Yu Huanshui, the hero in the play, is a middle-aged man. He wants money and has no money. His worksheet is now at the bottom of the company. His former good brother borrowed money and his family life was not satisfactory. His wife and children look down on him.

Yu Huanshui suffered from multiple crises of career, emotion, health and family background. When things happen, they will only be extremely embarrassed and sad. Yu Huanshui's sadness is infinitely magnified, and it feels like the shadow of many tired and atrophied middle-aged people.

When people reach middle age, the dull days kill the passion of marriage and always worry about being replaced in the workplace.

When people reach middle age, Yu Huanshui lives so unintelligent.

I once read a sentence on the Internet: "You can scold a middle-aged man to death, because he will only be timid and won't talk back, but don't scold young people, they will resign for you in minutes."

Indeed, middle-aged people have to bear a lot of pressure. They have a small family, mortgage, car loan and children's tuition. If you are not satisfied with your work, you dare not resign easily.

Many people say that "when people reach middle age, everyone is Yu Huanshui, and everyone sees their own shadow through drama".

Yu Huanshui sent his son to school. He was fined for being late for work, and his salary was deducted to the basic salary. He was also given a informed criticism.

In order to keep his job, Yu Huanshui had to make up reasons to convince the manager, but Yu Huanshui's reasons were not believed at all in the manager's mind.

The manager watched Yu Huanshui like a clown show, constantly pleasing the audience. For Yu Huanshui, he is used to being so timid.

For the sake of my family, I have to go on working as if I were nothing.

Yu Huanshui's performance was poor, and he was laughed at by his former apprentice, so he had to pull a long face and use his former apprentice's mutual affection to ask disciple Wang for a bill.

As Yu Huanshui's apprentice, I feel that I have made up my old feelings, and I am still begging, and I am getting tired of being impatient. I made fun of Yu Huanshui in front of my colleagues in the whole company. "It's okay for people to hurt their legs, don't hurt their brains."

Ruthlessly stepping on Yu Huanshui's dignity, for Yu Huanshui, he is used to not resisting, and his popularity is poor. Nobody wants to remind him of something. He is a famous doormat in the company.

But there is a living example around me.

Xiao Yang is a fashion designer, and his work attitude is just muddling along. He was often late for work and was questioned by the manager several times. He also likes to eat snacks during working hours, often makes mistakes when he is not serious, and likes to lie and report.

What I am most afraid of at work is meeting such people, who seem docile on the surface, but like to snitch behind them. As his colleague, you should be very careful when you talk to him, lest you say something wrong or leave something behind and be caught by you and report to him.

Swing grass can sometimes get a temporary bargain in the workplace, but it must not be too much. Whether you are doing things or being a person, it is a university question.

There are no shortcuts in the workplace. You must work hard if you want to succeed. The road is step by step, so you should eat it bit by bit. Only by cramping and peeling can you change your tires and bones. There is no shortcut.

Xiao Yang is a negative textbook. He always wants ready-made, whimsical, and doesn't want to work hard on his own.

Yu Huanshui encountered a bottleneck for his family and career and dared not give up his job easily. Yu Huanshui had to bow his head, plead with the leader and put in a good word when he met the ridicule of his apprentice and the idea of the leader's relentless dismissal. In order to keep my job temporarily.

As the saying goes, you don't know when you are blessed, and many couples go to a red light or even break up because of money.

Yu Huanshui has no position at home. Responsible for the breakfast of a large family. My son doesn't want porridge for breakfast, but wants milk. Yu Huanshui forgot to buy it, so he had to lie to his wife with a straight face that the supermarket business was so good that it was sold out.

The wife has never given him face, and the milk can still be sold. The business in this supermarket is too good. Don't find unpleasant things in the morning. If you forget to buy, you forget. There are too many excuses. Yu Huanshui immediately became timid.

His wife Gan Hong asked Yu Huanshui to buy it now in a commanding tone. Yu Huanshui didn't dare to disobey the order and rushed to buy milk to send his son to school. In the elevator, he met a neighbor's dog to pee, said a few words out of turn, and was returned by the neighbor. He dare not argue boldly.

On weekends, the renovation of the house upstairs affected the rest, so I went up to find the theory of the decoration company, but I was still the same, afraid to speak out of turn.

Therefore, Yu Huanshui is incompetent in his wife's red eye, no matter his position at home or his performance outside.

It turned out that before Yu Huanshui's accident, one month's salary caught up with his wife's salary for half a year. Living alone in a big house is still very good. Gan Hong chose to marry Yu Huanshui after seeing such conditions, but people are not as good as heaven. After marriage, a disaster happened and earth-shaking changes took place.

Yu Huanshui can only find a job to support his family, and he dare not give up his job easily when he is rejected.

In order to understand the hard work of my wife to pick up the children, I plan to buy a car. My wife didn't believe that Yu Huanshui was rich, so she was very angry and scolded Yu Huanshui. Can you buy a car with your current salary? Words are full of doubts.

I once read a sentence on the Internet: A good marriage can support each other and praise each other. In a bad marriage, one party must look down on the other and keep throwing cold water on the other.

It turned out that it was the money my mother kept for her before she died, but the money was borrowed by my good brother. After learning the reason, his wife Gan Hong's performance began to be different. I always feel that Yu Huanshui's emotional efforts are worthless in the eyes of his wife. Only money and material things are the most real.

In order to buy a car, Yu Huanshui had to ask his brother who borrowed his own money to pay back the money, while his former brother found a bunch of excuses to fool Yu Huanshui.

Pick up the car first, don't save money, buy a good car, look after the car, call him, money is not a problem, and transfer the ownership to him in minutes.

Poor Yu Huanshui, still believing it, went to see the car with great interest and chose to call his brother. As a result, people didn't answer the phone at all.

His wife looked at him again, thinking that Yu Huanshui was fooling her, taking her son back to her mother's house, and demanding money in a commanding tone before going home.

As the saying goes, it is easier to borrow money than to pay it back.

Originally, my wife looked down on Yu Huanshui, felt incompetent and lied.

Dr. Chapman, an expert in marriage and love, divided the language of love into five in his book Five Languages of Love. One of them is affirmative words: praise, encouragement, request rather than demand, and affirm your partner's self-worth.

However, Yu Huanshui was not affirmed by his wife Gan Hong, which is one of the reasons for their marriage.

Husband and wife run their own small family together, hoping that both sides will grow and make progress together, instead of one giving and the other denying.

Yu Huanshui went to his father-in-law's house to save face, exaggerating that the gift wine sent by the company was worth 2,000 yuan a bottle. Originally, Gan Hong's younger brother looked down on Yu Huanshui's family, so his sister-in-law ordered her son to check the price. What was originally worth 78 yuan was exaggerated to such a great extent.

I lied, and I had to lie again to save face. This time, Yu Huanshui's performance was once again discounted in the eyes of his wife and son. In order to save face, he is full of lies, untrustworthy and disliked.

Trust is the cornerstone of a happy marriage, and a marriage without trust is fragmented, blowing in the wind. Only when husband and wife trust each other can marriage be relaxed and lasting.

Marriage is a red light, leaving home is clean.

The family born in Huan water is also a mess. Father loves to drink, beat his mother and cheat. After the derailment, a new family was formed, and the stepmother forced her father to ask Yu Huanshui for money as a wedding gift for her son.

Father's "blood-sucking" demand for money

After Yu Huanshui refused directly, his father went directly to the company to make trouble and finally gave his father money. But my father was afraid that Huanshui would not give him living expenses again, and reminded him that this did not include living expenses.

The change of family background will also directly affect his three views, marriage and life.

Writer Shen Sanwu once said:

People can only keep growing and then try to reconcile with life. Accept an imperfect family and change your mind.

Adler once said that lucky people are cured by childhood all their lives, and unfortunate people are cured by childhood all their lives.

Yu Huanshui dared not resist, and his personality was like a soft persimmon, which was inseparable from his unhappy childhood.

Marriage can't escape divorce in the end. Being rejected by his wife and son is incompetence and distrust. Called "vampire" by his father.

The marriage between Yu Huanshui and Gan Hong came to an end, and finally love was crushed by real life.

Yu Huanshui is not necessarily a good husband, and Gan Hong is not necessarily a bad woman. Yu Huanshui has no skills and can't meet the material needs of Gan Hong. What Gan Hong needs is a husband with money, housing and skills.

In the adult world, there is never a simple word.

Life can't be smooth sailing, there are always many unpleasant things.

Every age group will have troubles, and the experience of Yu Huanshui, the protagonist in the play, is just a true portrayal of many people. The promotion in the workplace is bleak, the family marriage is unhappy, the family is troubled, and I am habitually afraid to speak lightly.

Through the plot, I seem to see my once bleak life.

Excellent people can always see better than themselves, and mediocre people can always see worse than themselves.

No matter how many times you fail, you have to deal with life, full of hope, time goes downstream and life goes against the current.