"Marriage is like a besieged city. People inside want to go out and people outside want to come in. " This sentence truly reflects the current marital status in China society. In today's China, not only is the divorce rate soaring, but also the number of bachelors remains high. According to statistics, the number of bachelors in China has reached 30 million, of which nearly 90% are rural people. Although it is not certain whether this data is accurate, it is an indisputable fact that there are more and more rural bachelors in recent years. ? In recent years, every time I go back to my hometown, I will find that there are more and more older young men in the village, but the other half has never been settled. Every time I talk to them about this problem, I can also hear the anxiety and loss between words. One of them is a 40-year-old brother who even complained to me. "Now girls can't afford to marry, and I haven't saved enough money for the bride price for half my life!" Speaking of which, Big Brother bit his lip. In today's rural areas, although farmers' income is generally not high, marriage is definitely not sloppy. If you want to get rid of the bachelor's identity, you have to have a house and a car at least, and you have to prepare a generous bride price for your wife. Plus, you can't do it without hosting dozens of tables and banquets. ? "But even if you have some money in the countryside, you may not be able to find the right girl. There are too few rural girls now. " After talking about his own situation, eldest brother lamented the situation in the village. Nowadays, in order to pursue better living conditions, most young rural girls choose to work in cities. Influenced by urban culture, I naturally don't want to go back to the countryside after a long time. Most of them choose to get married and have children in cities, which also leads to more and more rural bachelors. But in the final analysis, it is difficult for rural marriageable men to divorce because of the imbalance between men and women. Especially in the 1980s and 1990s, the idea of giving priority to boys and raising children to prevent old age was deeply rooted, which led to the number of men born in rural areas far exceeding that of women. Statistics show that there is a serious imbalance between men and women of marriageable age in rural areas of China, and the ratio in rural areas of Shandong even exceeds 4: 1. ? With fewer girls, it is naturally more difficult for bachelors to get rid of orders. Eldest brother said: "A few years ago, I heard from some fellow villagers that many rural girls worked in some clothing and electronics factories in the city, and I also went to some factories specially." Although there are many young girls in it, they have all been taken away, and they are all factories that come in and out one by one. How can we middle-aged bachelors expect? " At the same time, eldest brother frowned, and his words were full of helplessness and sadness. ?

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