I still remember that on the day when Lan Lan gave birth, I went to the hospital with some friends. Of course, her husband's family was there. After a long wait, mother and son are finally safe.
Light light blue was delivered by caesarean section. When she woke up, we all celebrated for her. The baby is even cuter, but it is basically held by her mother-in-law, who refuses to give up.
Light light blue wants to hug the baby, but her mother-in-law has always refused, saying it was a caesarean section, fearing that the baby's wound would hurt. She looks like a "good mother-in-law in China", which made us all envy at that time. Light light blue not only gave birth to a lovely big fat boy, but even her mother-in-law loved her so much.
However, when I visited Lan Lan's house recently, I felt as if I had become a different person, a little depressed and depressed. I asked her, "You won't get postpartum depression, will you?" Light light blue said helplessly that before the child is full moon, he has to cook, wash clothes and look after the child himself.
I looked surprised and asked, "You are in confinement now, so you shouldn't have a good rest. Didn't your mother-in-law care about you? " I think she was fine when she was in hospital. "Light light blue a face of injustice, said her mother-in-law changed after coming home from the hospital.
The first few days were good, especially when Lan Lan's husband was at home. He was as busy as a daughter, and when her husband went out (Lan Lan's husband is a cashier and often needs to travel), he changed.
I often make something greasy for light light blue. Because I can't get a reasonable diet, the blue milk is not enough and even goes back to milk. Seeing the child crying with hunger, light light blue was anxious and angry.
When her mother-in-law saw that light light blue didn't eat much, she blamed light light blue. "You either eat or don't eat. If you don't eat, you can make it yourself. I can't serve you! I even rebelled against my Ma You. I'll wait on you. You are still very picky. You want to starve my great grandson with you! "
When Lan Lan's husband came back, her mother-in-law was a different person at once. When light light blue thought of her husband's return, she had her own support. She wants to talk to her husband about her grievances. I didn't expect my mother-in-law to complain first, saying that light light blue is very picky and she is not satisfied with adding nutrition to her every day.
? Light light blue's husband is very angry. He blamed light light blue, saying that his mother was an age and he had to wait for light light blue and help take care of the children. What else does he want from his mother? Light light blue is very sad to hear the news. The mother-in-law even encouraged the husband and wife to sleep in separate rooms, saying that the child would cry in the middle of the night, which would affect his son's sleep and he could not concentrate on his work the next day.
The relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law has been a very sharp topic since ancient times. Mother-in-law is a n experienced person, so she should understand her daughter-in-law's difficulties from the beginning. You can't even take care of her confinement. Will people take care of you wholeheartedly when you get sick in the future?
Take care of your heart, your mother-in-law is your mother, and your daughter-in-law is your filial daughter. Treat your heart with sincerity and make your family full of love.