire, we sometimes can't control ourselves, but desire is always a bottomless pit, and we can't fill it in.
At first, we really just wanted to drink a cup of milk tea, but the bread in the milk tea shop is so tempting, just like this big city with colorful lights, there are things we can't eat every day.
Next, Aya met her uncle who had a good taste in life, her third boyfriend. He gave Aya the most luxurious life, but his uncle had a wife, and he couldn't give her marriage, just wanted to be her lover. After a while, Aya found that she still wanted to get married, so she broke up.
Then she married a man who looked ordinary but had a lot of assets through blind date. At the blind date, her husband said, "It is my dream to help my wife realize her dream." I thought I could settle down, but after I got married, I found that this man didn't respect her as he said, just regarded her as a nanny who did housework, and finally she chose to divorce.
After the divorce, Ling fell in love with a small fresh meat at first sight, but later found himself only a temporary target of this small fresh meat. Once there is a richer woman, small fresh meat is no longer her small fresh meat.
Finally, the woman returned to the town where she lived and met her first love-Naoki.
In a quiet corner, two people looked at each other. When the hostess was about to approach, she thought they would meet again. But at this time, a woman and a little girl ran out of the small supermarket next to her. The little girl called her father to Naoki, and Aya looked at their backs and walked away alone.
No one will wait for you in the same place, and people who are separated in time will not take the same road again.
The 40-year-old woman finally achieved her goal and became the kind of person that all women in town wanted to be. She finally understood that in this world, there are always some people that you can never reach, and there are always some people who live a life that you envy.
For example, in Mount Omotesando Hills in JD.COM, you can meet a woman who can't compete with you like a model within a few steps.
Just like when we were young, we always fantasized that we were the first in grade, but that first was always better than you; When we grow up, we want to wear beautiful shoes and clothes, but some people always have new clothes to wear every day.
Before, we all wanted to see the world, but we finally realized that the world was too big and too small for us. After all, we are just ordinary people, and we can never be unique protagonists.
In the last episode, the woman said to the screen:
"Feel my pain, so look down on me, don't want to be like me? Then please remember that you are superior to me now, because now you are me ten years ago, and now I am you ten years later. "
But what I like best is the paragraph I put at the beginning of the article:
"At that time, I felt that little happiness was too small and sad, so I put it down. Now I know how hard-won this little happiness is. What has happened so far is probably a long process of re-understanding this truth. "
But I always feel that this is also a truth that many people can't understand all their lives, or when we finally understand it, we have gone further and further on the road of desire.
Someone once asked, which would you choose, bread or love? I believe that real girls will want both and try to get both.
I don't believe that a marriage with only love but not enough to eat all day can go far. After all, marriage depends on daily necessities, and I don't believe how happy life will be without love, because every girl longs for love.
I think a girl who wants both, a girl who keeps trying in the face of desire, is the real human nature, and this is the true face of life.
But I think in the face of desire and choice, we should find a balance point to restrain our endless dissatisfaction. And this balance point is what you really want most, whether it is good or bad. As long as it is what you really want, there is nothing wrong with it.
Life is always full of crossroads ahead, and all the way is unremarkable. I dare not take this straight but unremarkable road, so I am curious about where the next road will lead.
So we hit the road and chose another road that looks less ordinary.
But after walking around, I found that I was back to the original point. What I finally found was what I had at the beginning, but the road ahead was impassable.
I remember that some readers commented in my article before, "How can I see the end of life at a glance? How can I see the end of life at a glance?" After learning about this, I went back to find someone to tell me about the depression in the process, only to find that there was no one behind me and there was no road. "
Why do you think we still have a hard time after listening to so many truths? Because it takes a price to really understand those truths.
It was not until I was forty years old that I realized that the road I took when I was young was actually a detour.
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