First, look on coldly.

The ancient Roman philosopher Epik Titus once said, "What matters is not what happens, but your reaction."

According to common sense, a person can't help but exclaim when he sees unexpected things; You will be proud when you encounter surprises; If something painful happens to you, you will find someone to complain to.

People will have a direct reaction to the change of things. Ugly face, frown, exaggerated gestures and weird eyes all reflect people's inner activities and views on the outside world.

People who are very shrewd, while being silent, will also impose a cover-up on their expressions-changing with the same.

The authorities are confused, and the bystanders are clear. People standing on the periphery, although far away from the "scene", can eliminate the interference of others and find the truth of the matter.

Second, be tactful.

There is a saying on the Internet: "Life is like a pencil that is constantly being used. It was sharp at first, and then it gradually became smooth. However, it is not good to be too smooth, which means it is almost time to cut. "

Freshmen like to sing high-profile and highlight themselves. After several setbacks and taunts, he will keep a low profile and hide his thoughts.

Knowing is knowing, and not knowing is not knowing. It is "ignorance" not to thoroughly analyze the ins and outs of things. At this time, when you speak, there will be deviations.

People live in the cracks. The more prominent you are, the easier it is to be calculated.

Our ancestors suggested that we "shoot the first bird with a gun." You can live more freely by hiding yourself in the crowd.

Very smart people have been erased by life and found a way to survive in society. He has a good life, but he is humble, not condescending, and does not laugh at himself.

However, people who are too tactful are prone to make the mistake of "being smarter than being smarter". He always evades when his interests are damaged, but when he is duplicitous and too shrewd in interpersonal communication, it is annoying. Therefore, shrewd people are tactful, take the initiative to take responsibility and distinguish right from wrong.

Third, be good at hiding.

Follow the rut and you will find the car; Follow the footprints, you can find people; You can find houses and villages along the smoke; Follow the stream and you will find the big river. ......

The wind comes and goes, but it can be found in the leaves.

It is not easy for a person to hide himself. As the saying goes, the fox's tail is always exposed.

People who are shrewd can't completely erase the traces of life, but hide important information by distracting others and creating new traces, so as not to let others grasp the handle.

The small ones are hidden in the wild, and the big ones are hidden in the city. The master walks in the street, but leads a quiet life without being disturbed.

Fourth, never fraternize.

The ancients said, "A friendship between gentlemen is as light as water."

A true good friend is a kind of plain communication, and you don't need to interfere with each other's life and career too much. Even if we don't contact each other for several years, we can still help our friends when they are in trouble.

Friends who often get together to eat and drink, friends who praise in the circle of friends every day, and friends who chat in the group will "go their separate ways" when it comes to the key. Friendship cannot stand the test.

People with deep talent have few friends, but the quality of making friends is very high. I can do anything for my friends.

Many people think that people with deep talent are insidious and cunning, and they will avoid them as soon as they meet. Actually, it's not like this. Smart is a life attitude, and it is a kind of wisdom to treat people. This attitude gives people the impression that they are "very quiet and always in the dark".

However, you have to believe that a shrewd person will not hurt others casually.

However, people who are shrewd would rather have no friends than make friends casually. He prefers to be alone and be himself.