The prodigal son's West Lake story: "It was Meng who fell in love at first sight, and my concubine felt it."
Usage: linkage type; As predicate, attribute and object; Used for love between men and women.
Example: Xu Chi's trip to the Three Gorges: "Qilian Mountain captured my heart, and Qinghai Lake captured me ~".
Synonym: love at first sight, love at first sight, hit it off.
Antonym: indifference, stranger, passerby
Two-part allegorical saying: White Lady borrows an umbrella.
Riddles: 1. The story of Lu Bu meeting Diusim.
Love at first sight answer: quite satisfied.
fall in love at first sight
-Su Xiaoxiao and Ruan Yu
It was love at first sight for Mongolia, so my heart felt something.
-Mo prodigal son "West Lake Story Xiling Rhyme"
cultural background
In the emotional pedigree of China people, only the feeling of "love at first sight" needs to be reviewed backwards.
Love at first sight, read this flat syllable, just like those ups and downs of the historical chapters, China for five thousand years, is nothing more than love and hate. In fact, we are not the only ones in China. Whose history can be divorced from love? However, due to the limitation of Chinese, many problems have become eternal mysteries. For example, when people in love ask the root of "why do you like me", they are often vague. Even with a thousand years of emotional writing history, people in China are always unable to express their feelings. In the Qing dynasty, a man finally broke the silence and deciphered the love spell that was wrapped around countless people's hearts, which was simply four words: love at first sight.
Love at first sight jumps out of the category of love. For example, in the workplace, people emphasize to leave a deep first impression on others, so you will find that every time you see a resume, the men in the photo are well dressed and the women are charming and lovely. Many clothing stores have also specially introduced interview clothes for people who are about to interview.
The core argument of Pozmann's masterpiece Death by Entertainment is that appearance is more important, and image is more important. Nowadays, politicians spend more time in front of the mirror than reading speeches. Some people say that today, Lincoln, who is ugly, will definitely not be president, and Roosevelt, who is in a wheelchair, will not be able to sit for that long. His point of view is to be prepared every day and always be ready to meet the right person or thing.
This is almost a tone, a template that can be copied at any time. Change the time, place, characters and props ... reverse the subject, predicate and object, tone and vocabulary ... change the sigher from Mo prodigal son to Cao Zhi, Li Bai, Qin Guan, Li Shangyin, Nalan Xingde ... The name has changed, only the emotion has not changed, and the sigh has not changed, but the piled words are enough to make people admire.
Su Xiaoxiao and Ruan Yu.
Su Xiaoxiao's deeds were first seen in an ancient poem "Xiao Su Ge in Qiantang" in the collection of poems edited by Chen Ren Xu Ling in the Southern Dynasties.
My concubine rides a tanker and Lang rides a green horse.
Where is the knot? Xiling pine and cypress.
What a frank and unrestrained emotion, choose an elegant time and tie the knot easily. Nowadays, such feelings and self-confidence are gone and hard to get. Xu Ling didn't explain Su Xiaoxiao's identity background, and the latecomers just imagined it. According to Yuefu Guangti, Su Xiaoxiao is a famous geisha in Qiantang, with seven people in the south. Some people say that she is from Jiaxing County. Li Shen's Preface to the True Mother's Tomb says that there is a prostitute Su Xiaoxiao's tomb in Jiaxing County, which is stormy, or there is a singing voice on it. Because there is no textual research, and there are many legends, the fragmentary pearls left by scholars in previous dynasties have left a lot of creative space for Mo prodigal son. The West Lake on Sword is a masterpiece, among which the chapter of Xiling Rhyme is particularly amazing.
There are many suitors in Su Xiaoxiao, and they were already famous in Suzhou and Hangzhou before 28th. "A long time ago, there were extravagant childe, Hakka squire, or wanted to be a singer, or wanted to marry a concubine, willing to pay one thousand dollars. After another, Su Xiaoxiao resigned. "
Aunt Jia, the pimp of the brothel, advised her to choose a good family to marry before it was too late, or she would have lived in vain. Su Xiaoxiao's answer to the procuress is the first work of independent women;
My aunt's original intention is to cherish my niece, which is extreme. But my niece has a hobby, and her favorite is the scenery of the West Lake. You can only sit in the cage and watch the sky, but you can't swim two peaks and three bamboos. Besides, wealth and poverty are tied to life. You will never be born in a prostitute's house. Since I was born into a prostitute's family, it is not the fate of a golden house. Entering the back door, the lions in Hedong will not show off; Three or five little stars must be jealous. Luxury goods and things that are not durable have no certain feeling of wealth, and it is easy for people to get ahead. It's better to move the famous flowers from the shrine, put them in the city of Japan and smell them in your nose. Who doesn't cherish the fragrance and cherish the jade; Who doesn't love color when they see it? When the daughter laughs, Hualiu will fight for herself. Ten dollars, the romantic was willing to let. The fragrance is beautiful, like sweet bait, the sound of flying out of the tube, peaches everywhere. Looking at each other at dusk, wild mandarin ducks don't look at birds; Spring is red, autumn is purple, and fake marriage is different. Why do you swear to pity the new like a sunny day? Forgetting the past may be regarded as a cloud. Happy today, rest tomorrow, nothing more than dew; There are so-called fireworks for the time being. In love, people do their best and run away with a smile; Care, might as well be tolerant and happy. Although leaning against the door to offer a smile, don't laugh for the sake of fame; Pity for widows will not be abandoned by the holy king. Brothel red powder, not only has this narrow and evil profession; If you marry Zhu Yan, you won't have a gentle miracle. From this point of view, with my niece's talent, a pen and an ink will definitely open the Jade Hall of Chu Museum; As a niece, smile and frown, and swear to enjoy the golden house in Qin Lou. Money and food in the house are endless, and horses are filled all day long. Be a beautiful heart, and then have a romantic wish. If you can be an outstanding beauty in the prostitute house, wouldn't it be better to be a concubine accompanying the team at the waiting door? If this is my niece's ambition, why don't I know my aunt?
What a Su Xiaoxiao! Looking at women in ancient and modern times, who is so self-aware and sober, who can be so calm and calm? For example, Huo Xiaoyu loves talents, but she meets her husband; Liang Hongyu has an eye for people, knows each other, but is legendary; Cui Yingying was abandoned at the beginning of the chaos, which was also a sad end; A lion's roar can't save love, so it's better to look down on everything ... Xue Tao in the Tang Dynasty and Li Shishi in the Song Dynasty really responded to Su Xiaoxiao's fireworks, and Liu, who was brilliant in literary talent, finally threw himself into the river with chivalry, and even a great historian like Chen Yinque couldn't save her tragic fate.
A person who loves Qiantang landscape and nature will be so unruly that he will naturally not commit himself to ordinary people. Regarding the scandal between Su Xiaoxiao and Ruan Yu, Jia Yi made another evaluation: "A daughter is a good employer; Xianggong's son is also a noble person; Small family is weak, and teenagers are also; Bright and affectionate, romantic figures also; My niece won this stupid melon, and she won't disgrace her previous reputation and her future reputation. Please think for yourself and don't miss it. " With the love at first sight and Jia Yi's trust, Su Xiaoxiao and Ruan Yu finally consummated their marriage. Later, Ruan Yu was urgently recalled to Beijing by the Prime Minister's father, and he was never heard from again. If there is another chance for her to have an eye for people like Bao Ren, it will be too easy. Only knowing each other, knowing each other, there is no more love, only the beauty of Qiantang in her eyes has not diminished. Four or five years later, she passed away peacefully, just as she was calm and open-minded in history and at the beginning of the story.
She was glad to die a fair death. Burning a beautiful woman is not ugly ... if you lose a movie, you will get it forever. Mo prodigal son in Qing Dynasty must have read the story of Mrs Sinan in Han Dynasty before he saw through the way of the world. Su Like smiled and issued his last words with the same insight into human nature: "Friendship is a floating cloud, love is still flowing, with or without it, it suddenly appears and disappears. Why not? " To whom? As for the coffin, I have materialized and disappeared. What is abundance and frugality? Listen to human feelings. But I was born, died and was buried in Xiqiao. I am worthy of my Su Xiaoxiao scenery. "After all, she returned to her favorite scenery, which made her an eternal story.
Over the years, countless people have joined Su Xiaoxiao. Qiantang has been prosperous since ancient times. Let her rest in peace.
Cui Yingying and Zhang Sheng.
Wang Shifu wrote in The West Chamber that when Zhang Sheng helped Sage meet Cui Yingying, he shouted that he was "an affair 500 years ago" and met his fairy sister. According to the meaning of Buddhism, fate is doomed, and 500 years is a reincarnation. There is a saying that "we are in the same boat * * *" has passed 500 years. Even some people who can't read can sing "I begged for 500 years before the Buddha to meet you". At that time, Zhang Sheng was a romantic place, but he shouted that he had never seen such a favorite, and he couldn't say anything. He was speechless and stunned.
Master Wang has never seen it, only Ren stammered that he felt this way. They don't even know this feeling is called "love at first sight". To prove the beauty of Cui Yingying, Master Wang invited a monk. "Master is old, and the throne is blocked; The squad leader was really tired, looking at Facong's head, a golden knock. " Even "Iron Man" will be tempted by this hilarious scene, and Zhang Sheng is not the only one who regards Yingying as a treasure.
Cui Yingying, I didn't know she had such a flirtatious look. When he left, some people said he gave Zhang a glad eye, while others said he didn't. This problem has become a war of words among a group of bookworms. To answer this question, we have to use Stephen Chow's "Tong Pak Hu Dian Chou-heung".
Tang Bohu thinks Chou-heung is full of affection for San Xiao. She thought she fell in love at first sight, and when she went to verify it, she got a piece of ridicule. She can't fall in love at first sight, but she is sentimental. If you add Zhang Sheng's copy of Duan Yu in Jin Yong's works, you will find that these three men who always misunderstand have suffered a lot in an affair, and you can also see the narrative matrix about "love at first sight", which is rampant and classic. Even Wei Xiaobao, who has really seen the world and enjoyed everything, will feel bored when he sees Chisui, shouting "I'm dead, I'm dead". Otherwise, the love of writing becomes a big problem, and it takes a lot of efforts to control this kind of writing. Women should not only have a shocking appearance, but also have outstanding wisdom and talent. If these are not available, the origin is very important, and they must not feel in love with vases. The strangest thing is that the writer tries to prove that when "love at first sight" happens, both parties fall in love not only with each other's faces, but also with their own souls. But obviously, this is a lie.
There is no doubt that Cui Yingying has it all. Gradually, Zhang Sheng discovered that Cui Yingying, the daughter of the Prime Minister, was born in a noble family, knew a lot about the world, had amazing wisdom in dealing with the world, had a high literary accomplishment, and was especially good at calligraphy. Look at this poem: "Gui Lan has been lonely for a long time and has nothing to do with her spring. Those who are expected to sing deserve sympathy. " Zhang Sheng said with emotion: "This time, that time, beauty is only thinking, and Yingying is in the world."
It is this "moment, another moment" that reveals all the secrets. I thought Zhang Sheng was fascinated by Cui Yingying and knew nothing about Cui Yingying. He began to look at her eyes carefully from head to toe, even trying to figure out her joys and sorrows: "Everyone there flirted with Xiang Shoulder ... Who thought of meeting the gods in the temple ... Although he couldn't steal jade or incense, he used this group of eyes as chess pieces ..." It can be seen that Zhang. But a smart person like Su Xiaoxiao wouldn't expect her "love at first sight" to bring marriage. She just found a dedicated person for the first time.
So, can it be said that "love at first sight" is actually a way to open desire? Love is just flesh and blood. Soul? Did you really see the soul? In this way, whether in fictional works or in real life, everything is likely to continue. In implicit Chinese, although we have amazing love words, it is difficult to find that kind of frank approval.
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Then, let's take a look at what Casanova, a famous western prodigal son, said. "If you love human beings, you must love them completely", "A person's life, happiness or not, luck or not, can only be enjoyed once. Who doesn't love life, who doesn't deserve life. " The world and body constitute the whole of Casanova, and he spared no effort to seize every moment to enjoy it. Because the next moment is unpredictable. He said, "Four fifths of my happiness is achieved by pleasing women."
Casanova brought love from imaginary castles in the air to real life. In this world, he can enjoy happiness with every woman who has the heart and courage. Just as Rousseau, a Frenchman, looked for sentimental sentiment from love, and Goethe, a German, borrowed Witt to look for melancholy from love, Casanova, an Italian, showed such a principle: wild love is necessary, which can most effectively help all sentient beings get rid of all kinds of burdens. It is not difficult to imagine that in his romantic life, there are more than one hundred women, from fifteen-year-old girls to seventy-year-old women.
Yes, it's the body. Not only men, but also women. Duras also said: "If you have not experienced passion, you will not experience anything in life." Duras, who followed the principle of "absolute obedience to physical desires and absolute experience of passion", broke the restrictions from regions and nationalities at the beginning, and conducted the most essential communication of life regardless of occasions in an attempt to wake up the sleeping body. When Duras got Andre Yang Shi, a college student 40 years younger than herself, was she resisting the irresistible decline of her body, or trying to prove her insatiable excitement and passion for life?
In a blink of an eye, some modern women issued a similar cry: "Hearing the voice of German man Mark, my bottom is wet." This is a rare expression in Chinese. The body was opened, in addition to showing its super desire, it also internationalized the body like Duras. But even this voice was quickly drowned out.
Throughout the current network, the image-based tone is to cater to many people's psychological expectations of "love at first sight". For example, the popular SNS dating site, real-name registration system, needs a beautiful personal photo as the first element if its space is to be popular.
It is almost certain that if you can't fall in love at first sight, you can't fall in love again. This is the attitude given by the times, not from China.