Sadly, however, sometimes people don't have the patience to wait for a soul mate who really suits them. It is an inevitable trend to destroy this careful person around them. This kind of "following the trend" may be the urging of people around you, or it may be your impatience, or the temptation of waiting for someone. Everyone has no "he" who is really in tune with himself. The experience of Jiang Yang's wife Li Hong is an example that everyone should refer to. Maybe everyone is very unfamiliar with the name Li Hong, even the name is a little too general, but when it comes to her ex-husband, I think everyone must know that her ex-husband is Jiang Yang, a famous writer in the literary world.
195 1 year, a little girl named Li Hong was born in an ordinary family in Shanghai. Although the family is ordinary, Li Hong was born with the love of his parents and a happy family. Having such a happy family has turned Li Hong into a cheerful little girl, and that temperament has benefited Li Hong a lot.
Family not only casts Li Hong's temperament, but also casts her knowledge. Li Hong's mother is a doctor and her father is a teacher. Growing up in such a family, Li Hong was influenced by excellent education and its extraordinary culture and art from an early age, and also grew up in such a literati family, which made him have extensive knowledge and self-confidence.
Li Hong, justified, is not "rooted in red seedlings". Because of his family composition, he lost the qualification to study and train drama. This made Li Hong very depressed. They didn't know that it was in this exam that Li Hong and Jiang Yang first met.
The temptation of love: 27-year-old Jiang Yang undertook the recruitment of the school. Although Li Hong was not hired in the play, he was deeply attracted by Jiang Yang because of his beautiful young appearance and unique aura-Jiang Yang fell in love with Li Hong at first sight.
Jiang Yang, who fell in love, began her crazy and stubborn pursuit of perfection for Li Hong. In the pursuit of perfection, Jiang Yang was immersed in his own mood, immersed in the mentality of falling in love, and wrote one confession letter after another, expressing his passion like an ignorant teenager. He wrote one letter after another, whether Li Hong would accept his feelings or not, and whether he would write back to him.
When Jiang Yang challenged Li Hong, something happened and Li Hong accepted him completely. One day, Li Hong suddenly fell ill and was hospitalized. The sick patient has always been extremely sensitive, and at this time, Jiang Yang is basically with Li Hong every day, taking care of Li Hong endlessly. Staying up late to take care of Li Hong caused a strong protest from Jiang Yang. Until Li Hong fell ill, Jiang Yang was so tired that he was admitted to the hospital. Jiang Yang's infatuation even touched Li Hong's parents, who agreed to their marriage. The two of them came here and walked into the palace of married life.
At the beginning of Li Hong's solo flight, Jiang Yang, who had a good job, was fired in turbulent times. But he has no fixed income and can only make a living by creating. Even his creation can't give them enough financial resources to support their family expenses. So, in order to better maintain the normal operation of the family, and to better re-apply Jiang Yang's own creative work, Li Hong began to operate alone, and she returned to the quality of the factory again, but even if she often worked overtime and got a raise, she still could not maintain the normal operation of the family.
Li Hong decided to travel to Shenzhen alone. When he arrived in Shenzhen, Li Hong was almost strict with himself. Sometimes, in order to find a better job, she even fainted on the side of the road after running alone all day hungry and worked in a factory to earn money. In order to better earn some overtime pay from Qian Qian, she will work around the clock, and most of her salary will be mailed to Jiang Yang, so that her husband and daughter will become the whole motivation of Li Hong's struggle.
Tragedy just came unexpectedly. 1992, Li Hong gradually discovered that Jiang Yang's mentality towards herself was becoming more and more abnormal, and she also gradually discovered the emotional entanglement between Jiang Yang and Ma Lian. It is clear that she is struggling to support her family outside, but her husband has changed his mind. Li Hong was once sad and lost in the end. But Li Hong is an open-minded and generous woman after all. She didn't choose to be stubborn, but bravely learned to let go, that is, she knew that her feelings had long been moldy and there was no need to save them. That's it. She resolutely proposed to divorce Jiang Yang and decided to raise her daughter alone. There is no resentment between her words and manners, but she really looks like a smart person.