Generally, you can't be the best man more than three times, that is, at most three times.
The specific reasons are as follows:
1. Traditional customs
Being the best man is tantamount to giving your destiny (marriage) to someone else (bride and groom)! Therefore, every time I become the best man, my fate will be less. Of course, the more times, the thinner the fate.
2. Tell the truth.
Normally, every best man should feel more joyful atmosphere, but you can find that every time you go to be the best man, you will find that many new people have strange atmosphere. This is because couples usually quarrel when they get married, and it is normal to feel fear in the eyes of the best man! Another point is that the best man died, and when you meet new people after a while, you will always hear complaints (such as how happy single people are). Naturally, the more you listen, the more afraid you are!
Increase premarital phobia
Being the best man of too many people, you will see many new people on the road of divorce for various reasons, so you should usually be alert to their panic. Marriage is the grave of love, therefore, pre-marital phobia, even unmarried people will gradually arise.
Of course, the above statement is only one-sided. There is really no definite statement about the number of best men, so we don't have to take it too seriously.
Matters needing attention when being the best man
be decently dressed
This is the most basic requirement for being the best man. Generally speaking, you should wear a suit, which depends on the weather. If it is summer, add a shirt and trousers, and wear a suit in winter. Of course, this is a more formal way to dress, and there is no rule that the best man must wear a suit. If the groom asks you to be ridiculous, have personality or dress up as a woman, that's fine. But it must be clear that the bride and groom are the protagonists at the wedding. If your clothes are more eye-catching and conspicuous than the groom's, then you are putting the cart before the horse.
Help the groom solve the problem.
The best man does not accompany the groom. Helping the groom is the most important task of the best man. When the groom goes to his mother-in-law's house to pick up the bride, he will encounter "obstruction" and "difficulties" from the bridesmaids and relatives and friends of the bride. At this time, it is time to show the role of the best man. As the best man, he should try his best to help the groom complete the task until he successfully enters the bride's boudoir.