There is an unwritten rule circulating in the animation circle: owning Lolita's skirt is a symbol of status.
However, for many ordinary families, it is absolutely impossible to buy such an expensive skirt for the daughter who loves to dream. A genuine "Lolita" skirt is only a few hundred yuan, ranging from several thousand yuan. If you buy a set of shoes, headdress and socks, you need at least 10 thousand yuan.
Then, for those underage girls who have no economic income, what should they do if they want to have this skirt that symbolizes "status"? So, some people with ulterior motives extended their evil minions to these underage girls: "Sleep with them for one night and wear skirts."
Some girls really do this to satisfy their vanity and let others praise themselves for a quarter of an hour.
But what they didn't expect was that if they want to keep their vanity and let people around them continue to pay attention to and value themselves, they must continue to seek new stimuli.
When a girl embarks on this road, her future is not difficult to imagine.
Why do girls have such a "mentality"
The reason why those girls have such psychology is that their values are abnormal, which is why some people with ulterior motives succeed again and again, because they know the hearts of girls of this age too well.
But what the girls don't know is that these people with ulterior motives just use Lolita skirts as bait, and finally let their bamboo baskets draw water with a sieve.
Although these girls' experiences are sad, after such things happen, most girls can only choose silence and endure silently, and finally "ruin" their youth.
A girl who is not satisfied is ruined by "bad heart"
This kind of misbehaving girl, although not rich at home, is not a child of a poor family. It's strange why they don't prove their value academically, but not materially. What is this kind of girl if she is not "poor in heart"
The so-called "poor heart" is not only that girls feel that they have no money, but also that they have no pursuit and no life plan.
Driven by vanity, they subconsciously think that their body, that is, a "Lolita skirt", is worthwhile. What does this mean? Say they are "dissatisfied".
Because children know how to be content, they will not measure themselves with material things, and they will not exchange their "most precious" things for those "cheap" things.
The root of all this often lies in the lack of family education. Moreover, a child with a strong sense of "dissatisfaction" in his heart is also easily attracted by the outside world and thus goes astray.
finally
I believe that every parent doesn't want his child to be a person with no principles and no bottom line, and he doesn't want his child to exchange the best years for cheap materials, because it is not only the children but also the parents who are injured in the end.
Tutoring is like a marathon, which is not only achievement, but also endurance and process. Therefore, parents should strive to make their children's hearts full of love, and don't let their children's impulses ruin their lives.