However, there seems to be a chain of contempt for children's interests, and interests like piano and dance will be highly regarded by parents.
But if children tell you that they like cosplay, then in the eyes of many parents, it belongs to the category of "doing nothing".
Cosplay, in short, is to use costume props and makeup to play the role of anime works and ancient characters.
This is very popular among teenagers nowadays, and even some primary school students are very keen to imitate their favorite anime characters.
The 7-year-old boy imitated the "Nezha" fire, and the classic action caused netizens to exclaim: The magical boy came to the world!
The movie "Nezha" was a great success, and the protagonist "Nezha" gained a lot of fans with its classic modeling, so that after the movie, many fans followed Nezha's ancient costume.
The most amazing one is the 7-year-old boy.
He restored his idol in a comic exhibition, and Nezha's eyes and movements were imitated to the extreme by him. Many netizens exclaimed after reading it: It is really a magical boy who came to the world!
"The eyes are absolutely perfect and the movements are in place. This child can simply restore Nezha, which is amazing! "
"When I saw this shape, I thought of my destiny. Too much like it! "
"Nezha's disdain and idleness are in place, admire you!"
"Like a magical boy! This child has great imitation potential and parents can cultivate it well. "
The child's mother is still worried that her son will only play these "empty tricks and brain damage" all day long and will not focus on his studies, but after watching the child's performance, he was deeply moved.
It seems that this child is really talented in imitation. If you train him well, he may be very successful in the future.
When it comes to children's hobbies, many parents will fall into such confusion.
Some children do well in school, but they have no special skills. Some children are talented in their interests, but their study is crazy.
As a parent, do you insist on cultivating children's interests or pay close attention to academic performance? Which is more important, children's interest or study?
Which is more important, children's interest or study?
Previously, a mother on the Internet asked a netizen for help.
The crazy mother said that her sixth-grade son devoted himself to cooking. Since the third grade, he has to cook dinner for his family every day when he comes home from school, but his academic performance is at the bottom every year, and he even got 1 in the math exam!
In this regard, the psychologist suggested that the mother, instead of being stubborn, should make the best use of the situation, let the children do what they are interested in, and give full play to the potential of the children as much as possible. It is also very successful to become a superb chef in the future.
Many netizens have also echoed that as long as they have a skill, they will be able to gain a foothold in the society in the future. Cultivating children's interest is sometimes more important than learning.
However, a netizen left a message like this: whatever you do, you must take culture as the foundation. If you are no longer good at what you do, it will be a castle in the air.
Bean mother agrees with this netizen's point of view very much. Although interest will provide direction for children's future career planning, children will not go further without a solid cultural foundation.
So who is more important without interest and study? The key is that parents should balance the relationship between the two.
How should parents balance their children's study and interest?
1.？ Respect and support children's interests.
Piaget, a child psychologist, said that interest is "the regulator of energy". Interest is a door to a new knowledge world.
Children have their own hobbies, and parents' first reaction should be surprise, rather than immediately judging whether this hobby is "doing nothing".
As long as it is a positive hobby, parents should respect and support their children, and don't impose their own ideas and opinions on them, blindly opposing and resisting them.
2. Teach children to plan their studies and interests.
Learning and interest are not two conflicting things, but can be balanced through scientific planning. When children's self-control ability is not so strong, parents can make some rules for their children.
For example, if a child is interested in playing football, then parents can make a timetable. When children finish their homework efficiently within the specified time, they can go out to play football.
In this way, children will take their homework seriously for hobbies, instead of finishing it hastily.
Children's interests and learning should be complementary. Interest provides a direction for learning, relieves the pressure of learning, and learning lays a solid foundation for interest, giving interest more opportunities to display.
Only when the two are in balance can children not feel that they are studying too hard and want to give up.
3. Learn to choose, but not much interest.
When children enter primary school, with the increase of schoolwork pressure, many children need to choose some interest classes.
As parents, they should give their children the right to choose and let them make their own decisions. This is also an opportunity to exercise their right to choose.
In terms of choice, parents should tell their children to keep only one or two interest classes that can be developed for a long time, otherwise it will bring too much pressure to themselves.