In 20 10, the post-80s generation, which once caused numerous topics, once again attracted unprecedented attention: because they entered what Confucius called "the year of establishing themselves", they were no longer young and willful. Now, they are in their thirties. How do they get along in the workplace? Have you realized your career ideal? Still chic, single or happy at home? Can you bear the family responsibility of "having the old and the young" ...

Memories of "Standing at the Age of 30" after 70 s

Job stability, early marriage.

I don't think people of any age are qualified to criticize people of other ages, because you are not him and you don't know their real situation. I was born in 1970. By the time I was 30, I had been married for five years and my children were three years old. People of the same age as Dachuan, who get married and have children after work, are not as chic and free as they are now. Because, in those days, if you were not married at the age of 30, people really had to suspect that you or your family had problems. I majored in medicine and was assigned to a community hospital after graduation. At that time, there was no such thing as job-hopping, so whether you like it or not, you have to work there in a down-to-earth manner. In fact, we are exaggerating the problems encountered by the post-80s generation. They are the most solid force in their work, and they are also free to pursue the life they want in their feelings. As for the house, this social problem is difficult for individuals to change, and many post-70s are also worried about the house.

-Mr. Chen, 40, a doctor.

"Thirty-year-old" after 80s in March

False phenomenon: many post-80s people feel that "30 is hard to stand".

People have given too much controversy to the post-80s generation. They were once called "the beat generation", but today they call themselves "the painful generation". According to a survey, 40% of the post-80s generation are still small employees, and only 20% have just stepped into basic management positions and been promoted to supervisor. Only less than 10% of the "post-80s" can take up senior positions such as "manager". In addition, more than 30% of the post-80s generation said that their monthly income was between 3,000 yuan and 5,000 yuan, and nearly 30% of their income was between 1500 yuan and 3,000 yuan. Moreover, they change jobs frequently and their jobs are extremely unstable. Under the condition that the material foundation is not well protected, nearly 40% of the 30-year-old "post-80 s" are still single, and many people don't even have a definite relationship.

"Who says men don't want love? I also want to buy a nest and live happily with my beloved girl, but do I have the capital? " Xiao Hai, who just turned 30, said that he had a girlfriend who talked for four years, but in the end, she waved her hand smartly and threw herself into the arms of another successful man. "I don't blame her. I can't even afford a 30-square-meter house, and my work is jittery. I can't even give her a tough promise. What can I expect? The ancients said: Standing at thirty, I dare not mention this word today. "

Let's take a look at this sad and helpless post: "when we were in primary school, we didn't need money to go to college;" Before we can work, work is assigned; When we can work, we barely find a hungry job when we hit a wall; When we can't make money, the house is allocated; When we can make money, we find that the house can't afford it; When you don't find someone, the girl is sincere; When we were looking for someone, the girls were talking about gold. "Like Xiaohai, many post-80s people are confused about their future.

Case 1: Being able to live independently means "standing"

Reality: The word "Li" is difficult to define and true.

In fact,' standing at thirty' can be interpreted in many ways. Having a house and a car is not necessarily' standing', but I think the real meaning of' standing' is that you are mature, able to take responsibility, be able to determine your own life goals and live independently. Miss Xu, a white-collar worker, is about to enter the ranks of 30 years old in July. Up to now, she is still labeled as a "leftover woman", although her mother often talks in her ear and asks her to find someone to marry. "To tell you the truth, I still enjoy the feeling of being in love, but once I think about getting married and having children, I will shrink back a little. I think this is also my' standing up' performance. At least I know what I want. " Miss Xu said that after working for six years, she changed three careers. Last year, in June 5438+10, she was admitted to a middle school to teach. Although she is old and has no relevant experience, her serious work attitude and innovative teaching methods have won the appreciation of the leaders. In Miss Xu's view, doing this ordinary job well and living a happy life has reached the realm of "standing at the age of 30".

Case 2: Being able to take care of others is "standing"

Tang Jun is just 30 years old this year. He graduated from a doctor's degree the year before last and worked as a teacher in a third-rate school. "I have been in primary school for 22 years since I was 6 years old, and now my identity has finally changed. Although I am 30 years old, I still have nothing: no house, no car and no wife, but I am still very happy to congratulate myself on stepping into the mainstay, no matter how the society belittles us and sympathizes with us. " Tang Jun said that his salary is not high, but from the first month when he received his salary, he would send 500 yuan to his family in the countryside every month. "My parents are farmers, and there are brothers and sisters at home. I haven't read many books, but I have gone out to work. Life in my hometown is very poor, and my mother has leg disease. I can't walk. In fact, since I went to college, I have basically relied on work-study programs to support myself, and sometimes I will send the money I saved home. I feel that I have stood up since I was 20 years old. As long as I have a responsibility in my heart, it is not difficult to stand up. " In Tang Jun's view, some post-80s generation said that they were too greedy for enjoyment, moaning and shirking their responsibilities.

Case 3: not worrying about your family is "standing"

Strictly speaking, it took Mr. Yuan half a year to reach the age of "thirty", but in the eyes of his friends, he was "indomitable" two years ago: he graduated from college and worked as a white-collar worker for a year, and he could not stand the boss's difficulties. He had a whim to start a business. Unexpectedly, under the right circumstances, he succeeded, with tens of millions of personal deposits. At present, the company is operating normally. At the end of last year, his wife gave birth to a lovely daughter.

"To tell you the truth, I am quite satisfied with the current situation, and I can also say that I have reached the realm of' thirty'. However, I can't stop trying. I hope this' standing' state can continue. In fact, for most people,' standing at the age of 30' is easy to achieve. Although you are a small clerk, it costs two or three thousand yuan a month, but you can do this job well with a mature attitude and don't let your family worry. " Mr. Yuan warned the post-80s generation to complain less and do more.

The fantasy of "standing at the age of 30" after 90.

Successful career, love follows fate.

I really haven't thought about what it's like to be thirty. I just turned 20 this year and graduated from Fashion Design School in June. When I was at school, I used my spare time to shoot TV advertisements, which not only made money, but also experienced social life. If you have to give me a 30-year-old idea, I hope to have my own clothing brand and open a clothing company named after myself. In love, don't think about it until you are 26, so let it be. If you meet a secret crush, you may get married soon. I'm the boss of the family. I hope to lay a solid economic foundation and experience foundation for my brothers and sisters before the age of 30, so that they can avoid detours. -Lingling, 20 years old, graduate student.

They are only "thirty years old"

● Li Xiang: 198 1 Born, graduated from high school, 1999 started a business, and is currently the CEO of PCPOP.com, with a personal net worth of over 100 million. Famous saying: "Keep your vision at high speed and turn yourself into a director." If you pay 5% more effort than others, you may get 200% reward from others. "

● Gao Yan: 198 1 Born, Bachelor of Journalism in Tsinghua University, started his business in 2004, and is the CEO of China Entertainment Network. His P2P commercial streaming media technology is in a leading position at home and abroad. Famous saying: "People who are more capable, diligent, able to deal with people and have certain leadership skills can try to start a business. Be reliable. "

● Mao: Born in 1983, graduated from junior high school. He is currently the president of MaJoy and the creator of live-action games. Famous saying: "I am still young, and it is still difficult to weigh the pros and cons comprehensively, so as long as the opportunity comes, no matter how good or bad, I will rush up and seize it." Isn't it what young people should do to change the environment and have an experience? "