An analysis of Zi Jin's feelings between men and women;
The "Zi" of 1 is the second name. Zi is often used as a title of respect, such as Confucius and Laozi. When "Zi" is used as the second person, it is generally used to address men with equal status and peers, and can also be used to address men with lower status. That is, a man can call another man "son", but a woman can't. The same title often appears in the Book of Songs, such as the famous sentence "Drumming" in Taifeng: "Hold your hand and grow old with your son", which is an agreement between soldiers about life and death.
2. Qingqing purple robe is a kind of clothing, which is the uniform of Zhou Dynasty (mostly the children of officials) and the clothing of scholars. This shows that Zi is a scholar with high weight. Calling it a "son" means that I am a male with the same status and equal seniority.
3. "If I don't go, Zi Ning won't come?" In Chinese, "I" is a cognitive word, which refers to the person (male) who holds Jin Yi. "I" is the first person of men and is used among peers. At that time, the first person of women was "Hm", which has evolved into "slave" and "slave family" in modern times. For more information, see.
4. "Pick a big one, in the city." "Picking" means scratching your head, "reaching" means "stepping", and "picking up" means scratching your head and standing still (pacing), which is used to describe the way men wait anxiously. "Inside the city gate" means above the city gate. The "gate" is the tower, which is the entrance to the city. Towers are often guarded by guards, so it is difficult for ordinary people to get on them, and even women are forbidden to enter, just as the ancient army banned women. So "I" is a man with a certain status.
5. From the analysis of poetry, it is usually "I" who goes to find "Zi", so there is a saying that "I won't go". If "I" is a woman, it is not in line with the etiquette at that time, and it is too active. If "I" is a woman, it must be a noble child with a higher status (comparable to a green fern), and the etiquette requirements for her are even stricter. It is impossible for public places like the gatehouse to appear. They are basically pure men and everyone can see them. If they are ordinary women, they have to go upstairs and take the initiative to pursue noble "youth", which is unique to modern novels.
To sum up, Zi Jin is not a poem expressing the feelings of men and women, but a poem expressing the deep affection of men. "Even if I don't go, won't Zi Ning come?" It means that the two sides have an appointment. This is a story about a man who is waiting anxiously at the gate upstairs because he has something to stand up. He is complaining about another man in his heart.
Ji Zi is an emotional song for men and women.